Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Rocket Scientist]

I'mma start saying wild ish to chicks I match with on Tinder.

I ain't got nothin to lose.

Let us know the results

 

[jadillac]

So experts.. I'm really fukking annoyed and don't really know what the right play is

So I live with my gf and one of the more annoying things about her is that she strongly believes (incorrectly) that we need to let warm food sit out in room temp and cool down for hours before putting it in the fridge. She thinks the food will spoil and she'll get sick if you put food in the fridge right away, despite the fact that science, common sense, the Department of Health, etc. would tell you the exact opposite - warm leftovers should be put in the fridge to cool right away because room temp is the danger zone for bacteria growth.

Now, just having that belief in and of itself isn't the annoying thing. We can debate and talk about things and whatever. But she refuses to debate this. She will fukking fight me over this, jump out of bed and run into the kitchen to give me the third degree if she hears me putting away warm food. Even if I show her links from reputable sources saying that what she does is actually NOT safe, she will still start a fight and say she knows what she's talking about because her mother and grandmother told her, etc. etc.

But I'm not going to put my own health at risk by letting warm food just sit out in room temp every night letting bacteria grow just to appease her, because she is just flat wrong. I know it seems trivial but this shyt started a mini war last night. What is your play?

that crazy breh. Sounds like she just has a phobia about this for whatever reason. Maybe she got sick or something when she was younger and someonetold her that was the reason.

I personally let food cool down before I put it up. I mean unless it's summertime and it's hot in your house, food can stay out for awhile before puting it up. Has she not been to parties or functions where food is sitting out for ppl to eat? I mean when you go to Thanksgiving dinner, the food sits out for 2-3 hours sometimes.

 

[resurrection]

your 100% right ,what she doing isnt safe at all Your health matters to you,no matter how hard we jump thru hoops to change a woman,her thinking will always be her thinking.A part of me thinks she is testing you to see if you will break

Yeah.. Exactly. To me, it's not a huge deal that she believes that because we're only leaving the food out until it cools off, then putting it in the fridge so the health risk is minimal. And it's not THAT much of an inconvenience unless I'm about ready to go to sleep and I have to wait for it. The problem lies in her complete lack of desire to listen to reason or respect my thoughts on the matter. Just flat out said "I'm not debating this" like wtf. I love her, and we've been together for a while and I wanna be with her, but this isn't the first time she has tried to shut down all discourse on topics we disagree on. It really makes me question if this is someone I can be with for the long term.

that crazy breh. Sounds like she just has a phobia about this for whatever reason. Maybe she got sick or something when she was younger and someonetold her that was the reason.

I personally let food cool down before I put it up. I mean unless it's summertime and it's hot in your house, food can stay out for awhile before puting it up. Has she not been to parties or functions where food is sitting out for ppl to eat? I mean when you go to Thanksgiving dinner, the food sits out for 2-3 hours sometimes.

You're right. She said she got sick from it before, which I know is bullshyt because it's not scientifically accurate. Unless she put a gigantic vat of something scalding hot in the fridge before cooling it in ice first, there's no way this happened with just an ordinary little container of leftovers. But you can't tell her nothin' once she has an idea in her head. I've been in several relationships and have lots of married (or settled down) friends, and hear this often. But this just doesn't seem like something I should just "get used to" because "women are like that". Even if it's just a handful of issues here or there, it is such a turnoff and a frustration for your partner to act like that, replacing productive conversation with yelling and denial. Makes me wanna just say fukk it sometimes.

 

[Shameonyou]

what do yall think of women that like having male perspectives and being around male energy while being in a relationship with someone....even though they arent cheating on their partner?

 

[Throwbacksample]

I posted a pic with me and a chick on IG and lost like 20 followers in 10 minutes

She must have been attractive

 

[MikelArteta]

what do yall think of women that like having male perspectives and being around male energy while being in a relationship with someone....even though they arent cheating on their partner?

ho's
only male i want my girl around is me

no such thing as a male friend just dudes who have smashed and dudes who want to smash

 

[MikelArteta]

So experts.. I'm really fukking annoyed and don't really know what the right play is

So I live with my gf and one of the more annoying things about her is that she strongly believes (incorrectly) that we need to let warm food sit out in room temp and cool down for hours before putting it in the fridge. She thinks the food will spoil and she'll get sick if you put food in the fridge right away, despite the fact that science, common sense, the Department of Health, etc. would tell you the exact opposite - warm leftovers should be put in the fridge to cool right away because room temp is the danger zone for bacteria growth.

Now, just having that belief in and of itself isn't the annoying thing. We can debate and talk about things and whatever. But she refuses to debate this. She will fukking fight me over this, jump out of bed and run into the kitchen to give me the third degree if she hears me putting away warm food. Even if I show her links from reputable sources saying that what she does is actually NOT safe, she will still start a fight and say she knows what she's talking about because her mother and grandmother told her, etc. etc.

But I'm not going to put my own health at risk by letting warm food just sit out in room temp every night letting bacteria grow just to appease her, because she is just flat wrong. I know it seems trivial but this shyt started a mini war last night. What is your play?

lol i was brought up to always let food cool down before putting it in the fridge


stand your ground, women nag over the littlest things.

 

[Youseenmywork]

 

[Youseenmywork]

 

[Saysumthinfunnymike]

I mistakenly drank spoiled milk when I was like 4 and it was so fukking nasty that now if the milk is within a day of the date I throw it out and I constantly am smelling it to see if it's good. It's a habit but its better than making that mistake again.

So my advice is to let the food thing slide

 

[superunknown23]

 

[Bald Head Ba$tard]

I'm 27 and I've just accepted that nikkaz that claim they're "nice guys" are really some fukking fakkits.

They bytch, piss and moan over girls NOT liking them, and use this whole "nice guy" bs as an excuse to why they're being treated like shyt.

No, y'all are not "nice" y'all are fukking narcissistic, creeping ass nikkaz that ain't getting no ass.

A nikka that is "nice" is not going to brag about being it. the dude is going to be it.

Same with an a$$hole nikka. He ain't gotta tell you he's one. He verbally shows you that and physically.

 

[Jaw-Breaka]

Its fukked up kent killed himself

 

[Jaw-Breaka]

I'm 27 and I've just accepted that nikkaz that claim they're "nice guys" are really some fukking fakkits.

They bytch, piss and moan over girls NOT liking them, and use this whole "nice guy" bs as an excuse to why they're being treated like shyt.

No, y'all are not "nice" y'all are fukking narcissistic, creeping ass nikkaz that ain't getting no ass.

A nikka that is "nice" is not going to brag about being it. the dude is going to be it.

Same with an a$$hole nikka. He ain't gotta tell you he's one. He verbally shows you that and physically.

Nice guys aint creeps or none of that other shyt you said

Just lame simps ,they usually learn the hard way over time

You talking about the elliot rodger types

 

[Jaw-Breaka]

I posted a pic with me and a chick on IG and lost like 20 followers in 10 minutes

Why?