Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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i doubt ya'll remember about me posting earlier on in the year, round valentine's how i been tryna smash this young milf with a body like :lawd:

anyways, she was going thru a divorce and i saw the opportunity to throw bait. Sure enough she was on some BS :aicmon: so i stopped talking to her and deleted her number.

homegirl hit my e-mail up 3 hours ago on some "hey how's it going? i'm coming back to school in january and wanted to know how university is. I also for some reason don't have your number anymore" :aicmon::childplease::mjpls::camby:

so i simply shot back saying "wassup. School is going good. As for the transition, it was overwhelming at first but as long as you get a system down pat, you should be good. It also depends on what major you going into as some majors are harder than others."

i purposely left my number out cuz i know how this broad is. :francis:

she replied back "what's your #" :mjlol::upsetfavre:

advice brehs? :patrice:

i'm leanin towards asking why or ignoring it altogether.
 

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@Emperor_ReinScarf @Asantehene @TRUEST @DaRealness

i doubt ya'll remember about me posting earlier on in the year, round valentine's how i been tryna smash this young milf with a body like :lawd:

anyways, she was going thru a divorce and i saw the opportunity to throw bait. Sure enough she was on some BS :aicmon: so i stopped talking to her and deleted her number.

homegirl hit my e-mail up 3 hours ago on some "hey how's it going? i'm coming back to school in january and wanted to know how university is. I also for some reason don't have your number anymore" :aicmon::childplease::mjpls::camby:

so i simply shot back saying "wassup. School is going good. As for the transition, it was overwhelming at first but as long as you get a system down pat, you should be good. It also depends on what major you going into as some majors are harder than others."

i purposely left my number out cuz i know how this broad is. :francis:

she replied back "what's your #" :mjlol::upsetfavre:

advice brehs? :patrice:

i'm leanin towards asking why or ignoring it altogether.

try to avoid sitting on the phone with this broad past 5 minutes. make sure ur the one that ends the conversation on some, hey, it was really good hearing from you. i miss you. when are you free to get together.

see, with chicks like this that play games. u goto be very blunt with them. ask her to get together and if shes being wishy washy with her answers, be like, seems like ur schedule is up in the air right now. why dont u figure it out sweetheart, and get back to me. i miss you and i really like to see you. then end the convo.

u keep doing this to a chick each time she hits you up, she'll get the point. she'll either leave u alone or she'll suggest when to meet up. i personally avoid talking on the phone unless its a chick i havent met and she's being a lil lackadaisical about meeting. it is then i hit them up to set up a date. in the process of seduction, a man's voice is often an underestimated weapon that can be used, quite effectively, to disarm a guarded woman.
 

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try to avoid sitting on the phone with this broad past 5 minutes. make sure ur the one that ends the conversation on some, hey, it was really good hearing from you. i miss you. when are you free to get together.

see, with chicks like this that play games. u goto be very blunt with them. ask her to get together and if shes being wishy washy with her answers, be like, seems like ur schedule is up in the air right now. why dont u figure it out sweetheart, and get back to me. i miss you and i really like to see you. then end the convo.

u keep doing this to a chick each time she hits you up, she'll get the point. she'll either leave u alone or she'll suggest when to meet up. i personally avoid talking on the phone unless its a chick i havent met and she's being a lil lackadaisical about meeting. it is then i hit them up to set up a date. in the process of seduction, a man's voice is often an underestimated weapon that can be used, quite effectively, to disarm a guarded woman.

i agree with you on the voice disarming a woman. Thing is me and her always used to text.

she brought up kicking it. she brought up the fact that she was going thru a divorce and when i asked her what her schedule was, she gave me the standard bullshyt about her being busy the next few weeks or shyt. I knew what her game was so i told her to do her thing. She asked when my mid-semester break was (which was all just a ploy to make it seem she was about it even though she just wanted to keep me around) and i knew that too so i said in 2 weeks (at that time). She said how about then and i said tomorrow is not guaranteed so anything could happen in 2 weeks. I deleted her number then cuz i knew she was BS'in and wasn't about her words.

Right now, balls in my court...which is why i either wanna ask why she want my number for, ask if she about smashing or ignore it altogether?
 

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How would you guys treat girls who flake on dates but then randomly hit you up with some bullshyt texts?

This girl texted me earlier asking an irrelevant question about a mutual friend.

It felt forced like she was trying to start a convo with me.

I gave her a one word reply and she hits me with a "Oh" with like 4 laughing emojis. A little too much of a reaction for the dry ass text I sent her.

What do you guys think?
 

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@Emperor_ReinScarf @Asantehene @TRUEST @DaRealness

i doubt ya'll remember about me posting earlier on in the year, round valentine's how i been tryna smash this young milf with a body like :lawd:

anyways, she was going thru a divorce and i saw the opportunity to throw bait. Sure enough she was on some BS :aicmon: so i stopped talking to her and deleted her number.

homegirl hit my e-mail up 3 hours ago on some "hey how's it going? i'm coming back to school in january and wanted to know how university is. I also for some reason don't have your number anymore" :aicmon::childplease::mjpls::camby:

so i simply shot back saying "wassup. School is going good. As for the transition, it was overwhelming at first but as long as you get a system down pat, you should be good. It also depends on what major you going into as some majors are harder than others."

i purposely left my number out cuz i know how this broad is. :francis:

she replied back "what's your #" :mjlol::upsetfavre:

advice brehs? :patrice:

i'm leanin towards asking why or ignoring it altogether.

Give her your number. If you're asking what todo in order to smash keep ignoring her and let her choose you. You should always have th busier schedule not her.
 

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@Emperor_ReinScarf @Asantehene @TRUEST @DaRealness

i doubt ya'll remember about me posting earlier on in the year, round valentine's how i been tryna smash this young milf with a body like :lawd:

anyways, she was going thru a divorce and i saw the opportunity to throw bait. Sure enough she was on some BS :aicmon: so i stopped talking to her and deleted her number.

homegirl hit my e-mail up 3 hours ago on some "hey how's it going? i'm coming back to school in january and wanted to know how university is. I also for some reason don't have your number anymore" :aicmon::childplease::mjpls::camby:

so i simply shot back saying "wassup. School is going good. As for the transition, it was overwhelming at first but as long as you get a system down pat, you should be good. It also depends on what major you going into as some majors are harder than others."

i purposely left my number out cuz i know how this broad is. :francis:

she replied back "what's your #" :mjlol::upsetfavre:

advice brehs? :patrice:

i'm leanin towards asking why or ignoring it altogether.

Personally if it was me I wouldn't give her my number and ignore her altogether.

I don't phuck with anybody on some bullshyt who then later hits me up when it's convenient for them and when they have nothing else to do. I respect and value myself more than that.

Sex isn't guaranteed anyway and even if it was, as a man you have to be way more disciplined and say no. I know we live in a society that shames men who ARE disciplined (just look at the flack that dude in the gas station caught from social media from men AND women) but it is what is. Real people with their minds right will respect you for it.

Of course, it's up to you, but when she flakes again you're gonna be left feeling stupid and kicking yourself for not throwing it to the bushes. I don't ask "why" anymore. Been there and done that. I've my learned my lessons and very clued up to how people operate. Maybe I have a little too much pride, but I'd rather that than be made a fool of.
 

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How would you guys treat girls who flake on dates but then randomly hit you up with some bullshyt texts?

This girl texted me earlier asking an irrelevant question about a mutual friend.

It felt forced like she was trying to start a convo with me.

I gave her a one word reply and she hits me with a "Oh" with like 4 laughing emojis. A little too much of a reaction for the dry ass text I sent her.

What do you guys think?

See my reply to @RealAssanova
 

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Personally if it was me I wouldn't give her my number and ignore her altogether.

I don't phuck with anybody on some bullshyt who then later hits me up when it's convenient for them and when they have nothing else to do. I respect and value myself more than that.

Sex isn't guaranteed anyway and even if it was, as a man you have to be way more disciplined and say no. I know we live in a society that shames men who ARE disciplined (just look at the flack that dude in the gas station caught from social media from men AND women) but it is what is. Real people with their minds right will respect you for it.

Of course, it's up to you, but when she flakes again you're gonna be left feeling stupid and kicking yourself for not throwing it to the bushes. I don't ask "why" anymore. Been there and done that. I've my learned my lessons and very clued up to how people operate. Maybe I have a little too much pride, but I'd rather that than be made a fool of.

I simply replied back by sayin saturday night at your spot. You down?

I ain't giving her my number and if she comes up with anything other than sure or doesn't reply at all, i'm deleting the message.
 

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She replied back with "???" as if i wasn't clear with my intentions. :rudy:

:camby:

LOL I knew it would be nothing but some b.s. :heh: That's why I say the things I do because I can see that nonsense from miles away even from the smallest things. It saves you a lot of frustration and annoyance when you pick up on it and immediately move on. The problem with a lot of dudes is that they give these broads second chances when the universe already sends them a small sign that the chick is a waste of time. People will always show you better than they tell you, but I'm seeing too much "well I'll just do this one last thing and see if she bites" in this thread.

It's a shame that people can't just be straightforward nowadays but that's the way of the world now.
 
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