Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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was damn near shocked when the last girl i went out with insisted on going dutch. first, she paid for both our drinks when i stepped away to inspect where we were going to be seated. i thought "hmm". then, after the dinner, she had a serious look on her face when i said this is embarrassing, i appreciate u offering to pay, put that way. shes like nah. i'm paying. we ended up making out at the end of the night (yeah i know). but i was impressed.

she has issues i cant deal with (she has kids). but i was legit stunned by her logic on why she pays.

women today, its one of the signs i look for if a girl never offers to pay or insists on paying. these are the girls that have a hard time having compassion and u should be wary of them.

Even if you don't buy anything, find out what I like to eat and learn how to make that shyt, I would be happy with that. Some women can't even do that.
 

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I think I need to take like a few months off women. I just want to focus on some of the goals I wanna hit this winter, like finishing my book. I'm not still thinking about my ex but, she's made me just want to swear off women for a while. Like I just had this fly azz chick, thick with big lips and natural hair try to pick me up, asking me all types of silly questions, trying to talk and the whole time I was like :aicmon: She was cute too. I'm just not in the mind for it right now.
 
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So to those who remember my last post about the chick from work. We already had sex and now we're in a relationship.
:yeshrug:

She told me last week that ima have to say I LOVE YOU FIRST. Just two days ago she was singing I WANNA DANCE WITH SOMEBODY by Whitney Houston and when she said the WITH SOMEBODY WHO LOVES ME part, she told me on the phone :noah: WHY YOU WON'T JUST TELL ME WHAT I WANNA HEAR?!

I do care about her and think of her alot but :whoa: . Im not saying that word first (i hope). Seems like women tend to run away when you say it first
 

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So to those who remember my last post about the chick from work. We already had sex and now we're in a relationship.
:yeshrug:

She told me last week that ima have to say I LOVE YOU FIRST. Just two days ago she was singing I WANNA DANCE WITH SOMEBODY by Whitney Houston and when she said the WITH SOMEBODY WHO LOVES ME part, she told me on the phone :noah: WHY YOU WON'T JUST TELL ME WHAT I WANNA HEAR?!

I do care about her and think of her alot but :whoa: . Im not saying that word first (i hope). Seems like women tend to run away when you say it first

:snoop:

You know you dun fukked up right :ufdup:
 

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So to those who remember my last post about the chick from work. We already had sex and now we're in a relationship.
:yeshrug:

She told me last week that ima have to say I LOVE YOU FIRST. Just two days ago she was singing I WANNA DANCE WITH SOMEBODY by Whitney Houston and when she said the WITH SOMEBODY WHO LOVES ME part, she told me on the phone :noah: WHY YOU WON'T JUST TELL ME WHAT I WANNA HEAR?!

I do care about her and think of her alot but :whoa: . Im not saying that word first (i hope). Seems like women tend to run away when you say it first

Dont say it
 

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-Never let a chick know how much you want her, always play it cool. Dont come on too strong.


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One of the premiere quotes on this thread. Had to up to keep shiit fresh and familiar.


So to those who remember my last post about the chick from work. We already had sex and now we're in a relationship.
:yeshrug:

She told me last week that ima have to say I LOVE YOU FIRST. Just two days ago she was singing I WANNA DANCE WITH SOMEBODY by Whitney Houston and when she said the WITH SOMEBODY WHO LOVES ME part, she told me on the phone :noah: WHY YOU WON'T JUST TELL ME WHAT I WANNA HEAR?!

I do care about her and think of her alot but :whoa: . Im not saying that word first (i hope). Seems like women tend to run away when you say it first


You know you bumpin this right now breh...






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Girl been shytting on me lately because of my views on religion. Acting all high and mighty like she knows something I don't. I already see where this is going. :snoop:
Happens all the time with black chicks. What are your views
 

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Sometimes I wonder...are we as men overthinking women? I realized that today and wondered how things became so complicated...I definitely miss those old days. Now, you have to jump through so many hoops and play so many mind games, you start asking yourself, "is the juice worth the squeeze"?
 

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Sometimes I wonder...are we as men overthinking women? I realized that today and wondered how things became so complicated...I definitely miss those old days. Now, you have to jump through so many hoops and play so many mind games, you start asking yourself, "is the juice worth the squeeze"?

Don't play the mind games keep that shyt simple and if she ain't upfront with u don't waste ur time and keep it moving I find it attractive that a female who is upfront with her thoughts and feelings so I don't have to be going thru the hoops to figure what's up even tho I'm experienced enough to know if she is playing games and what she feels bout me
 

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was damn near shocked when the last girl i went out with insisted on going dutch. first, she paid for both our drinks when i stepped away to inspect where we were going to be seated. i thought "hmm". then, after the dinner, she had a serious look on her face when i said this is embarrassing, i appreciate u offering to pay, put that way. shes like nah. i'm paying. we ended up making out at the end of the night (yeah i know). but i was impressed.

she has issues i cant deal with (she has kids). but i was legit stunned by her logic on why she pays.

women today, its one of the signs i look for if a girl never offers to pay or insists on paying. these are the girls that have a hard time having compassion and u should be wary of them.
she got kids. Of course she gonna wine and dine you. You probably playing xbox with dem lil rugrats
 

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So to those who remember my last post about the chick from work. We already had sex and now we're in a relationship.
:yeshrug:

She told me last week that ima have to say I LOVE YOU FIRST. Just two days ago she was singing I WANNA DANCE WITH SOMEBODY by Whitney Houston and when she said the WITH SOMEBODY WHO LOVES ME part, she told me on the phone :noah: WHY YOU WON'T JUST TELL ME WHAT I WANNA HEAR?!

I do care about her and think of her alot but :whoa: . Im not saying that word first (i hope). Seems like women tend to run away when you say it first
How long y'all been dating :what:








And yeah, some single moms know they have to go Dutch or do shyt that they wouldn't normally do if they weren't single mothers.

I would just take that going dutch shyt with a grain of salt. Not saying to not date or talk to her, but see how long that shyt lasts.. Maybe she actually is done with the games
 

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How long y'all been dating :what:








And yeah, some single moms know they have to go Dutch or do shyt that they wouldn't normally do if they weren't single mothers.

I would just take that going dutch shyt with a grain of salt. Not saying to not date or talk to her, but see how long that shyt lasts.. Maybe she actually is done with the games

@FLYINHAWAIIAN
As someone who dated single moms more than non that Dutch shyt is a grain of salt u are right bout that.

I always tell people dating a single mom is not easy and most ain't cut out for it cuz they have a kid or maybe more than 1 then u got the baby daddy situation

For me not once had I had a issue with the baby daddy thing cuz he wasn't there at all

If it never worked out its cuz just didn't click enough to go to the serious level nothing more

Majority single moms I dated were nurses, bosses of a job, dentist etc...

I didn't go deliberating looking for those just ran into those in person or online and like most once they see a kid they like na can't mess with a single mom
I ate well enjoyed it and learned a lot from them to be honest and I never had a issue with another mans kids cuz my real father left when I was kid and my step father which I don't say stepped up and been with us since I was a kid and still is married to my mother to this day and plus I love kids and I'm good with them cuz of my mom does daycare since I was a kid so that also is a factor
 
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