Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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eh this broad from the start takes mad long to respond. So am I being impatient.. She's been consistent with long ass response intervals :jbhmm:

Got no patience for broads that like to take mad long to text back
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To the bushes from which you came you go :stopitslime:


I can't stand that shyt either I straight up just hit the men in black memory erase button when they do that

I told wifey I expect her to only txt me on days of the week that end in Y only
She she stay fukking up and txt me everyday tho :troll:
 
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I can't stand that shyt either I straight up just hit the men in black memory erase button when they do that

I told wifey I expect her to only txt me on days of the week that end in Y only
She she stay fukking up and txt me everyday tho :troll:


haha imma steal that. that's legit man.
 
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Y'all talk to y'all women everyday? That's too much. Every other day is better.

Do y'all even talk to ya friends every damn day like that? Too much breh too much

if y'all are really vibing then it shouldn't feel tiresome. if you don't feel like talking to your woman that much (or more importantly, the reverse isn't true) then future prospects don't look good.
 

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if y'all are really vibing then it shouldn't feel tiresome. if you don't feel like talking to your woman that much (or more importantly, the reverse isn't true) then future prospects don't look good.
I don't agree. I taught my girl not to be all in my shyt by letting her watch the way I move and my routine.
 

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Y'all talk to y'all women everyday? That's too much. Every other day is better.

Do y'all even talk to ya friends every damn day like that? Too much breh too much

I got 4 kids and a dog I gotta talk to her everyday :russ:

And if I don't talk to her she will take my goodies even if I don't want her too :mjcry:

Breh be tired as a stay at home parent be wanna sleep not smash every night :to:
 

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nah that wasn't ur girl my dude. no one in this modern day age goes an entire 24 hours without talking to their significant other. that is not normal. at ALL unless yall live in different countries. even then, going days without hearing from each other is rare.

and with regards to chicks taking too long to respond, i'd use that as an opportunity to continue dating. obviously she's not serious..

My ex was on that shyt too. That's why i had options on deck and a exit strategy
 
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Dont accept women taking hours or days responding. Most women are constantly on their phone, instagram, snapchat, twitter, celebrity gossip etc. A woman not communicating back at a reasonable time interval shows you how she feels about you. Dont waste time on women who arent in to you.

Every man in this world eventually finds this out the hard way......
 

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Every man in this world eventually finds this out the hard way......


Hit em with this

I expect a txt or call at 6:00 pm sharp

She texts or calls u at 6:00 .56 secs pm

Hit her with the :camby: and say didn't I say at 6:00 pm not .56 secs after at 6:00 pm :russ: :troll:
 

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Need some advice bros.


Why am I getting curved by women who are down to have sex?

I'll make a pass at a woman and they give me an indirect curve. Something along the lines of "I can't tonight, It's my friends bday". No big deal... I can't tell if it's a curve or just she's busy.

So I'll try one more time and it'll be the same deal like "I have to work in the AM". So at that point I'm off that and onto the next.

Then randomly months later that same woman will plot to fukk me. We'll be in the same bar randomly, chop it up, dance, then they'll tell me to come over after. I come thru we smash. That following week they'll initiate contact and hit me up a couple times asking what I'm doing.
Then its right back to the "I can't" curves when I try to set things up

Am I just not hitting it right, or am I just being used for sex? Or is it that they just aren't attracted to me?
 
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Another thing I've realised.

When your starting out and haven't got deep feelings for a girl or have a few girls your meeting everything's cool.
A lot of people when it becomes "official" and you really fall for her change from the way you were originally when you could take it or leave it which got her in the first place. For example not caring too much about what you say, or how you act because your not invested.

This is why a lot of people have short term relationships where things don't seem to progress, especially with girls your really into because you start to overthink things and not want to fuk things up.
This actually causes you to do the exact thing your trying to avoid. Start worrying about losing somebody and guarantee that person will not be around much longer because your subconscious affects your actions which in turn sabotages yourself.

Try keep yourself in check and relax, don't hold onto people too tightly and they'll stick around.
 

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Need some advice bros.


Why am I getting curved by women who are down to have sex?

I'll make a pass at a woman and they give me an indirect curve. Something along the lines of "I can't tonight, It's my friends bday". No big deal... I can't tell if it's a curve or just she's busy.

So I'll try one more time and it'll be the same deal like "I have to work in the AM". So at that point I'm off that and onto the next.

Then randomly months later that same woman will plot to fukk me. We'll be in the same bar randomly, chop it up, dance, then they'll tell me to come over after. I come thru we smash.
Then after its right back to the "I can't" curves.

Am I just not hitting it right, or am I just being used for sex? Or is it that they just aren't attracted to me?


Could be the type of girls your attracting. I know a period in my life I was attracting the same type of girls and it always ended the same way. Maybe try switching up your "type" and see if she sticks around any longer.

Sorry not much help

Edit: not a bad problem to be having, some poor dudes can't even get numbers
 

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My ex sends me a "I miss you" text out the blue today..could it be cause she really misses me? or is it because Valentines day is next week and she's still single :martin:

Lol can't be bothered with her, got a couple of chicks I got to get right for V-Day :wow:

shyt like that makes them old feels come back, I know too well

Hit her back with the old classic " who's this" text
 

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Could be the type of girls your attracting. I know a period in my life I was attracting the same type of girls and it always ended the same way. Maybe try switching up your "type" and see if she sticks around any longer.

Sorry not much help

Edit: not a bad problem to be having, some poor dudes can't even get numbers

I mean I do get women so I can't complain. But it still throws me off so heavy.

Especially since I will put no effort into getting laid. They'll come to me and tell me they want it on said night. They'll contact me after for a few days, initiating. Which is abnormal.

But then when I try to link up again it's excuses then I don't hear from them.

Confuses me. Not every chick is the same so ur right, some are mutual. But these kinds throw me off.
 
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