Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[ChiefQueen]

Randomly take the condom off while fukking then say I think it broke. If she keep letting you smash, you gotta winner. If she dont, she's an untrustworthy bytch.

You tried it!

 

[DarkHorse23]

shyt it is what it is


But if she acts right and her child has a male around to influence and teach him, there's no wrong in that.
Its not about who's problem it is. But black kids need a Male role model in their life.

And you being the upstanding gentleman are going be that model for the child of a woman who sees you as the fallback option. SMH ok do you.

 

[MercuryHayes]

Last time i was in a relationship, the only things poppin were FB and Twitter.

I've been so on my "me" grind i stopped caring and having time for things like IG and never really used Snapchat. For me Its really a struggle to use Social media these days esp when i get the jokes on here. I remember i used to have time for that shyt, and cared about likes etc.

Are there any women who don't use social media? And by social media I mean women who don't have 95% of her followers/is following are men...a couple women sprinkled here and there. I basically was the male version of that

Do I have to get used to the fact a bad one is always going to want that attention? irregardless of if she's a cool person and the other positives. I can't settle for the average so does this really come w the territory?

 

[selectorZen]

Women require validation from their friends, other women, and especially men. Thats why you see so many women going to the bar wearing super tight skirts and clothing to get attention from the men, get them to buy them drinks, etc, then they call that one guy to get em to come pick em up from the club and they fukk him instead of the losers in the bar. its all about validation. they need that weekend fix of ego boost. its an addiction.

Social media is this times 100 cause its instant validation. do i look good? 50 likes on this pic, i guess not because i usually get 100.

 

[Lo-Co]

i have no words

 

[Lo-Co]

do you need social media to thrive in this dating world?

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

And you being the upstanding gentleman are going be that model for the child of a woman who sees you as the fallback option. SMH ok do you.

Breh unless you know her already, you don't know how she thinks. I admired I'm taking a risk but we can't keep letting these kids grow up with only a momma. That's why you got these tight pants, "hit the quan" ass youngster's now. At least the baby daddy ain't around period. Lemme cook a lil bit breh. He might grow up to be a strong black man because he met me. Or he might grow up and be a tranny because he was emotionally hurt and no dude wanted to stay with his momma

 

[XII]

You've known her for a few months, how you already talking about raising her son to be a strong black man

 

[Mr Hate Coffee]

So right now there are probably 3 women who hate my guts. The thing is I have done nothing to them. What's really going on is that they want to be with me and I don't want to be with them. Two of them I have had sex with and one I haven't.

Women kill me with letting their emotions get the best of them and blaming the guy. The problem is that I'm a genuinely good dude. Girls know that so they know I'll actually care when they text me 50 times, when they cry, etc.

Which brings me to my point... THERE ARE NO HALF MEASURES WITH THESE CHICKS.

You gotta be clear, consistent, and direct and sometimes hurt their feelings. They'll call you mean, but whatever. If you're nice to them they'll take it mean something it's not. shyt is


Now I see why nikkas like @Reinscarf are so cold-blooded with their actions.

 

[NeilCartwright]

So there's this chick im talking to in school. We're both juniors, but

-She works 4 jobs(20 hours a week though)
-Volunteers at an elementary school for one of her scholarships
-Was the valedictorian of her HS and is currently trying to bring up her GPA so school is important to her

But it seems like she never has time to chill or claims to be busy. I brought it up to her before we left for winter break and she basically said she was trying to get some things straightened out financially and academically.

I told her I was feeling her but can't wait around forever, feel meFcked up thing about it is we were supposed to get together tonight, I text to confirm, and she says she's about to do someone's hair (for $$) so she'll let me knowthis is some ol bullshyt!

Should I fall back or keep the relationship how it is now? Bear in mind I'm looking for new women, we aren't exclusive

 

[TRUEST]

So there's this chick im talking to in school. We're both juniors, but

-She works 4 jobs(20 hours a week though)
-Volunteers at an elementary school for one of her scholarships
-Was the valedictorian of her HS and is currently trying to bring up her GPA so school is important to her

But it seems like she never has time to chill or claims to be busy. I brought it up to her before we left for winter break and she basically said she was trying to get some things straightened out financially and academically.

I told her I was feeling her but can't wait around forever, feel meFcked up thing about it is we were supposed to get together tonight, I text to confirm, and she says she's about to do someone's hair (for $$) so she'll let me knowthis is some ol bullshyt!

Should I fall back or keep the relationship how it is now? Bear in mind I'm looking for new women, we aren't exclusive

Tell her to hit u up if she changes her mind. And leave it at that

 

[MalikReloaded]

Can you guys give me some applicable steps on how I can change my mindset and move further from the "nice" guy paradigm and closer to not giving a shyt about women. I think it's easier to not give a fukk and express how you REALLY feel about the opposite online, but being able to take all those feelings and apply them to your real life interactions with women is the challenge for me because even though i have a lot of bitterness i haven't crossed over to the point of "no return", but honestly i don't want to wait for that day to come. I want to start dealing with them the way you should, while remember it's needed and silly to continue having a soft heart for a group of individuals who don't give a shyt about you anyway.

Serious answers please.

You aint there yet playa. When you are, you won't have to ask.

 

[DarkHorse23]

You aint there yet playa. When you are, you won't have to ask.

Idk if that's a good thing or bad thing.

 

[Atlrocafella]

So there's this chick im talking to in school. We're both juniors, but

-She works 4 jobs(20 hours a week though)
-Volunteers at an elementary school for one of her scholarships
-Was the valedictorian of her HS and is currently trying to bring up her GPA so school is important to her

But it seems like she never has time to chill or claims to be busy. I brought it up to her before we left for winter break and she basically said she was trying to get some things straightened out financially and academically.

I told her I was feeling her but can't wait around forever, feel meFcked up thing about it is we were supposed to get together tonight, I text to confirm, and she says she's about to do someone's hair (for $$) so she'll let me knowthis is some ol bullshyt!

Should I fall back or keep the relationship how it is now? Bear in mind I'm looking for new women, we aren't exclusive

She's obviously busy fam (and not that fake busy), and she's not that interested enough in you to include you in her crazy schedule. Move on , if her load lightens up later on and she hits you, than cool, but I wouldn't press it.

 

[360dagod]

Idk if that's a good thing or bad thing.

if you grew up without a father figure like me,or with a father who is stuck in the old way of dealing with women, usually you gotta get done dirty to see shyt for what it is...

You gotta experience the shyt yourself..Then you gotta realize where you went wrong and fix it accordingly...