Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[root_eruditorium_org]

Should a man be honest about his sex experience with women or lack thereof or just keep it to himself. I'm 26 and my body count is only 4 unfortunately.

yikes i'm starting to feel self conscious about the bodies i have caught too. nikkas out here complaining about 4 at 26? i'm trying to crunch the numbers and it doesn't look like i'll even meet that milestone

 

[root_eruditorium_org]

Keep it to yourself.

This. There's some things that should just remain private, no matter how much you are prodded. This is one of them. I learned this early in the game though.

 

[DarkHorse23]

This. There's some things that should just remain private, no matter how much you are prodded. This is one of them. I learned this early in the game though.

Well won't the lack of experience eventually hurt me or be revealed anyway

 

[Gus Money]

Well won't the lack of experience eventually hurt me or be revealed anyway

How would it? I'm 26 too and my count is only 4. Nothing wrong with being a late bloomer.

 

[Youseenmywork]

This. There's some things that should just remain private, no matter how much you are prodded. This is one of them. I learned this early in the game though.

Yeah ...dont say shyt you fight threw it. And when you find a stroke you like stick to it and prefect it. And this even when you approach women it's the same find what pimping style works for you.

 

[LezJepzin]

No. Stop it. She can tell u want her. The awkwardNess is her feeling guilty of curving u. Don't chase this girl. And stop stalking her

Yeah, I figured it was that. The stalking term IMO is being used too freely in this day and age but I get what you're saying.

I need to learn how to straight cut off women like this from my life but I keep
thinking things could change like some

shyt

 

[Brandsdale]

The hour long responses man

shyt just makes me wanna revert back to loneliness

 

[Sonny Bonds]

I told a girl on Tinder that my weekend was boring and filled with responsibilities. Then asking her if she can help me make the next one more interesting.

Now, she wants to know what those responsibilities were. I can't think of a fun or flirty response to that.

 

[root_eruditorium_org]

I told a girl on Tinder that my weekend was boring and filled with responsibilities. Then asking her if she can help me make the next one more interesting.

Now, she wants to know what those responsibilities were. I can't think of a fun or flirty response to that.

Don't overthink it my friend. If you are vibing the course of the convo and what words to say next should be entirely decided by your gut. the moment you have to overanalyze anything, that's not good. that's what i've found with myself and girls. in short, send her whatever. if you respond to her and it's not "fun" enough and she bounces then you've already saved yourself some trouble. nothing worse than a girl you can't be yourself around, no matter how hot she is.

 

[Reginald Noble]

Aussie CAC nails it.



Should help a lot of younger brehs out big time.

 

[DarkHorse23]

Ok guys i wanted to get your advice before I do something to create any more drama. I started a part time job back in January. I work in ladies shoes, and there was 2 girls up there that I was attracted to. One was nigerian, 26, and the other was this black girl, pretty, 24 years old. Anyway when i came up there I was interested in both, but decided to talk to the nigerian chick, because initially she was the most friendly towards me, and the other chick didn't even speak to me my first 2-3 days working there. I personally found that weird, here am I the new guy and everybody speaks and introduces themselves and you don't even say hi. So based on all that i decided to focus on getting to know the nigerian chick. So anyway after being here for about a month, after engaging in small talk with the other chick, a big part of me wants to get to know her better, and in hindsight maybe that should've been who i pursued in the first place. The nigerian girl is a very nice girl, but our personalities don't mesh, she's very blunt, straightforward, and i'm not us to people like that. My attitude is you can be honest, but when you can't recognize when you're rude or disrespectful then i don't know what to tell you. So anyway my biggest problem with the nigerian chick is her personality and some of the things she's said to me that i found rude and disrespectful, and basically at this point i want to explore this other option. I'm just wondering if i'm making myself out to look like a liar, because i had repeatedly told the nigerian chick that i wasn't interested in the other girl, but now i'm actually going ahead of asking for her #. Plus the other chick has flaws too, like why you go back to tell the other girl everything i say to you , and why i gotta be a player or fake because i talk to both of you. So girls can have options, but I can't? Why can't i wanna get to know both of you, and see who is the right fit for me. Anyway a part of me feels like maybe i should just if i wanna talk to other girls maybe talk to another in a different department, but another part of me when i see the light skin chick and see how fine she is and i just go and think i need to go ahead and really put my hat in the ring and see what happens. Also she's leaving in 2 weeks for another job, she doesn't like management so I figure why not. Anyway at the end of the day i'm single, and me and other chick were just friends anyway and i really don't owe anybody a damn thing

 

[root_eruditorium_org]

Ok guys i wanted to get your advice before I do something to create any more drama. I started a part time job back in January. I work in ladies shoes, and there was 2 girls up there that I was attracted to. One was nigerian, 26, and the other was this black girl, pretty, 24 years old. Anyway when i came up there I was interested in both, but decided to talk to the nigerian chick, because initially she was the most friendly towards me, and the other chick didn't even speak to me my first 2-3 days working there. I personally found that weird, here am I the new guy and everybody speaks and introduces themselves and you don't even say hi. So based on all that i decided to focus on getting to know the nigerian chick. So anyway after being here for about a month, after engaging in small talk with the other chick, a big part of me wants to get to know her better, and in hindsight maybe that should've been who i pursued in the first place. The nigerian girl is a very nice girl, but our personalities don't mesh, she's very blunt, straightforward, and i'm not us to people like that. My attitude is you can be honest, but when you can't recognize when you're rude or disrespectful then i don't know what to tell you. So anyway my biggest problem with the nigerian chick is her personality and some of the things she's said to me that i found rude and disrespectful, and basically at this point i want to explore this other option. I'm just wondering if i'm making myself out to look like a liar, because i had repeatedly told the nigerian chick that i wasn't interested in the other girl, but now i'm actually going ahead of asking for her #. Plus the other chick has flaws too, like why you go back to tell the other girl everything i say to you , and why i gotta be a player or fake because i talk to both of you. So girls can have options, but I can't? Why can't i wanna get to know both of you, and see who is the right fit for me. Anyway a part of me feels like maybe i should just if i wanna talk to other girls maybe talk to another in a different department, but another part of me when i see the light skin chick and see how fine she is and i just go and think i need to go ahead and really put my hat in the ring and see what happens. Also she's leaving in 2 weeks for another job, she doesn't like management so I figure why not. Anyway at the end of the day i'm single, and me and other chick were just friends anyway and i really don't owe anybody a damn thing

You made the right decision talking to the Nigerian girl first. i wouldn't waste my time sweating a chick who was giving me attitude from jump. & WTF dude why are you even thinking about this - if you are interested in the other chick go for it. You always have to be decisive with these types of things, don't dilly dally. You don't owe the other chick anything at all. NOTHING.

I would have been talking to both at the same time personally. If there's anything I've learned from my limited experience in the game it's that one-girl-itis will screw you over long term. Never put all your eggs in one basket. If a girl likes you she likes you, so don't waste your time expending effort on dead ends.

 

[godliness]

The hour long responses man

shyt just makes me wanna revert back to loneliness

she maybe busy. but if this happens every time toss her to bushes

 

[DarkHorse23]

You made the right decision talking to the Nigerian girl first. i wouldn't waste my time sweating a chick who was giving me attitude from jump. & WTF dude why are you even thinking about this - if you are interested in the other chick go for it. You always have to be decisive with these types of things, don't dilly dally. You don't owe the other chick anything at all. NOTHING.

I would have been talking to both at the same time personally. If there's anything I've learned from my limited experience in the game it's that one-girl-itis will screw you over long term. Never put all your eggs in one basket. If a girl likes you she likes you, so don't waste your time expending effort on dead ends.

Thanks breh. You right, i owe nobody anything. Should have done it from the jump, going do it next time i see her. Whatever happens it's whatever.

 

[MikelArteta]

No woman is that busy.

she maybe busy. but if this happens every time toss her to bushes