Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I be thinking the same shyt about my girl :wow:

However it just so happens that last night she remarked that her daddy treats her like a princess (and taught her never to ask or depend on men for anything) and Nigerians usually treat girlfriends the same ways so she aint used to nikkas like me. This, because i didnt offer to pay for her and her friends subway :beli:. :smh: She doesnt want to ask but wants me to take initiative. She be treating me so good so I hear her :whoo:...but why must girls always forget when you do take initiative and pull out a one two instance you didnt. :why: I aint paying for your / your friends de:

Them cracks are starting to show breh. :shaq:

A chick expecting you to pay her way(fine) AND her FRIENDS (:usure:).

What you think they say about that when it's just them around?

These women feel not an ounce of remorse, but rather see it as some kind of fun, taboo adventure. How exciting to sneak out on the guy taking care of you, '

I told y'all they see this suff in movies and imagine themselves as these characters.
They're the ones who get overly emotional in movies, and novels.

They love being the character having "an affair"
 
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It's one thing to give your daughter self-esteem and tell her she's intelligent. It's a whole different ball game when you turn her into daddy's little princess and allow her to manipulate you into getting her whatever she wants and never holding her accountable for any of her actions. Daughters who can manipulate their fathers into getting their way will take that and do the exact same thing to men they start dealing with. People who are never held accountable for their actions start to do some pretty nasty things to other people when they grow up as well. We're not speaking on giving your daughter reasonable self-esteem, but rather allowing her to believe the world is owed to her.

Im going to assume you speaking in extreme terms..which I agree.. And I dont know if you have kids.. But thats what kids do boys and girls..
 

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Them cracks are starting to show breh. :shaq:

A chick expecting you to pay her way(fine) AND her FRIENDS (:usure:).

What you think they say about that when it's just them around?

i know breh :mindblown:. I can tell she was embarrassed because I didnt offer. Goes to show you what I was saying to dudes talking that, "I need to go overseas and find a girl who will appreciate the little things." It aint always like that ...its worse over there in some cases cause all girls are the same no matter. Don't forget that.


but I know all about the freshie africans and how they get down. I told her yea they treat you like princesses buying you stuff and throwing money around etc but what else is it that they do? And she shut up knowing what I was getting at. Shes still young so I caught her before that phase but im sure she knows too. I know many ghanaian chicks who were messing around with the old freshie dudes. Dudes had money (whats considered money to a highschooler or 18 year old at least) but as soon as the dudes ran through them bytches they were out leaving the girls high and dry :heh:. She knew what I was getting at and basically shut up after tryna say they only do that to their side-girls. SMH :comeon:
 

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Women definitely all share certain traits that are universal. I just feel that in different cultures, they have different value systems that help compensate. Women who have no domestic skills, have completely eliminated their nurturing nature when it comes to their man, embraces pseudo-masculinity (aka masculine when it's easy but turn back into females when the going gets tough), 40+ partners, numerous baby daddies, multiple piercings and tattoos, the older women trying to act like they are 20 (dressing raunchy and clubbing with their daughters), etc. really isn't natural in a healthy society. Over here, it's the norm, but as you can see, America is on the decline. Somewhere else I feel I acn get a woman that at least has a better baseline to build on.

Checking a woman is one of the most powerful tools a man has to develop because if you let them get away with anything, it will only escalate. You have to let them know they need to stop that behavior or they're headed towards the door.

Allowing women to think they have more power than you is another huge problem. You see how these nonsensical feminists are thinking, talking about we need to head towards a society where men aren't needed. How unappreciative is that? We'll see how much they want to be men when they have to fight wars and do the nitty-gritty work like cutting logs and being trashwomen. Checking a woman on her lack of appreciation and not letting her get over is a must as well.

Reality of the situation is that you should have peace of mind. If your bills are paid and you are being a decent person, you really shouldn't be stressing. If a woman brings all this drama and whining even though you are taking care of business, give her a warning and if she persists, time for her to go. Peace of mind is a beautiful thing and you shouldn't let anyone steal it from you.

Men have to be hard on these females in this day and age. Otherwise, we get much of what we've already been seeing, which is men being taken advantage of to an exceptionally high level.
 

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Thie following is actually a very decent article and written by a woman. The real gold is in the comments section, however.

Dr. Helen » How to Live Like a King In a World Full of Princesses
I often watch men and notice that some of them seem to do well and thrive in a society that caters to women. I watched that show Princess a while back about women who are living off their parent’s money and who have a sharp sense of entitlement and it got me thinking about women and the society who think they are princesses in general. Here’s an example of a typical show:

Princess Laura is a fashion buyer who takes her career pretty seriously. So seriously, in fact, that she’s managed to spend close to $40,000 on clothing, footwear, and accessories in an effort to look professional at work – all while neglecting to pay for basics like her mortgage, groceries, or car payment. Boyfriend John is sick of being stuck with the bills and frustrated by Laura’s flippant attitude.

This show is sort of a metaphor for how many women in our society see themselves and their needs–as more important than other people’s, particularly men. And who can blame them? Women are told that their needs top everyone else’s. They use the majority of health care in this country and then proclaim there is a war on women’s health, they get the majority of alimony and then become upset if they have to pay a man anything, and are told they are discriminated against in education when it is actually the men and boys who are.


So some men seem to thrive in this world despite the tilt towards privilege and the accompanying hand-wringing for women’s needs. They ride around in their truck, fish, find places to relax and make a good living, despite the odds against them. In short, they look happy and as if life is still good.

So my question to readers is, “How do you live like a king in a world full of princesses?” Please share your tips, wisdom and ideas on how to live well, despite the obstacles.

Dr. Helen » How to Live Like a King In a World Full of Princesses
 

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Women definitely all share certain traits that are universal. I just feel that in different cultures, they have different value systems that help compensate. Women who have no domestic skills, have completely eliminated their nurturing nature when it comes to their man, embraces pseudo-masculinity (aka masculine when it's easy but turn back into females when the going gets tough), 40+ partners, numerous baby daddies, multiple piercings and tattoos, the older women trying to act like they are 20 (dressing raunchy and clubbing with their daughters), etc. really isn't natural in a healthy society. Over here, it's the norm, but as you can see, America is on the decline. Somewhere else I feel I acn get a woman that at least has a better baseline to build on.

Checking a woman is one of the most powerful tools a man has to develop because if you let them get away with anything, it will only escalate. You have to let them know they need to stop that behavior or they're headed towards the door.

Allowing women to think they have more power than you is another huge problem. You see how these nonsensical feminists are thinking, talking about we need to head towards a society where men aren't needed. How unappreciative is that? We'll see how much they want to be men when they have to fight wars and do the nitty-gritty work like cutting logs and being trashwomen. Checking a woman on her lack of appreciation and not letting her get over is a must as well.

Reality of the situation is that you should have peace of mind. If your bills are paid and you are being a decent person, you really shouldn't be stressing. If a woman brings all this drama and whining even though you are taking care of business, give her a warning and if she persists, time for her to go. Peace of mind is a beautiful thing and you shouldn't let anyone steal it from you.

Men have to be hard on these females in this day and age. Otherwise, we get much of what we've already been seeing, which is men being taken advantage of to an exceptionally high level.

this nikka is poster of the year :wow:
 

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"For the Red Pill, the first step for most men is denial - in fact, many men remain in this place forever. The desire to see women from their pedastalizing viewpoint is a malady some men will never be cured of. For the men who make it further, the denial phase is generally marked by being genuinely dumbfounded that they so completely missed and in some cases deliberately blinded themselves to the truth.

Anger, often referred to in this instance as beta rage is the follow-on in most cases. The manosphere is full of instances of (often justified) beta rage, most often in the comments section of blogs written by men who are farther down the road of this process. The beta male feels immensely put-upon for being so completely lied to. He also often feels cheated out of his rightful place with whatever women he ended up paying full price for getting married to. Finding out about the blowjobs and quickies handed out like candy to her college boyfriends/fraternity acquaintances destroys the image that he got a “good girl” just as she was ready to settle down. No, you got an amateur harlot just as she was ready to settle.

Bargaining!!! Repeat after me: “Not All Women are Like That”, or “My Woman Was Never Like That”. Repeat until you regress to the denial stage or until you laugh out loud at your own gullibility. Or buy into her rationalizations, such as counting multiple Steves as a single notch. Give her three-for-one on the blowjob count. Just the tip? 50% off!!

Depression can take many forms. This is not depression in the clinical sense, but instead a general sense of despair over the fact that a large majority of women can not be looked to for a reliable long term relationship. This stage can last quite a while because once a man has reached full Red Pill knowledge, he will be re-assessing many of his past experiences with women, and each new experience will be seen in the light of truth. This takes time to work through. Eventually, despair gives way to…

Acceptance. For some guys, MGTOW is the answer, along with complete withdrawal from dating. Some will play a stealthy revenge card.

For many, it takes the form of schadenfreude over the misfortune of these stupid, shallow women as they reach, time and time again for the brass ring of a committed alpha lover, only to fall off the horse into the dirt once again. There is almost always a self-loathing beta to come along and foolishly dust off her ego, even as he imagines he is winning her heart.

The manosphere is doing God’s work, though, by slowly reducing the quality and quantity of such supplicating beta males. The smarter and more self-aware beta males are removed one by one, leaving the dumber and more resistant men to act as emotional tampons for these women. In time, women will be forced to reach for lower quality fruit on the bottom branches. Normally, a woman who is a 6 will bruise her ego, her innocence, and probably her vajayjay sportfukking men who are an eight or higher, while using a man who is an actual six — and really her rightful counterpart — as her clean-up crew. When the male sixes decide to let princess free-fall into the mud puddle, she will be left shopping around for a four or five to patch her up, and she will see her sexual market value as lessened by it. Win."

Read more: UMan - Blog - The Schadenfreude*Channel
 

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Honestly I'll never be able to look at relationships the same way ever again. I truly believe most humans have evolved past monogamy and that most people are just trying to fit a square inside of circle trying to fool themselves that they can commit to one person in their 20s and 30s and stay with them forever. The amount of women I've smashed with boyfriends is simply ridiculous.

There's this girl I met one night at the club when I was DJing.....So the other day was her birthday, her boyfriend took her out to dinner, showered her with gifts for two days & on the 2nd day instead of spending the night with her boyfriend she decided to come kick it with me & allow me to fukk her in my car without dropping a dime on her. I even asked her why are you hanging with me instead of kicking it with your boyfriend tonight after he took you out today, that's your man you should enjoy your time with him.....She told me "you're sounding like my boyfriend now."......That's when realized that was my cue to let this hoe be the hoe that she is....I told her "yeah I respect that, you're a grown ass lady and you should spend your time how you want to, if I were you, I'd want to hang out with me instead of your lame ass boyfriend too." :steviej: She was like :manny:

I literally didn't even have the decency to take her to my house or a hotel, I just took her to a parking lot and fukked in my car til she fell asleep, then I took her home.

I've had girls literally sneak out their man's house who they were living with just so I can fukk them & give me shyt that belongs to their man as gifts (Weed, alcohol, money).......At this point, it's flat out absurd for me to go through life pretending I'm just the man & a girl will never cheat because I'm not & neither is anyone else. It's truly a crap shoot, you can treat a girl as well as you possibly can and she can stab you in the back.

It just bothers me how women will make the man who they supposedly love & loves them back work so hard only to give away everything to a nikka who doesn't give a fukk about them, pops up every so often only for p*ssy, buys them nothing, ignores them, never listens to complain....Literally gives them nothing but hard dikk.
 

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That's real bruh and it's way more common than people like to think. The dude at home watching the kids and paying the bills, and babygirl out here chopping it to a negro she only talked to a couple of times, wanting to do whatever with him and then she comes home and kisses her man. During that time, apparently she was just 'hanging out with the homegirls', or telling her man that she just wanted to visit her male friend, and that's all it is--just two friends catching up if she really believes him to be a sucker.

I've had the door left open so to speak for me to come in and mess with some women with boyfriends and husbands, but I turned that down because I know that's a screwed up feeling that man is going to feel. He's probably at home trying to do his best, trying to provide, but she's ready to go for a negro she doesn't even really know? That's what's sick with it. She doesn't know the 'other man', but she's ready to give her all for him. On the other hand, she's treating her husband, who she knows, like trash. That's why I said women don't really want to 'know you'. They'd rather you embody certain traits, such as being aloof, mysterious and entertaining and not putting up with her nonsense. More times than not these women will always kick it off with how they are having problems with their man or how he wasn't what she bargained for when meeting him... that's if she even bothers telling you about him in the first place. A lot of times she won't even claim her man and might just call him a friend or someone she is talking to.

Man what's so cold is she'll do stuff like this on major holidays too... Might even be that negro birthday and she'll be 'busy' with the other guy the whole day. "Sorry baby, I missed your birthday! Ugh I hate myself so much. I'll make it up, I promise." That, or she'll go live on the other dude on her man's birthday and come back to him like nothing happened. Give that negro a big ol kiss after she done gave sideman the mouth.

And you're right. It's nothing about how individually fly our own games are or how fine she thinks we look. It's all about knowing which side of the fence you are on in her mind. Are you the provider or the negro that's higher. Many women love dealing with men that treat them like whores but despise the ones who treat them like queens. She'll demand all these things from one guy and will ration out the sex to him because she only likes him enough to provide for her. On the other hand, she'll find a negro that she really likes and entertains her and he won't have to do a thing but take. Hoes take from what they perceive to be the inferior man and give to what they believe to be the superior man. The superior man in her mind is the one who avoids providing for her... the only thing he needs to provide is entertainment. If you sit back and listen to a lot of these women, they simply like doing sneaky stuff. They get off on doing something taboo, aka what they were told not to do.

Now I do believe monogamy is still possible, but with the extremely low character of people, it's a difficult thing to pull off. It's a jungle out here mane.
 
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