Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I love my girl but farting and not having your hair done doesn't make me wanna initiate sex with her.

It's been 5 days and I know shes like :mindblown: but ima have to let her know to step it up
She got mad comfortable. My main was burping all over the phone the other day, had to tell her that shyt is a turn off :francis:.
 

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Yeah, I'm just coming off 15 years of being out of the game. Definitely rusty for sure; as mentioned previously, I had that same mindset. I was unsure, thought she was the only girl for me and was down and out. It took me a while to find myself. It took me even longer to say "fukk you" and to pack my toys up and leave.

The two biggest lessons I learned is: 1) Never let her see you sweat/or display that you can't live without her. 2) nikka, you got options, you always have options. When a bytch wanna act up, call that audible and go play the 'read option'. You're the master of your fate - not her. So don't give her that mental power over you no matter how dire it gets.
:blessed: my brehs are awake and peeping game. Salute homie
 

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:salute:, never can get to comfortable, women can change like the wind one day they love you next day unsurre and try to blame you even though it's them.

Few things I've learned is there will always be another woman if you want.

And if a woman wants to be with you she will, if she doesn't she won't. It doesn't matter what you say or do because a woman will always rationalize that she's doing what's right .

It's a blessing breh, if a woman jets and she's not coming back you don't see it there and then but it's a blessing rejection is redirection.



Yeah, I'm just coming off 15 years of being out of the game. Definitely rusty for sure; as mentioned previously, I had that same mindset. I was unsure, thought she was the only girl for me and was down and out. It took me a while to find myself. It took me even longer to say "fukk you" and to pack my toys up and leave.

The two biggest lessons I learned is: 1) Never let her see you sweat/or display that you can't live without her. 2) nikka, you got options, you always have options. When a bytch wanna act up, call that audible and go play the 'read option'. You're the master of your fate - not her. So don't give her that mental power over you no matter how dire it gets.
 

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Cut her off no contact, stay busy. Remove all reminders, don't listen to sappy music.
Travel, pick up ahobby,watch a TV series .

Go shopping, rearrange your house


Cutting a chick off that I care about somewhat. What are some ways my brehs have found to get over a chick? I'm fukking drowning
 

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Cutting a chick off that I care about somewhat. What are some ways my brehs have found to get over a chick? I'm fukking drowning
It takes time, breh. You need to focus on yourself and give it a while. In my opinion, one of the worst things you can do is find another chick to distract yourself. Work through the feelings and grow from it. Keep moving forward.

been single for 2weeks now after almost 7yrs wit the same chick. finally starting to get over it.

jus downloaded tinder time to :eat:
Seven years is a long ass time man. You will probably need a lot more than 2 weeks to move on. What's the rush in getting involved with another chick so quickly? You could just take some time to date you.
 

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wooow, so no marriage. y'all were just together?

nah no marriage we jus gotta daughter together.
It takes time, breh. You need to focus on yourself and give it a while. In my opinion, one of the worst things you can do is find another chick to distract yourself. Work through the feelings and grow from it. Keep moving forward.


Seven years is a long ass time man. You will probably need a lot more than 2 weeks to move on. What's the rush in getting involved with another chick so quickly? You could just take some time to date you.

You right breh i need more time :sadcam: i aint even ready to tlk to new chics yet.
 

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Cut her off no contact, stay busy. Remove all reminders, don't listen to sappy music.
Travel, pick up ahobby,watch a TV series .

Go shopping, rearrange your house

Co-sign this. About a yr ago I Broke up with my ex of 4 years. I was on straight :mjcry:status for like 3 months.

Just started stacking bred, traveling and going to the gym 4x a week. My ex couldnt get me back if she wanted
 

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Yeah, I'm just coming off 15 years of being out of the game. Definitely rusty for sure; as mentioned previously, I had that same mindset. I was unsure, thought she was the only girl for me and was down and out. It took me a while to find myself. It took me even longer to say "fukk you" and to pack my toys up and leave.

The two biggest lessons I learned is: 1) Never let her see you sweat/or display that you can't live without her. 2) nikka, you got options, you always have options. When a bytch wanna act up, call that audible and go play the 'read option'. You're the master of your fate - not her. So don't give her that mental power over you no matter how dire it gets.

Breh....you don't know how much I needed to read this.
 

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:ehh:Took a different approach to shoot my shot with this chick I've been digging for a while now. I refused to get in those DM's or Inbox. She's coming up on her 1 year anniversary of having her own business and is throwing a party, This move is either stupid or brilliant :patrice:
:lupe: going to find out tomorrow or Friday if my shot worked.
 
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