Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Chrome2279]

Naw have morals and respect the game . This will also show your better than her. She's a lousy bytch for wanting to sleep with another man outside of her marriage. It women like her the reason why this thread exist.

Okay I gotta admit, I didn't mean what I said... just wanted someone to read that response, that went through that same situation.
You know the deal, say something to a friend they won't listen till they hear the same shyt from someone else.

So thank you Breh! This thread is saving lives!

 

[Gus Money]

So many mind games man

Damn, man. That's rough. The good news is she isn't making huge dramatic scenes but that behavior is still mad awkward to deal with. She sounds very young and you know how chicks in their early 20s are. Hopefully she will cut it out once she sees that you're serious about cutting women off after a relationship. Do you plan on staying at that job for a while?

that....doesn't seem that bad

Yeah I was going to comment the same way..

Really? That's interesting because it sounds pretty bad to me. I know she isn't making huge, crazy scenes but that type of behavior is very unprofessional and can cause significant problems at work (especially dealing with a white chick because she will get the benefit of the doubt if it ever does blow up).

It could be worse of course, but dealing with those minds games at work, where you can't just walk away, can cause some serious issues. Especially if it's a long term position that you can't quit at the drop of a hat.

 

[Auger]

Really? That's interesting because it sounds pretty bad to me. I know she isn't making huge, crazy scenes but that type of behavior is very unprofessional and can cause significant problems at work (especially dealing with a white chick because she will get the benefit of the doubt if it ever does blow up).

It could be worse of course, but dealing with those minds games at work, where you can't just walk away, can cause some serious issues. Especially if it's a long term position that you can't quit at the drop of a hat.

I was honestly expecting you to tell some long out drama that involved HR etc...

All that you're going through is tame, and is almost expected in the beginning of any relationship, you just happen to see her everyday.

If it bothers you, refuse to play.

 

[MalikReloaded]

I was honestly expecting you to tell some long out drama that involved HR etc...

All that you're going through is tame, and is almost expected in the beginning of any relationship, you just happen to see her everyday.

If it bothers you, refuse to play.

No no....it has nothing to do with compromising my job or anything like that

I don't think she would ever do that to me (at least i hope not)

It's just annoying female behavior. She broke things off but, she won't leave me alone. It's irritating.

 

[TRUEST]

If is a woman is married, and you just want to smash, and she's into you. Would you do it? I'm conflicted brehs!

i did it once about 3 years ago but had to cut that shyt off cause my conscience was getting the best of me. granted, the only reason i did it was cause i had just broken up with a chick i really liked. and this married chick practically walked in front of me as me and my boy was chilling in the car. i had to holler.

her reason for stepping out on her husband was cause he was doing (or at least trying to do) dirt on her. she had read a lot of his texts and messages, confronted him about it. did a lot of talking. but dude was still doing his.

gotta say, the decision to stop talking to her was one of the most difficult i've had to make in a relationship lol. that ass was next level.

 

[Chrome2279]

i did it once about 3 years ago but had to cut that shyt off cause my conscience was getting the best of me. granted, the only reason i did it was cause i had just broken up with a chick i really liked. and this married chick practically walked in front of me as me and my boy was chilling in the car. i had to holler.

her reason for stepping out on her husband was cause he was doing (or at least trying to do) dirt on her. she had read a lot of his texts and messages, confronted him about it. did a lot of talking. but dude was still doing his.

gotta say, the decision to stop talking to her was one of the most difficult i've had to make in a relationship lol. that ass was next level.

Yeah I don't know if I could ever do that, growing up in a family that had my mom and dad cheating on each other was rough on me and my sister. I am not sure I could ever be the cause of breaking another man or woman's family home for the sake of a one night stand. If you're single and cheating/playing that's one thing, but if you're married that's a whole nother game especially if kids are included in the marriage. That's a lot to bear since you never know how you impact someone else's life. (basically their kids etc) I guess sometimes you have to have some self respect for yourself and others even when the married cheater doesn't have any respect for themselves.

Hell any person that is not at least legally separated, that would rather cheat than to put their family first and work out what ever issues they have with their wife/husband for the sake of their marriage vows and children ain't worth shyt.

 

[TRUEST]

Yeah I don't know if I could ever do that, growing up in a family that had my mom and dad cheating on each other was rough on me and my sister. I am not sure I could ever be the cause of breaking another man or woman's family home for the sake of a one night stand. If you're single and cheating/playing that's one thing, but if you're married that's a whole nother game especially if kids are included in the marriage. That's a lot to bear since you never know how you impact someone else's life. (basically their kids etc) I guess sometimes you have to have some self respect for yourself and others even when the married cheater doesn't have any respect for themselves.

yeah dont do it

 

[Gus Money]

I was honestly expecting you to tell some long out drama that involved HR etc...

All that you're going through is tame, and is almost expected in the beginning of any relationship, you just happen to see her everyday.

If it bothers you, refuse to play.

I'm not in the situation but the bolded is why he originally said dating a coworker was a mistake. It sounds tame when you don't have to see her every day but he doesn't have a choice, hence why I said it's a rough situation. Nobody needs that awkwardness at work.

No no....it has nothing to do with compromising my job or anything like that

I don't think she would ever do that to me (at least i hope not)

It's just annoying female behavior. She broke things off but, she won't leave me alone. It's irritating.

Hopefully she will fall back after a while but yeah, it's stupid that she would act like that after being the one to break things off. I would save any text messages she sends you as evidence in case it does end up with some HR drama.

 

[MalikReloaded]

Damn, man. That's rough. The good news is she isn't making huge dramatic scenes but that behavior is still mad awkward to deal with. She sounds very young and you know how chicks in their early 20s are. Hopefully she will cut it out once she sees that you're serious about cutting women off after a relationship. Do you plan on staying at that job for a while?



Really? That's interesting because it sounds pretty bad to me. I know she isn't making huge, crazy scenes but that type of behavior is very unprofessional and can cause significant problems at work (especially dealing with a white chick because she will get the benefit of the doubt if it ever does blow up).

It could be worse of course, but dealing with those minds games at work, where you can't just walk away, can cause some serious issues. Especially if it's a long term position that you can't quit at the drop of a hat.

I'm applying to different places. Because it's awkward now, she is another reason for making me want to leave but, I've been trying to get back down to the D.C. area for a while now. I figure once I get a job down there, this chapter will be over and done with for good.

 

[Auger]

It's only as awkward as you allow it to be.

I've done (or currently in) a similar situation and you just have to ignore it.

You mentioned that you casually check her Facebook profile, you still have feelings or no?

 

[TRUEST]

It's only as awkward as you allow it to be.

I've done (or currently in) a similar situation and you just have to ignore it.

You mentioned that you casually check her Facebook profile, you still have feelings or no?

she broke up with him so of course he still has feelings. he needs to be careful though. he seems to be more into her than she is into him and i know this because SHE broke up with him. girls dont break up with guys they really like.

anyway, im not gonna say folks shouldn't sleep with coworkers. but if ur black and they're not, u need to be extra careful.

 

[Youseenmywork]

 

[Youseenmywork]

EVERY MAN NEEDS TO LEARN TO PLAY CHESS....PERIOD.

 

[MalikReloaded]

she broke up with him so of course he still has feelings. he needs to be careful though. he seems to be more into her than she is into him and i know this because SHE broke up with him. girls dont break up with guys they really like.

anyway, im not gonna say folks shouldn't sleep with coworkers. but if ur black and they're not, u need to be extra careful.

It's only as awkward as you allow it to be.

I've done (or currently in) a similar situation and you just have to ignore it.

You mentioned that you casually check her Facebook profile, you still have feelings or no?

Yea, I do. At first I was butt hurt and I ignored her. She ignored back and it was hostile at work. Cold war hostile. So to keep the work environment friendly i swallowed it and tried to be as polite and cordial as possible. If its anything work related I'll help, otherwise I just want to keep my distance and keep things moving. She's the one trying to blur the line. Once I started being somewhat polite, she took it as a cue to do whatever she's trying to do again. I'm not showing up in her work area or hanging around her trying to talk doing all types of weird shyt. She's doing that. Like you said, she broke it off, which makes the behavior all the more irritating.

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

If she was single i would proceed full steam ahead...but I'm not the fukk another nikkas chick type of dude

Me neither.
At my new job, its this fatttttt booty chick that always talk to me. Thursday i found out she's into the same deep shyt that im into. But she mentioned her husband. all the good ones are always taken. After our conversation, if she didnt have a dude i swear i woulda cuffed