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Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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yes avoiding all of that saved me out of alot of jams
like the brother kevm3 says hoes share some of the same traits, its universal.
tattos show shes lives in the moment, leopard print is like wild running free no worries. that male friend thing is bad, she usually got a guy for everything. one to listen to her feelings, sex, money. on that plant tip, she prolly f'd a few guys to get a sack, most of those girls got bad attitudes.
spot on about the tattoo part...the ones that got on dead center on their chest are just 
Scotch Hall
All Star
man I met some girls that had all four
that animal print is demonic and also watch out for girls that have kim k/marlyn monroll as they idol
some of these girls are for entertainment purposes only, no wife
Only if this info came in my life back in 1997, I would literally be a legend in dating women.
Now in late 2012, I already got this info, but through SERIOUS trial and error. If I had this back then, there would be no need for me to do anything stupid.Only if this info came in my life back in 1997, I would literally be a legend in dating women.
for me was mid late 2000"s
my whole mindset changed over the past 4 weeks
black philip show
this thread
i feel like a new man
i gotta pass this info to my 2 younger brothers
Only if this info came in my life back in 1997, I would literally be a legend in dating women.
"Man is stronger....woman is coward"--Bob Marley
Look at how these "independent women" love to talk about and make threats about sending someone to court, or going to the police.
Its either one of those two when they cannot get their way like spoiled brats
"Ill see u in court"
I cringe at when they show cowardly behavior like that. Its disgusting....
Fight your own battles since you want the responsibilities of men
Brother Kevm3 with the gospel again 
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A lot of my thoughts concur with the things Kevm3 said such as happiness shouldn't be contingent on a specific person or thing.
I can honestly say the past 2 years I literally had my happiness in the hands of this women I was dealing with.
The story is I live in a 3 story house with most of my familiy. I got my own spot in the third floor to me and my older brother so I got a crib so to speak.
First floor is Mom/Dad and my grandma and little cousin. Second floor is my aunts and other cousins close in age.
This chick from down in florida came up to Jersey to live with us(She was good friends with my aunts since way back and whatnot.) She was going through a potential divorce with her husband so she came up here to escape that household she claimed which was terrible. She left a kid down there also with him.
Immediately after she arrives I hear that she's feeling me. Now she's much older than me I was 21 and she was 27. First error I did was mess with a chick who lived in the same house as me. I ended up smashing her and having easy access to the p*ssy which at the time seemed like a no brainer.
That convenience soon became inconvenience. After a few months or so she started to "befriend" these male guys who were obviously trying to hit it. She'd be on some
"I knew him from back in Haiti(We're haitian BTW). Now the stress from seeing her chat with these dudes on the phone and her openly comparing them to me whenever I did something she "didn't like" was overwhelming. I just ignored all the signs that this isn't going to work out because in fear of losing the easy p*ssy and then having to endure the jealousy and envy of seeing other guys in her presence. I used to have days where I'd be in my room all day because she'd be mad at me and I'd avoid her because If I went around her she'd try to purposely get me jealous by flirting with my cousin in front of me. She'd try to sit on his lap and act like it's nothing.
One time I kept pestering her because she was ignoring me and I tried to get rough by grabbing her ass and she got
then I tried to grab her to talk and she just started to tassel with me and ending up biting me in the chest leaving a scar.
I had a fight with her twice in a span of months and now have two scars on my chest from that and a couple of locs that had to be sewed back in to my root. Needless to say I finally got away from all that mess and don't mess with her anymore since then. We had several times where she got straight up disrespectful with me and I forgave her because she'd just throw the ass at me and shyt would be gravy. Now I know not to reward bullshyt behavior because in her head she's like "nikka you soft" She even TOLD me that one time like "w/e i know you just talking shyt if I give you some p*ssy you gonna shut up."
.A lot of my thoughts concur with the things Kevm3 said such as happiness shouldn't be contingent on a specific person or thing.
I can honestly say the past 2 years I literally had my happiness in the hands of this women I was dealing with.
The story is I live in a 3 story house with most of my familiy. I got my own spot in the third floor to me and my older brother so I got a crib so to speak.
First floor is Mom/Dad and my grandma and little cousin. Second floor is my aunts and other cousins close in age.
This chick from down in florida came up to Jersey to live with us(She was good friends with my aunts since way back and whatnot.) She was going through a potential divorce with her husband so she came up here to escape that household she claimed which was terrible. She left a kid down there also with him.
Immediately after she arrives I hear that she's feeling me. Now she's much older than me I was 21 and she was 27. First error I did was mess with a chick who lived in the same house as me. I ended up smashing her and having easy access to the p*ssy which at the time seemed like a no brainer.
That convenience soon became inconvenience. After a few months or so she started to "befriend" these male guys who were obviously trying to hit it. She'd be on some
"I knew him from back in Haiti(We're haitian BTW). Now the stress from seeing her chat with these dudes on the phone and her openly comparing them to me whenever I did something she "didn't like" was overwhelming. I just ignored all the signs that this isn't going to work out because in fear of losing the easy p*ssy and then having to endure the jealousy and envy of seeing other guys in her presence. I used to have days where I'd be in my room all day because she'd be mad at me and I'd avoid her because If I went around her she'd try to purposely get me jealous by flirting with my cousin in front of me. She'd try to sit on his lap and act like it's nothing. One time I kept pestering her because she was ignoring me and I tried to get rough by grabbing her ass and she got
then I tried to grab her to talk and she just started to tassel with me and ending up biting me in the chest leaving a scar. I had a fight with her twice in a span of months and now have two scars on my chest from that and a couple of locs that had to be sewed back in to my root. Needless to say I finally got away from all that mess and don't mess with her anymore since then. We had several times where she got straight up disrespectful with me and I forgave her because she'd just throw the ass at me and shyt would be gravy. Now I know not to reward bullshyt behavior because in her head she's like
"nikka you soft" She even TOLD me that one time like "w/e i know you just talking shyt if I give you some p*ssy you gonna shut up."
I can't find the documentary anywhere, all I know of it is the trailer. If you know where to find it let me know and I'll download it and distribute it to the masses.
But I can understand why it was made, and why Caribbean and Latin American women are held in higher regard. It's also why white dudes live in Asia, the backbone of American culture is money and the quest for more. In other countries, the backbone of the culture is family first and family second. You never hear about men from other countries coming to America to find their wives or mail order brides from the US, nikkas know better, shyt would be return to sender immediately.
Let me paint a picture for you. Imagine a woman with natural jet black hair, contrasted by a huge red streak on top, as if the koolaid man tripped and emptied his contents onto her noggin... her body is draped in a very tight, cheap neon green spandex dress that looks like she copped it out of walmart somewhere. Tongue ring in mouth, hand-drawn eyebrows, and a face caked with make-up... She's ready fellas. Her and her tawdry crew enters the club and looks around. Some southern bounce song comes on, bass-line blaring, and the music enters her body. She feels the groove and walks over to some random guy and bends over, her body looking like half a mcdonalds arch, that skirt rising up the more she bends, exposing that gap between her legs because she didn't wear any panties... she's grinding frantically to the beat, the temperature rising, lost in a few moments of ecstasy, courtesy of the crotch of a random club dweller she knows not an iota about. They grind so passionately, it's as if they are having sex with clothes on. Her homegirl, dressed in a similar fashion looks over at her and smiles, while chanting, "GET IT GIRL!" or more often, girl is replaced with the euphemism for female dog. The grinding gets more intense and the feelings elevate and both parties are beyond the tipping point so this random club denizen grabs her by the hand and drags her to the bathroom... a few moments later, she pulls her skirt back down and walks back out with a smile on her face after her nether regions have been filled by her dance partner. A couple of hours her and her girls leave the club. You know what we call that fellas? "Girl's night out."
Now let me lay out the keys as to why I have a very short leash for 'western women' and I'm sure most of you have experienced a lot of these elements:
1) No accountability
- Western women very rarely hold themselves culpable for their actions. They want to be respected as men, but they don't want the accountability that comes with being a man. That leads to:
2) Victim Mentality
- It is never her fault. It's always the fault of the man or the environment. She didn't cheat because she wanted something new. She didn't do her thing in the parking lot because she was a freak. Either it was because her man 'didn't pay attention to her needs' or the other guy 'seduced her.'
3) Her mentality: "What does it benefit me?" and rarely "How do we work together?"
- Rarely is the question in the mind of the woman, how can I solidify my relationship with my and how do I build something greater with him? The question running in their mind is more likely, "What is he doing for me? What does he have to offer me?" And this leads to concepts such as 'roster building' and 'starter husbands' aka 'financial and emotional hosts'. Now, let me elaborate. Roster building is the concept of a woman dealign with several different men, all for different purposes. She has different echelons, but all of the men in that circle are all for her benefit. The top breed are the ones she sleeps with most often. These are the guys she really likes, who remains mysterious, doesn't put up with her nonsense and she does all the nasty things in the book with them. They never commit to her. Then she has her various handymen of sort-- guys to fix stuff up for her, make her laugh, listen to her problems, etc. She may sleep with them every now and then, but they get the leftover of her attention. She will make sure to get as many favors from these guys while reciprocating as little as possible to them. When they need a favor, she's 'busy', won't pick up her phone, etc. Then there's Mr. Provider, aka her boyfriend. This negro is the one who has to deal with listening to all her problems, be financially responsible, protect her, etc. He has to 'man up' and live up to his masculine duties... but when it comes to her feminine duties? No, she's not doing that. She's not being a 'domestic slave.' That's offensive and sexist. This is the fella putting in the most work and getting the least benefit. She's rationing sex to him and talking to him any which way in order to chop down his self-esteem for her to be able to manipulate him into getting her way.
Now a starter husband is the culmination of that last category. She is essentially using him to eventually shuck him so that she can get a free pay-out of money via alimony or child support. This is a terrible place to be fellas.
4) Brings nothing to the table that she isn't giving away more easily for much less work
Realistically, the only thing that a western woman brings to the table is what's between her legs, and she doesn't require any sort of exclusivity in order to give that away. In fact, she gives that out more often to the man that refuses to be exclusive to her. Oh yeah, maybe she will cook for you for a little while when ya'll first get together in order to hook you. Once she got you, watch that evaporate.
5) Hidden problems
- The woman is mad cool when you first meet her. Everything is going great. However, when the 1st month mark ticks by, you start seeing a few problems, but they aren't that prominent, so you ignore them. 3 month mark, more serious problems start developing, but you've put down a relatively significant investment of time, so you deal with it... 1 year to 2 years in... "whoa, what in the world? I didn't expect this? How did I get here?"
When you first meet babygirl: Beautiful conversations, laid back... she is so perfect. I've found a hidden gem. No attitude problems. She's fine.
1 month in: Her attitude gets a little snippier, but she's still cool. I got a lot of love for her. But who are these dudes that keep messaging her on facebook?
3 months in: Here comes the test. "Can I hang with my homeboy? We're just friends and he wants to take me to dinner." "No." "What? Are you serious? You don't trust me? This relationship can't work if you don't trust me. I don't believe you."
1 year in: Her steady attention turns sporadic. You used to see her every day or every other day. Now all of a sudden she has a week or weeks where you don't see her because she's mysteriously become busy. The affection has dried up. She's alright, but not the girl you met... You hang on because you've invested so much time. You try to find things to make it work and reignite the passion. It works for a week or two before it goes back to that same old cold nature.
2 years: I can't take it. This relationship is garbage. She's always 'busy.' You eventually find out around the grapevine she was doing her own thing... and if you don't find out, she approaches you with the need to 'talk.' During this talk, she tells you some nonsense like she feels you two should separate because she needs time alone to regroup and find herself. Two weeks later after her needing 'time to find herself', you see her with a new dude.
Let's intersperse possible drug problems or anger issues into the mix. She's having problems with her family and friends and needs to stay with you. She might need to drive your car. She's going through some depression and needs your energy to make it through.
6) Has these hoola-hoops and high standards for her attention but brings nothing to the table and has ceaseless demands unless you are that negro that doesn't play that and she really likes
- A lot of women might smile when they see you. You chop it with her and have a cool little conversation, cop the number and schedule a date. You take her out, but instead of appreciating it, she's constantly looking for things to be critical of and carefully watching for ways that you 'screw up' in her eyes, aka say something she doesn't like so she can use it against you or engage in some singular action that she thinks is corny. Your conversation needs to be this perfect blend of listening to her talk about her problems, of seduction and humor or else she mysteriously 'needs to go' and your future attempts to contact her are met with 'I'm busy.' Rarely do you get a straight-forward answer, but rather a bunch of excuses in which she expects you to 'get the point.' But those excuses are there to hopefully leave her an open door to which if she needs a favor or if she sees you shining and takes a fancy to you, she can come right back on in. "Sorry, babygirl, that's a no-go. You wasn't with it before, so you ain't gonna be with it now." I mean we've said over and over she brings nothing to the table, but expects you to come with this perfect blend in order to 'maintain her attention.' Otherwise, she'll give you all the flaking or she'll come with some stank, sarcastic attitude.
7) Not appreciative of a doggone thing
You took her to dinner, but it wasn't 'worthy of her.' You didn't buy her an expensive enough gift. You weren't there when she needed you the most, even though you really were. You didn't 'satisfy her needs', even though you attempted to give her everything she could want or need both in terms of finances and in terms of your personal affection and attention. You're putting in all of this work and she doesn't appreciate it an iota, but rather finds some minuscule element in the relationship that you couldn't fulfill due to you handling everything else as an excuse for her to step out on you. This ties in with the whole victim mentality. You've wasted a ton of time, financial resources, and emotions only for none of it to have been appreciated.
Part 3 will be coming soon
Now let me lay out the keys as to why I have a very short leash for 'western women' and I'm sure most of you have experienced a lot of these elements:
1) No accountability
- Western women very rarely hold themselves culpable for their actions. They want to be respected as men, but they don't want the accountability that comes with being a man. That leads to:
2) Victim Mentality
- It is never her fault. It's always the fault of the man or the environment. She didn't cheat because she wanted something new. She didn't do her thing in the parking lot because she was a freak. Either it was because her man 'didn't pay attention to her needs' or the other guy 'seduced her.'
3) Her mentality: "What does it benefit me?" and rarely "How do we work together?"
- Rarely is the question in the mind of the woman, how can I solidify my relationship with my and how do I build something greater with him? The question running in their mind is more likely, "What is he doing for me? What does he have to offer me?" And this leads to concepts such as 'roster building' and 'starter husbands' aka 'financial and emotional hosts'. Now, let me elaborate. Roster building is the concept of a woman dealign with several different men, all for different purposes. She has different echelons, but all of the men in that circle are all for her benefit. The top breed are the ones she sleeps with most often. These are the guys she really likes, who remains mysterious, doesn't put up with her nonsense and she does all the nasty things in the book with them. They never commit to her. Then she has her various handymen of sort-- guys to fix stuff up for her, make her laugh, listen to her problems, etc. She may sleep with them every now and then, but they get the leftover of her attention. She will make sure to get as many favors from these guys while reciprocating as little as possible to them. When they need a favor, she's 'busy', won't pick up her phone, etc. Then there's Mr. Provider, aka her boyfriend. This negro is the one who has to deal with listening to all her problems, be financially responsible, protect her, etc. He has to 'man up' and live up to his masculine duties... but when it comes to her feminine duties? No, she's not doing that. She's not being a 'domestic slave.' That's offensive and sexist. This is the fella putting in the most work and getting the least benefit. She's rationing sex to him and talking to him any which way in order to chop down his self-esteem for her to be able to manipulate him into getting her way.
Now a starter husband is the culmination of that last category. She is essentially using him to eventually shuck him so that she can get a free pay-out of money via alimony or child support. This is a terrible place to be fellas.
4) Brings nothing to the table that she isn't giving away more easily for much less work
Realistically, the only thing that a western woman brings to the table is what's between her legs, and she doesn't require any sort of exclusivity in order to give that away. In fact, she gives that out more often to the man that refuses to be exclusive to her. Oh yeah, maybe she will cook for you for a little while when ya'll first get together in order to hook you. Once she got you, watch that evaporate.
5) Hidden problems
- The woman is mad cool when you first meet her. Everything is going great. However, when the 1st month mark ticks by, you start seeing a few problems, but they aren't that prominent, so you ignore them. 3 month mark, more serious problems start developing, but you've put down a relatively significant investment of time, so you deal with it... 1 year to 2 years in... "whoa, what in the world? I didn't expect this? How did I get here?"
When you first meet babygirl: Beautiful conversations, laid back... she is so perfect. I've found a hidden gem. No attitude problems. She's fine.
1 month in: Her attitude gets a little snippier, but she's still cool. I got a lot of love for her. But who are these dudes that keep messaging her on facebook?
3 months in: Here comes the test. "Can I hang with my homeboy? We're just friends and he wants to take me to dinner." "No." "What? Are you serious? You don't trust me? This relationship can't work if you don't trust me. I don't believe you."
1 year in: Her steady attention turns sporadic. You used to see her every day or every other day. Now all of a sudden she has a week or weeks where you don't see her because she's mysteriously become busy. The affection has dried up. She's alright, but not the girl you met... You hang on because you've invested so much time. You try to find things to make it work and reignite the passion. It works for a week or two before it goes back to that same old cold nature.
2 years: I can't take it. This relationship is garbage. She's always 'busy.' You eventually find out around the grapevine she was doing her own thing... and if you don't find out, she approaches you with the need to 'talk.' During this talk, she tells you some nonsense like she feels you two should separate because she needs time alone to regroup and find herself. Two weeks later after her needing 'time to find herself', you see her with a new dude.
Let's intersperse possible drug problems or anger issues into the mix. She's having problems with her family and friends and needs to stay with you. She might need to drive your car. She's going through some depression and needs your energy to make it through.
6) Has these hoola-hoops and high standards for her attention but brings nothing to the table and has ceaseless demands unless you are that negro that doesn't play that and she really likes
- A lot of women might smile when they see you. You chop it with her and have a cool little conversation, cop the number and schedule a date. You take her out, but instead of appreciating it, she's constantly looking for things to be critical of and carefully watching for ways that you 'screw up' in her eyes, aka say something she doesn't like so she can use it against you or engage in some singular action that she thinks is corny. Your conversation needs to be this perfect blend of listening to her talk about her problems, of seduction and humor or else she mysteriously 'needs to go' and your future attempts to contact her are met with 'I'm busy.' Rarely do you get a straight-forward answer, but rather a bunch of excuses in which she expects you to 'get the point.' But those excuses are there to hopefully leave her an open door to which if she needs a favor or if she sees you shining and takes a fancy to you, she can come right back on in. "Sorry, babygirl, that's a no-go. You wasn't with it before, so you ain't gonna be with it now." I mean we've said over and over she brings nothing to the table, but expects you to come with this perfect blend in order to 'maintain her attention.' Otherwise, she'll give you all the flaking or she'll come with some stank, sarcastic attitude.
7) Not appreciative of a doggone thing
You took her to dinner, but it wasn't 'worthy of her.' You didn't buy her an expensive enough gift. You weren't there when she needed you the most, even though you really were. You didn't 'satisfy her needs', even though you attempted to give her everything she could want or need both in terms of finances and in terms of your personal affection and attention. You're putting in all of this work and she doesn't appreciate it an iota, but rather finds some minuscule element in the relationship that you couldn't fulfill due to you handling everything else as an excuse for her to step out on you. This ties in with the whole victim mentality. You've wasted a ton of time, financial resources, and emotions only for none of it to have been appreciated.
Part 3 will be coming soon
Had to dap you and give you rep
That video should really get it's own thread, I'm downloading it right now.
DaRealness
I think very deeply
Kevm3 dropping....
BTW first time I peeped this thread in detail. Bout to get some sleep and read this tomorrow.
Had to dap you and give you rep
That video should really get it's own thread, I'm downloading it right now.
It's all love, G.. I DL'd it earlier still haven't watched it yet though..
I know that I sound like a broken record, but you can single handily fix the simping epidemic as we know it. You are the solution to all these problems.
+ rep to the fullest