Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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In person. I had texted her two weeks ago on back 2 back days and she didnt reply. For 2 weeks i saw her in person everyday too and she didnt say anything. Then today she randomly decided to say hi and i was like naw :camby:

Probably what happened was that "situation" of hers is out of the picture (even temporarily) and she was trying to see if she still had you on the hook
 

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Told a girl I've been seeing more than a year that I needed a break.

She's a great girl. More than loved me. But, she caused me so much stress and anxiety. Every sentence I uttered, every decision I did or did not take. I felt over-analyzed to the extent where I felt the relationship was suffocating me. It began to affect my sleeping patterns which affected school, work and tests I'm preparing for in order to advance to the next step in my life. So I told her I needed a break.

One of her many responses was, "I'll never contact you again."

My initial feelings of sadness are being slowly overwhelmed by my new feelings of freedom :jawalrus:

:blessed:

Anyone in life causing you excess stress and anxiety and causing so many problems needs to be removed, I don't even care if they're a family member. There's no loss there.

I've found that once you get rid of toxic people you feel like a huge weight has been lifted off your shoulders.
 
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She's a great girl. More than loved me. But, she caused me so much stress and anxiety. Every sentence I uttered, every decision I did or did not take. I felt over-analyzed to the extent where I felt the relationship was suffocating me. It began to affect my sleeping patterns which affected school, work and tests I'm preparing for in order to advance to the next step in my life. So I told her I needed a break.

One of her many responses was, "I'll never contact you again."

My initial feelings of sadness are being slowly overwhelmed by my new feelings of freedom :jawalrus:

:blessed:

She is not a great girl. She never loved you. Imagine treating a Woman like she treated you. Does that come from a good place? No it comes from ignorance and insecurity.

I see a lot of dudes out here with women problems

Welcome to American Life.:francis:
 

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Brehs someone put me on game..This has been happening alot recently. I dont have a problem attracting women, just keeping them:dead:

Ive started school in '12, was struggling and took about 2 yrs to get my academics/financial situation straight. Fcked around and got a full ride to an HBCU:blessed:plus a military check every month.

I think these females think im "boring" breh:patrice:Im not interested in that fraternity shii, i dont club on the regular, and granted the school is relatively small but im not involved in too much on campus (yet). I just be chillin, write for the school paper, was helping with a radio show run by my boy down the hall, and play 2k with my boys:mjlol:and if its a kickback we'll head out sometimes. Its like these young girls want someone to take them clubbing. Shii is wild because these females will be interested until they find out what i like to do for fun:manny:like we're on different wavelengths...I even lowered my standards a lil bit. Maybe these "average" women are more chill like me.


Am i trippen or do i just need to change the type i women i go after.
 

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Brehs someone put me on game..This has been happening alot recently. I dont have a problem attracting women, just keeping them:dead:

Ive started school in '12, was struggling and took about 2 yrs to get my academics/financial situation straight. Fcked around and got a full ride to an HBCU:blessed:plus a military check every month.

I think these females think im "boring" breh:patrice:Im not interested in that fraternity shii, i dont club on the regular, and granted the school is relatively small but im not involved in too much on campus (yet). I just be chillin, write for the school paper, was helping with a radio show run by my boy down the hall, and play 2k with my boys:mjlol:and if its a kickback we'll head out sometimes. Its like these young girls want someone to take them clubbing. Shii is wild because these females will be interested until they find out what i like to do for fun:manny:like we're on different wavelengths...I even lowered my standards a lil bit. Maybe these "average" women are more chill like me.


Am i trippen or do i just need to change the type i women i go after.

You're in college breh. The majority of women in college like to club/go out when it comes to having "hobbies". I'm an introverted dude and hate the club but just suck it up and go wit my boys when I'm lookin to add to the roster because that's probably one of the best places to do so at my age/stage in life. Fake it till you make it man. Are there no girls who write for the paper that you can kick it with? Or is there a journalism club on campus? If so that's your best bet for women with the same interest as you.
 
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