Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[sixsixtwo]

This is when Patrice just got back from Brazil & and was beginning to flesh out the Black Philip tenets..

 

[gameover82]

u try to call them out on there bullshyt..they always say "bu bu bu it goes both ways guys do messed up things too...i'am like really

 

[Ohene]

You just start coming to the conclusion that these women have no concern for fairness or justice, but are always looking for the best deal possible. Couple that with all these different small interactions I've had with some of these women, and I've learned a lot of them don't appreciate generosity in any capacity, but will instead attempt to use them if you let them.

 

[Ohene]

fog phase can blind a nicca

im going to use the reincar method of busting one out before meeting a chick

just to clear my mind

i thought I was the only one who did this

If I'm bored at home tryna set something up and I sense its going in the wrong direction where I might say something to set me back and a girl starts acting funny whether it be late texts or flakiness whatever I would just call it a night and bust a nut sometimes

you immediately be like, "why wasa i even contacting this bytch

 

[Zapp Brannigan]

This will be a very long post, so bear with me. Honestly man, I feeling quite lovely. I'm sitting back without an ounce of anger towards them because forgiveness is a beautiful thing and I have other enjoyable things in life to focus on. God has blessed me greatly, and I'm thankful. Life is way too short to ever allow someone else to control my happiness. I simply don't make my well-being contingent on women. Any man that does is in for a very turbulent ride.

I did sit back and wonder what in the world were some of these women thinking because I always did my best to treat them decently... when she was down, I was there to listen to her problems, didn't cheat... turned down a fine woman while I was with her. It's just mind-boggling like you said. You do your best and treat them well, and while she's in your face, she's miss angel in love... but you find out she's doing her thing when she's away. I experienced it and I see others experiencing it over and over. I'm not mad at it at all. I simply understand like that song says, "Girls just want to have funnn." Character doesn't mean anything. Decency doesn't mean anything. Entertainment is everything to these modern women. The vast majority of western women got me feeling like Mike Singletary about them, "Can't win with them. No, can't do it."

The thing is women stay complaining about them wanting decent men, but they respond the negroes that treat them like whores and conspire to do devious deeds with them. On a serious level she might meet some side negro and he'll tell her to rob her boyfriend who hasn't done her an ounce of wrong and she'll do that because she just digs this new negro who she doesn't know so much. Women put a HUGE premium on that 'new car smell' as opposed to 'old reliable.' That's how serious it can get if you're not careful.

I'm just thankful to God I was brought out of those situations before it got worse, as in before I was legally committed. Thing is I see this same thing over and over and over, and these young cats out here need to be aware of this information before they get roasted. I've experienced it, I've had the ability to knock off other men's women but declined, so I pretty much have been on both sides of the coin. I'm not going to work with some sneaky broad and reward her with time and pleasure while she dumps on her man who isn't aware of all of these so-called 'problems' they've been having. Women love talking trash about the negro they are dealing with to the man they WANT to deal with as if that will impress him. Nah, doesn't work like that. Makes you look like a sneaky little ho. Never was married and never had kids, so I'm more than blessed to not have to deal with the past in any fashsion.

Real talk man, cats out here getting cheated on by their wives despite them doing everything, she takes half, he has to pay alimony and child support, and if he loses his job and can't afford it, she'll send him to jail. If you're not mentally prepared, this game will blow your mind man. Literally, their lives are screwed over and they did 'everything right.' She could be the one who broke up the relationship, but she'll get the kid, get child support, spend a minute portion on the child and the majority on herself, but still blame daddy for 'financial issues.' It's wicked out here man.

What really woke me up is when you sit back and just observe the mentality of a lot
of these women. They will say things like, "My money, my money, your money, my money." What kind of thing is that to say in a productive relationship? Go read the comment sections on celebrity divorces and if it's a woman getting paid out, it'll be 'goneee girl, get that money!' On the other hand, a man gets an alimony payment, and it's 'Ugghhh that little boy needs to get his own money!" You just start coming to the conclusion that these women have no concern for fairness or justice, but are always looking for the best deal possible. Couple that with all these different small interactions I've had with some of these women, and I've learned a lot of them don't appreciate generosity in any capacity, but will instead attempt to use them if you let them.

I'll never give 100% of my heart to a woman or build my life around her. Humans are humans and by nature humans are imperfect... I'm well aware of what human nature is capable of. I know that even though she's loyal today, tomorrow she can be iced out tomorrow and do me extra dirty tomorrow. Basically my attitude is like babygirl I enjoy your company and presence, but if you screw up, I can easily do without you. I don't build my life around women. If one enters my life, she is a part of my life, and I will demand she brings something to the table and acts right. If she comes with some sneaky behavior, she gets the boot and I'll keep it pushing, being happy all the time.

I remember going to the gym a couple of days ago and they have this huge outdoor track, with a slight breeze blowing, slightly cloudy, but man it was beautiful. I had so much peace and really sat back and started thinking, why in the world should I be stressing? There is so much else in life to enjoy that if one element fails, there is another to appreciate.

You pretty much have to set things up to where your happiness is not contingent on women and you have to protect yourself mentally, spiritually and financially so that you aren't ruined if she chooses to leave. Really man, I don't trip if a woman leaves me. There's a ton more where she came from and I feel no need to reward a traitor with much of an emotional reaction.

Dealing with women, everything is about positioning. As men, we DO have that innate desire to be a protector. You want that decent woman that you can call all yours, make sure she is taken care of and has nothing to worry about, make sure your kids are well taken care of, etc. That makes you feel great inside. Before I would have been cool with being the guy that held things down, but when you see so many guys out here getting married, paying all the bills and just doing all of this work and she goes to meet some guy at a bar and starts trashing her boyfriend to him and does all kind of nasty things, I make a note that I'm not going to be that guy. Me, I am a real sore loser. I don't like losing, being taken advantage of or looking like a sucker. I've simply had to curtail that natural 'protector' and 'provider' desire as a man because these women have a leach mentality and will look at you as some kind of sucker or simp. Kindness, they definitely take as weakness, and I don't have any tolerance for people taking advantage of my graciousness.

Part 2 coming up

This was beautiful. I need to stop being so bitter. I think I'll go for a walk on the beach and smile at some honeys. Make some friends. I'm excited to see part two.

 

[Malta]

fog phase can blind a nicca

im going to use the reincar method of busting one out before meeting a chick

just to clear my mind

It really can cloud your judgement, all I ever told myself was "Eh, she's bad as hell" and anytime we had an argument, it would lead to us having sex, or her mouth on me . We never had anything to talk about, it was strictly about appearance, and I couldn't see all the glaring flaws she had.

 

[winb83]

This will be a very long post, so bear with me. Honestly man, I feeling quite lovely. I'm sitting back without an ounce of anger towards them because forgiveness is a beautiful thing and I have other enjoyable things in life to focus on. God has blessed me greatly, and I'm thankful. Life is way too short to ever allow someone else to control my happiness. I simply don't make my well-being contingent on women. Any man that does is in for a very turbulent ride.

I did sit back and wonder what in the world were some of these women thinking because I always did my best to treat them decently... when she was down, I was there to listen to her problems, didn't cheat... turned down a fine woman while I was with her. It's just mind-boggling like you said. You do your best and treat them well, and while she's in your face, she's miss angel in love... but you find out she's doing her thing when she's away. I experienced it and I see others experiencing it over and over. I'm not mad at it at all. I simply understand like that song says, "Girls just want to have funnn." Character doesn't mean anything. Decency doesn't mean anything. Entertainment is everything to these modern women. The vast majority of western women got me feeling like Mike Singletary about them, "Can't win with them. No, can't do it."

The thing is women stay complaining about them wanting decent men, but they respond the negroes that treat them like whores and conspire to do devious deeds with them. On a serious level she might meet some side negro and he'll tell her to rob her boyfriend who hasn't done her an ounce of wrong and she'll do that because she just digs this new negro who she doesn't know so much. Women put a HUGE premium on that 'new car smell' as opposed to 'old reliable.' That's how serious it can get if you're not careful.

I'm just thankful to God I was brought out of those situations before it got worse, as in before I was legally committed. Thing is I see this same thing over and over and over, and these young cats out here need to be aware of this information before they get roasted. I've experienced it, I've had the ability to knock off other men's women but declined, so I pretty much have been on both sides of the coin. I'm not going to work with some sneaky broad and reward her with time and pleasure while she dumps on her man who isn't aware of all of these so-called 'problems' they've been having. Women love talking trash about the negro they are dealing with to the man they WANT to deal with as if that will impress him. Nah, doesn't work like that. Makes you look like a sneaky little ho. Never was married and never had kids, so I'm more than blessed to not have to deal with the past in any fashsion.

Real talk man, cats out here getting cheated on by their wives despite them doing everything, she takes half, he has to pay alimony and child support, and if he loses his job and can't afford it, she'll send him to jail. If you're not mentally prepared, this game will blow your mind man. Literally, their lives are screwed over and they did 'everything right.' She could be the one who broke up the relationship, but she'll get the kid, get child support, spend a minute portion on the child and the majority on herself, but still blame daddy for 'financial issues.' It's wicked out here man.

What really woke me up is when you sit back and just observe the mentality of a lot
of these women. They will say things like, "My money, my money, your money, my money." What kind of thing is that to say in a productive relationship? Go read the comment sections on celebrity divorces and if it's a woman getting paid out, it'll be 'goneee girl, get that money!' On the other hand, a man gets an alimony payment, and it's 'Ugghhh that little boy needs to get his own money!" You just start coming to the conclusion that these women have no concern for fairness or justice, but are always looking for the best deal possible. Couple that with all these different small interactions I've had with some of these women, and I've learned a lot of them don't appreciate generosity in any capacity, but will instead attempt to use them if you let them.

I'll never give 100% of my heart to a woman or build my life around her. Humans are humans and by nature humans are imperfect... I'm well aware of what human nature is capable of. I know that even though she's loyal today, tomorrow she can be iced out tomorrow and do me extra dirty tomorrow. Basically my attitude is like babygirl I enjoy your company and presence, but if you screw up, I can easily do without you. I don't build my life around women. If one enters my life, she is a part of my life, and I will demand she brings something to the table and acts right. If she comes with some sneaky behavior, she gets the boot and I'll keep it pushing, being happy all the time.

I remember going to the gym a couple of days ago and they have this huge outdoor track, with a slight breeze blowing, slightly cloudy, but man it was beautiful. I had so much peace and really sat back and started thinking, why in the world should I be stressing? There is so much else in life to enjoy that if one element fails, there is another to appreciate.

You pretty much have to set things up to where your happiness is not contingent on women and you have to protect yourself mentally, spiritually and financially so that you aren't ruined if she chooses to leave. Really man, I don't trip if a woman leaves me. There's a ton more where she came from and I feel no need to reward a traitor with much of an emotional reaction.

Dealing with women, everything is about positioning. As men, we DO have that innate desire to be a protector. You want that decent woman that you can call all yours, make sure she is taken care of and has nothing to worry about, make sure your kids are well taken care of, etc. That makes you feel great inside. Before I would have been cool with being the guy that held things down, but when you see so many guys out here getting married, paying all the bills and just doing all of this work and she goes to meet some guy at a bar and starts trashing her boyfriend to him and does all kind of nasty things, I make a note that I'm not going to be that guy. Me, I am a real sore loser. I don't like losing, being taken advantage of or looking like a sucker. I've simply had to curtail that natural 'protector' and 'provider' desire as a man because these women have a leach mentality and will look at you as some kind of sucker or simp. Kindness, they definitely take as weakness, and I don't have any tolerance for people taking advantage of my graciousness.

Part 2 coming up

these women have the mental capacity of children. if you give a baby a million dollar bill they'll sit there and rip it up in front of you if you give them a cardboard box they'll be entertained for hours. these women are like that baby except they say they want something valuable like a good man but when they get that they destroy it they get a pos guy and they're entertained.

as men we're approaching this logically. be good to her and create something worthwhile and she'll value that. as a woman she probably idealistically wants that but isn't mature enough to handle it and would rather be entertained. you do all this good shyt and lay a solid foundation and later come to realize the person you were doing it for had no idea what you were trying to build. really they were around for totally different reasons than you. they were just there looking to be amused.

the bottom line is a man is a primary source of entertainment in a woman's life and to a man a woman is not really that at all. to a real serious mature man she's far more than that.

 

[Malta]

This will be a very long post, so bear with me. Honestly man, I feeling quite lovely. I'm sitting back without an ounce of anger towards them because forgiveness is a beautiful thing and I have other enjoyable things in life to focus on. God has blessed me greatly, and I'm thankful. Life is way too short to ever allow someone else to control my happiness. I simply don't make my well-being contingent on women. Any man that does is in for a very turbulent ride.

I did sit back and wonder what in the world were some of these women thinking because I always did my best to treat them decently... when she was down, I was there to listen to her problems, didn't cheat... turned down a fine woman while I was with her. It's just mind-boggling like you said. You do your best and treat them well, and while she's in your face, she's miss angel in love... but you find out she's doing her thing when she's away. I experienced it and I see others experiencing it over and over. I'm not mad at it at all. I simply understand like that song says, "Girls just want to have funnn." Character doesn't mean anything. Decency doesn't mean anything. Entertainment is everything to these modern women. The vast majority of western women got me feeling like Mike Singletary about them, "Can't win with them. No, can't do it."

The thing is women stay complaining about them wanting decent men, but they respond the negroes that treat them like whores and conspire to do devious deeds with them. On a serious level she might meet some side negro and he'll tell her to rob her boyfriend who hasn't done her an ounce of wrong and she'll do that because she just digs this new negro who she doesn't know so much. Women put a HUGE premium on that 'new car smell' as opposed to 'old reliable.' That's how serious it can get if you're not careful.

I'm just thankful to God I was brought out of those situations before it got worse, as in before I was legally committed. Thing is I see this same thing over and over and over, and these young cats out here need to be aware of this information before they get roasted. I've experienced it, I've had the ability to knock off other men's women but declined, so I pretty much have been on both sides of the coin. I'm not going to work with some sneaky broad and reward her with time and pleasure while she dumps on her man who isn't aware of all of these so-called 'problems' they've been having. Women love talking trash about the negro they are dealing with to the man they WANT to deal with as if that will impress him. Nah, doesn't work like that. Makes you look like a sneaky little ho. Never was married and never had kids, so I'm more than blessed to not have to deal with the past in any fashsion.

Real talk man, cats out here getting cheated on by their wives despite them doing everything, she takes half, he has to pay alimony and child support, and if he loses his job and can't afford it, she'll send him to jail. If you're not mentally prepared, this game will blow your mind man. Literally, their lives are screwed over and they did 'everything right.' She could be the one who broke up the relationship, but she'll get the kid, get child support, spend a minute portion on the child and the majority on herself, but still blame daddy for 'financial issues.' It's wicked out here man.

What really woke me up is when you sit back and just observe the mentality of a lot
of these women. They will say things like, "My money, my money, your money, my money." What kind of thing is that to say in a productive relationship? Go read the comment sections on celebrity divorces and if it's a woman getting paid out, it'll be 'goneee girl, get that money!' On the other hand, a man gets an alimony payment, and it's 'Ugghhh that little boy needs to get his own money!" You just start coming to the conclusion that these women have no concern for fairness or justice, but are always looking for the best deal possible. Couple that with all these different small interactions I've had with some of these women, and I've learned a lot of them don't appreciate generosity in any capacity, but will instead attempt to use them if you let them.

I'll never give 100% of my heart to a woman or build my life around her. Humans are humans and by nature humans are imperfect... I'm well aware of what human nature is capable of. I know that even though she's loyal today, tomorrow she can be iced out tomorrow and do me extra dirty tomorrow. Basically my attitude is like babygirl I enjoy your company and presence, but if you screw up, I can easily do without you. I don't build my life around women. If one enters my life, she is a part of my life, and I will demand she brings something to the table and acts right. If she comes with some sneaky behavior, she gets the boot and I'll keep it pushing, being happy all the time.

I remember going to the gym a couple of days ago and they have this huge outdoor track, with a slight breeze blowing, slightly cloudy, but man it was beautiful. I had so much peace and really sat back and started thinking, why in the world should I be stressing? There is so much else in life to enjoy that if one element fails, there is another to appreciate.

You pretty much have to set things up to where your happiness is not contingent on women and you have to protect yourself mentally, spiritually and financially so that you aren't ruined if she chooses to leave. Really man, I don't trip if a woman leaves me. There's a ton more where she came from and I feel no need to reward a traitor with much of an emotional reaction.

Dealing with women, everything is about positioning. As men, we DO have that innate desire to be a protector. You want that decent woman that you can call all yours, make sure she is taken care of and has nothing to worry about, make sure your kids are well taken care of, etc. That makes you feel great inside. Before I would have been cool with being the guy that held things down, but when you see so many guys out here getting married, paying all the bills and just doing all of this work and she goes to meet some guy at a bar and starts trashing her boyfriend to him and does all kind of nasty things, I make a note that I'm not going to be that guy. Me, I am a real sore loser. I don't like losing, being taken advantage of or looking like a sucker. I've simply had to curtail that natural 'protector' and 'provider' desire as a man because these women have a leach mentality and will look at you as some kind of sucker or simp. Kindness, they definitely take as weakness, and I don't have any tolerance for people taking advantage of my graciousness.

Part 2 coming up

 

[sixsixtwo]

It really can cloud your judgement, all I ever told myself was "Eh, she's bad as hell" and anytime we had an argument, it would lead to us having sex, or her mouth on me . We never had anything to talk about, it was strictly about appearance, and I couldn't see all the glaring flaws she had.

When you get a chance, check out the Frustrated documentary & drop some thoughts on it..

 

[Scustin Trillberlake]

"For the Red Pill, the first step for most men is denial - in fact, many men remain in this place forever. The desire to see women from their pedastalizing viewpoint is a malady some men will never be cured of. For the men who make it further, the denial phase is generally marked by being genuinely dumbfounded that they so completely missed and in some cases deliberately blinded themselves to the truth.

Anger, often referred to in this instance as beta rage is the follow-on in most cases. The manosphere is full of instances of (often justified) beta rage, most often in the comments section of blogs written by men who are farther down the road of this process. The beta male feels immensely put-upon for being so completely lied to. He also often feels cheated out of his rightful place with whatever women he ended up paying full price for getting married to. Finding out about the blowjobs and quickies handed out like candy to her college boyfriends/fraternity acquaintances destroys the image that he got a “good girl” just as she was ready to settle down. No, you got an amateur harlot just as she was ready to settle.

Bargaining!!! Repeat after me: “Not All Women are Like That”, or “My Woman Was Never Like That”. Repeat until you regress to the denial stage or until you laugh out loud at your own gullibility. Or buy into her rationalizations, such as counting multiple Steves as a single notch. Give her three-for-one on the blowjob count. Just the tip? 50% off!!

Depression can take many forms. This is not depression in the clinical sense, but instead a general sense of despair over the fact that a large majority of women can not be looked to for a reliable long term relationship. This stage can last quite a while because once a man has reached full Red Pill knowledge, he will be re-assessing many of his past experiences with women, and each new experience will be seen in the light of truth. This takes time to work through. Eventually, despair gives way to…

Acceptance. For some guys, MGTOW is the answer, along with complete withdrawal from dating. Some will play a stealthy revenge card.

For many, it takes the form of schadenfreude over the misfortune of these stupid, shallow women as they reach, time and time again for the brass ring of a committed alpha lover, only to fall off the horse into the dirt once again. There is almost always a self-loathing beta to come along and foolishly dust off her ego, even as he imagines he is winning her heart.

The manosphere is doing God’s work, though, by slowly reducing the quality and quantity of such supplicating beta males. The smarter and more self-aware beta males are removed one by one, leaving the dumber and more resistant men to act as emotional tampons for these women. In time, women will be forced to reach for lower quality fruit on the bottom branches. Normally, a woman who is a 6 will bruise her ego, her innocence, and probably her vajayjay sportfukking men who are an eight or higher, while using a man who is an actual six — and really her rightful counterpart — as her clean-up crew. When the male sixes decide to let princess free-fall into the mud puddle, she will be left shopping around for a four or five to patch her up, and she will see her sexual market value as lessened by it. Win."

Read more: UMan - Blog - The Schadenfreude*Channel

Damn, the rabbit hole is so much deeper than i ever thought. I have to admit that last three months or so i have been going through some classic beta rage. It's all good, live and learn, i am older now so i see how the game is.

I can't believe how i was when i was younger though. I put women on such crazy pedestals - They are all flowers who just want to be loved and you have to respect them and protect them. Thats actually what i used to think brehs...thats what women wanted me to think.


Taking the red pill is just....

 

[gameover82]

This will be a very long post, so bear with me. Honestly man, I feeling quite lovely. I'm sitting back without an ounce of anger towards them because forgiveness is a beautiful thing and I have other enjoyable things in life to focus on. God has blessed me greatly, and I'm thankful. Life is way too short to ever allow someone else to control my happiness. I simply don't make my well-being contingent on women. Any man that does is in for a very turbulent ride.

I did sit back and wonder what in the world were some of these women thinking because I always did my best to treat them decently... when she was down, I was there to listen to her problems, didn't cheat... turned down a fine woman while I was with her. It's just mind-boggling like you said. You do your best and treat them well, and while she's in your face, she's miss angel in love... but you find out she's doing her thing when she's away. I experienced it and I see others experiencing it over and over. I'm not mad at it at all. I simply understand like that song says, "Girls just want to have funnn." Character doesn't mean anything. Decency doesn't mean anything. Entertainment is everything to these modern women. The vast majority of western women got me feeling like Mike Singletary about them, "Can't win with them. No, can't do it."

The thing is women stay complaining about them wanting decent men, but they respond the negroes that treat them like whores and conspire to do devious deeds with them. On a serious level she might meet some side negro and he'll tell her to rob her boyfriend who hasn't done her an ounce of wrong and she'll do that because she just digs this new negro who she doesn't know so much. Women put a HUGE premium on that 'new car smell' as opposed to 'old reliable.' That's how serious it can get if you're not careful.

I'm just thankful to God I was brought out of those situations before it got worse, as in before I was legally committed. Thing is I see this same thing over and over and over, and these young cats out here need to be aware of this information before they get roasted. I've experienced it, I've had the ability to knock off other men's women but declined, so I pretty much have been on both sides of the coin. I'm not going to work with some sneaky broad and reward her with time and pleasure while she dumps on her man who isn't aware of all of these so-called 'problems' they've been having. Women love talking trash about the negro they are dealing with to the man they WANT to deal with as if that will impress him. Nah, doesn't work like that. Makes you look like a sneaky little ho. Never was married and never had kids, so I'm more than blessed to not have to deal with the past in any fashsion.

Real talk man, cats out here getting cheated on by their wives despite them doing everything, she takes half, he has to pay alimony and child support, and if he loses his job and can't afford it, she'll send him to jail. If you're not mentally prepared, this game will blow your mind man. Literally, their lives are screwed over and they did 'everything right.' She could be the one who broke up the relationship, but she'll get the kid, get child support, spend a minute portion on the child and the majority on herself, but still blame daddy for 'financial issues.' It's wicked out here man.

What really woke me up is when you sit back and just observe the mentality of a lot
of these women. They will say things like, "My money, my money, your money, my money." What kind of thing is that to say in a productive relationship? Go read the comment sections on celebrity divorces and if it's a woman getting paid out, it'll be 'goneee girl, get that money!' On the other hand, a man gets an alimony payment, and it's 'Ugghhh that little boy needs to get his own money!" You just start coming to the conclusion that these women have no concern for fairness or justice, but are always looking for the best deal possible. Couple that with all these different small interactions I've had with some of these women, and I've learned a lot of them don't appreciate generosity in any capacity, but will instead attempt to use them if you let them.

I'll never give 100% of my heart to a woman or build my life around her. Humans are humans and by nature humans are imperfect... I'm well aware of what human nature is capable of. I know that even though she's loyal today, tomorrow she can be iced out tomorrow and do me extra dirty tomorrow. Basically my attitude is like babygirl I enjoy your company and presence, but if you screw up, I can easily do without you. I don't build my life around women. If one enters my life, she is a part of my life, and I will demand she brings something to the table and acts right. If she comes with some sneaky behavior, she gets the boot and I'll keep it pushing, being happy all the time.

I remember going to the gym a couple of days ago and they have this huge outdoor track, with a slight breeze blowing, slightly cloudy, but man it was beautiful. I had so much peace and really sat back and started thinking, why in the world should I be stressing? There is so much else in life to enjoy that if one element fails, there is another to appreciate.

You pretty much have to set things up to where your happiness is not contingent on women and you have to protect yourself mentally, spiritually and financially so that you aren't ruined if she chooses to leave. Really man, I don't trip if a woman leaves me. There's a ton more where she came from and I feel no need to reward a traitor with much of an emotional reaction.

Dealing with women, everything is about positioning. As men, we DO have that innate desire to be a protector. You want that decent woman that you can call all yours, make sure she is taken care of and has nothing to worry about, make sure your kids are well taken care of, etc. That makes you feel great inside. Before I would have been cool with being the guy that held things down, but when you see so many guys out here getting married, paying all the bills and just doing all of this work and she goes to meet some guy at a bar and starts trashing her boyfriend to him and does all kind of nasty things, I make a note that I'm not going to be that guy. Me, I am a real sore loser. I don't like losing, being taken advantage of or looking like a sucker. I've simply had to curtail that natural 'protector' and 'provider' desire as a man because these women have a leach mentality and will look at you as some kind of sucker or simp. Kindness, they definitely take as weakness, and I don't have any tolerance for people taking advantage of my graciousness.

Part 2 coming up

 

[gameover82]

is it a bad sign if a girl has

1.has alot of tattoos
2.smoke way too much weed
3.wears leopard print
4.has more then one male friend

 

[Scotch Hall]

is it a bad sign if a girl has

1.has alot of tattoos
2.smoke way too much weed
3.wears leopard print
4.has more then one male friend

yes avoiding all of that saved me out of alot of jams
like the brother kevm3 says hoes share some of the same traits, its universal.

tattos show shes lives in the moment, leopard print is like wild running free no worries. that male friend thing is bad, she usually got a guy for everything. one to listen to her feelings, sex, money. on that plant tip, she prolly f'd a few guys to get a sack, most of those girls got bad attitudes.

 

[MikelArteta]

That Kevm post is basically my life, I've been there saved women who had nowhere to stay,been abused, was that guy who didn't cheat, didn't lie, didn't raise my fist but that's boring to them it doesn't tingle them like that "a$$hole"
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[MikelArteta]

This will be a very long post, so bear with me. Honestly man, I feeling quite lovely. I'm sitting back without an ounce of anger towards them because forgiveness is a beautiful thing and I have other enjoyable things in life to focus on. God has blessed me greatly, and I'm thankful. Life is way too short to ever allow someone else to control my happiness. I simply don't make my well-being contingent on women. Any man that does is in for a very turbulent ride.

I did sit back and wonder what in the world were some of these women thinking because I always did my best to treat them decently... when she was down, I was there to listen to her problems, didn't cheat... turned down a fine woman while I was with her. It's just mind-boggling like you said. You do your best and treat them well, and while she's in your face, she's miss angel in love... but you find out she's doing her thing when she's away. I experienced it and I see others experiencing it over and over. I'm not mad at it at all. I simply understand like that song says, "Girls just want to have funnn." Character doesn't mean anything. Decency doesn't mean anything. Entertainment is everything to these modern women. The vast majority of western women got me feeling like Mike Singletary about them, "Can't win with them. No, can't do it."

The thing is women stay complaining about them wanting decent men, but they respond the negroes that treat them like whores and conspire to do devious deeds with them. On a serious level she might meet some side negro and he'll tell her to rob her boyfriend who hasn't done her an ounce of wrong and she'll do that because she just digs this new negro who she doesn't know so much. Women put a HUGE premium on that 'new car smell' as opposed to 'old reliable.' That's how serious it can get if you're not careful.

I'm just thankful to God I was brought out of those situations before it got worse, as in before I was legally committed. Thing is I see this same thing over and over and over, and these young cats out here need to be aware of this information before they get roasted. I've experienced it, I've had the ability to knock off other men's women but declined, so I pretty much have been on both sides of the coin. I'm not going to work with some sneaky broad and reward her with time and pleasure while she dumps on her man who isn't aware of all of these so-called 'problems' they've been having. Women love talking trash about the negro they are dealing with to the man they WANT to deal with as if that will impress him. Nah, doesn't work like that. Makes you look like a sneaky little ho. Never was married and never had kids, so I'm more than blessed to not have to deal with the past in any fashsion.

Real talk man, cats out here getting cheated on by their wives despite them doing everything, she takes half, he has to pay alimony and child support, and if he loses his job and can't afford it, she'll send him to jail. If you're not mentally prepared, this game will blow your mind man. Literally, their lives are screwed over and they did 'everything right.' She could be the one who broke up the relationship, but she'll get the kid, get child support, spend a minute portion on the child and the majority on herself, but still blame daddy for 'financial issues.' It's wicked out here man.

What really woke me up is when you sit back and just observe the mentality of a lot
of these women. They will say things like, "My money, my money, your money, my money." What kind of thing is that to say in a productive relationship? Go read the comment sections on celebrity divorces and if it's a woman getting paid out, it'll be 'goneee girl, get that money!' On the other hand, a man gets an alimony payment, and it's 'Ugghhh that little boy needs to get his own money!" You just start coming to the conclusion that these women have no concern for fairness or justice, but are always looking for the best deal possible. Couple that with all these different small interactions I've had with some of these women, and I've learned a lot of them don't appreciate generosity in any capacity, but will instead attempt to use them if you let them.

I'll never give 100% of my heart to a woman or build my life around her. Humans are humans and by nature humans are imperfect... I'm well aware of what human nature is capable of. I know that even though she's loyal today, tomorrow she can be iced out tomorrow and do me extra dirty tomorrow. Basically my attitude is like babygirl I enjoy your company and presence, but if you screw up, I can easily do without you. I don't build my life around women. If one enters my life, she is a part of my life, and I will demand she brings something to the table and acts right. If she comes with some sneaky behavior, she gets the boot and I'll keep it pushing, being happy all the time.

I remember going to the gym a couple of days ago and they have this huge outdoor track, with a slight breeze blowing, slightly cloudy, but man it was beautiful. I had so much peace and really sat back and started thinking, why in the world should I be stressing? There is so much else in life to enjoy that if one element fails, there is another to appreciate.

You pretty much have to set things up to where your happiness is not contingent on women and you have to protect yourself mentally, spiritually and financially so that you aren't ruined if she chooses to leave. Really man, I don't trip if a woman leaves me. There's a ton more where she came from and I feel no need to reward a traitor with much of an emotional reaction.

Dealing with women, everything is about positioning. As men, we DO have that innate desire to be a protector. You want that decent woman that you can call all yours, make sure she is taken care of and has nothing to worry about, make sure your kids are well taken care of, etc. That makes you feel great inside. Before I would have been cool with being the guy that held things down, but when you see so many guys out here getting married, paying all the bills and just doing all of this work and she goes to meet some guy at a bar and starts trashing her boyfriend to him and does all kind of nasty things, I make a note that I'm not going to be that guy. Me, I am a real sore loser. I don't like losing, being taken advantage of or looking like a sucker. I've simply had to curtail that natural 'protector' and 'provider' desire as a man because these women have a leach mentality and will look at you as some kind of sucker or simp. Kindness, they definitely take as weakness, and I don't have any tolerance for people taking advantage of my graciousness.

Part 2 coming up

Breh you don't know how great the knowledge you drop, I appreciate this


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