that was the case but based on the story i'm pretty sure he cheated eventually. dudes on here like @lucky lefty and @Max B just dont know how to read people let alone women. it's not that difficult to know when a lie is being told if you assess the character of the person telling the lieThe dude couldve been a virgin too. Who knows. Dude should feel her out in terms of identifying her character and morals. Pay attention to minor details and I'm sure he'll be able to tell if she's being truthful or not.
If breh is vibing with her... he should give her an honest shot. Why not?
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@Asantehene - how many serious relationships have you been in breh? I thought you was all about the flings
I'm getting older breh. Been in two relationships and i guess one was serious. I dont have a bunch of flings though. I meet a lot of women but when the right one comes along I lock it down. I'm just picky with women because when i choose one I dont cheat on them...so they have to be worth it. I might text other girls and shyt but i won't proactively engage in flirting with girls. As a result...I sift through a lot of women and some of those end up being flings.
The thing is that when a good one comes along that you have to recognize it and take the plunge. Dont jump in head first though...because everybody seems good at first. You have to take time to really get to know the person in front of you. The good ones are rare though so if the scouting report says she's good then IMO it is often worth it to be exclusive. And when I say good i dont mean that she's a virgin or anything... i mean that she's loyal and trustworthy above all else. I've taken a girls virginity before and it can be annoying so you gotta be patient. It's funner having a chick that knows what she's doing in the sack.
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There's one im going for myself and tbh I feel where you're coming from (she got a bit of a balance of black friends, and likes rap). This chic I honestly don't even like her like that but I find her really attractive plus she a bit of a comic nerd which is right up my alley.
I personally dont care about what race I date but tbh you gotta just give it a shot seeing as that you really like this chic. hopefully she's not the type of white girl to play oblivious and believeS "racism is abolished and doesnt exist anymore" crap.
Approach it the same way you would any race I guess
It's so much easier dating a black woman, and I've cavorted with white women from all ever.
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How so? I believe you are 100% right but want specific examples.
Also, what's happening with your marriage?
Engaged already? 
Update us breh 
Her family wants some Nigerian trad wedding in nigeria that's gonna cost like 70,000, and expected me to foot the bill 
My girl said no, just wants something small in Canada
And it just is, don't gotta worry about being a fetish, awkard cac family bbqs. Talking about black issues, etc., the food cooked
Everything!!
My girl said no, just wants something small in Canada
And it just is, don't gotta worry about being a fetish, awkard cac family bbqs. Talking about black issues, etc., the food cooked
Everything!!
How so? I believe you are 100% right but want specific examples.
Also, what's happening with your marriage?
Brandsdale
Big Yella
Nigerian woman eh?Her family wants some Nigerian trad wedding in nigeria that's gonna cost like 70,000, and expected me to foot the bill
My girl said no, just wants something small in Canada
And it just is, don't gotta worry about being a fetish, awkard cac family bbqs. Talking about black issues, etc., the food cooked
Everything!!
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Anything else is uncivilized
My ex was half naija half jamaican. Imma have too get me another naija woman
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Big Yella
from what i've heard and I'm VERY intrigued. I've yet to meet one thoughAnything else is uncivilized
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Phone works both ways, breh.
This chick I met on Tinder, I noticed I was the only one initiating the convo.
She was super responsive whenever I would contact her, but she would never text or call first.
So eventually I just quit talking to her.
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Phone works both ways, breh.
This chick I met on Tinder, I noticed I was the only one initiating the convo.
She was super responsive whenever I would contact her, but she would never text or call first.
So eventually I just quit talking to her.
That's how you are supposed to do it. I just deleted this broad's number from my phone because I couldn't trust myself to not "check up on her" even though she'd always be very cordial every time I hit her up. Lo and behold she hasn't contacted me in ages. But on the real, when you cut out ppl like these from your life or limit your interactions with them, it does really impact your life in a meaningful, positive way. I have a lot of very cool friends now. Why? Because I cut out the
"friends" and that led to me having more time to dedicate to the ppl who really deserve it. Back in the day when I didn't used to be decisive in cutting out useless friends the frustration would build and build up until I'd take it out on ppl who didn't deserve it. My personality changes dramatically when I interact with toxic individuals so I try not to. I'm not always great at this, but I am getting better and better.