Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[ProfessionallyTrill]

I got a side chick and I don't even know her name

 

[360dagod]

I saw it the same as her being in a relationship for 2 or 3 years and not working out. A woman atleast worth to get wifed up and it didn't work. If she had kids I wouldn't even try.[/QUOTE]

Your the rebound...be careful breh..

 

[MikelArteta]

Time is the great equalizer.

You can think clearly, emotions die down.

I think my first breakup, I spent the first month begging , then reading relationship forums on how to get your ex back doing no contact for her to miss me, heart jumping every time my phone rang then not giving a damn.

Co-sign this. About a yr ago I Broke up with my ex of 4 years. I was on straight status for like 3 months.

Just started stacking bred, traveling and going to the gym 4x a week. My ex couldnt get me back if she wanted

 

[Youseenmywork]

Time is the great equalizer.

You can think clearly, emotions die down.

I think my first breakup, I spent the first month begging , then reading relationship forums on how to get your ex back doing no contact for her to miss me, heart jumping every time my phone rang then not giving a damn.

It's funny I JUST got off the phone with an ex. We got a chance to clear the air. I can say she is the only women I want to be friends with ....we go back to 2012 is how long we've known each other. Dont hold in any animosity brehs it anit health. She has grown as a women In the 2 1/2 years since I've known her and I'm pretty sure she would say the same about me. I wish things would have worked out but life goes on.

 

[Gus Money]

nah no marriage we jus gotta daughter together.


You right breh i need more time i aint even ready to tlk to new chics yet.

Nothing wrong with that. You will always have to deal with her since you have a kid together, but enjoy your freedom! Date yourself for a few months and remember what it feels like to just worry about you.

 

[Ohene]

My experiences have told me otherwise. Even when i'm not honest with something from the beginning and try to make things right in the end, i still get the third degree. At least i'm man enough to admit i did screw up, but that don't count for anything. Instead i get cursed out and the phone hung up in my face. SMH.

I'm with @Blaxican707

i remember my homie told me i gotta cheat and lie to women when necessary. I told him straight up, "I've never met a bytch worth lying to."

If I did, I wouldn't be doing anything to her worth lying about.

That's how i see it

 

[DarkHorse23]

I'm with @Blaxican707

i remember my homie told me i gotta cheat and lie to women when necessary. I told him straight up, "I've never met a bytch worth lying to."

If I did, I wouldn't be doing anything to her worth lying about.

That's how i see it

Well after the emotion subsided, i got a call this afternoon being praised for being honest. I guess after the emotion outburst is done and women get the time to see what you did , those who are reasonable will appreciate your honesty, because at the end of day i didn't HAVE to be honest. I did however because i valued the friendship, and i wanted to dispel the perception that i was a liar, fake, or trying to be a player. Today was a good day. I can move on in peace.

 

[root_eruditorium_org]

Time is the great equalizer.

You can think clearly, emotions die down.

I think my first breakup, I spent the first month begging , then reading relationship forums on how to get your ex back doing no contact for her to miss me, heart jumping every time my phone rang then not giving a damn.

damn breh, i wouldn't even admit that on here. trust reinscarf to keep it a hunnit. i spent months begging too but i never even got her in the first place

i was trying to simp my way intto the cooch

damn i don't miss the old me sad times

 

[Pimp]

You need to readjust your mind; she aint the only female out there breh. Plenty, PLENTY more of them hoes out there. If you have doubt, you use Tinder or Soul Swipe just to reconfirm what I said. Just buy the app and like every single profile and see what you come up with.

The key is not accepting the fact that she is the only one for you, that's not even the case or even remotely true. There are more females out there. Dust yourself off and get hungry

you have to use your facebook account to log in with tinder?

 

[Phitz]

Ok guys i wanted to get your advice before I do something to create any more drama. I started a part time job back in January. I work in ladies shoes, and there was 2 girls up there that I was attracted to. One was nigerian, 26, and the other was this black girl, pretty, 24 years old. Anyway when i came up there I was interested in both, but decided to talk to the nigerian chick, because initially she was the most friendly towards me, and the other chick didn't even speak to me my first 2-3 days working there. I personally found that weird, here am I the new guy and everybody speaks and introduces themselves and you don't even say hi. So based on all that i decided to focus on getting to know the nigerian chick. So anyway after being here for about a month, after engaging in small talk with the other chick, a big part of me wants to get to know her better, and in hindsight maybe that should've been who i pursued in the first place. The nigerian girl is a very nice girl, but our personalities don't mesh, she's very blunt, straightforward, and i'm not us to people like that. My attitude is you can be honest, but when you can't recognize when you're rude or disrespectful then i don't know what to tell you. So anyway my biggest problem with the nigerian chick is her personality and some of the things she's said to me that i found rude and disrespectful, and basically at this point i want to explore this other option. I'm just wondering if i'm making myself out to look like a liar, because i had repeatedly told the nigerian chick that i wasn't interested in the other girl, but now i'm actually going ahead of asking for her #. Plus the other chick has flaws too, like why you go back to tell the other girl everything i say to you , and why i gotta be a player or fake because i talk to both of you. So girls can have options, but I can't? Why can't i wanna get to know both of you, and see who is the right fit for me. Anyway a part of me feels like maybe i should just if i wanna talk to other girls maybe talk to another in a different department, but another part of me when i see the light skin chick and see how fine she is and i just go and think i need to go ahead and really put my hat in the ring and see what happens. Also she's leaving in 2 weeks for another job, she doesn't like management so I figure why not. Anyway at the end of the day i'm single, and me and other chick were just friends anyway and i really don't owe anybody a damn thing

Dating women at work is a no no

 

[Solano707]

you have to use your facebook account to log in with tinder?

Yes, but it doesn't post anything to facebook. I think you can even create your own account without facebook. Most dating apps pull your photos and infomration from facebook, but never pushes your dating status on facebook.

 

[Solano707]

I'm with @Blaxican707

i remember my homie told me i gotta cheat and lie to women when necessary. I told him straight up, "I've never met a bytch worth lying to."

If I did, I wouldn't be doing anything to her worth lying about.

That's how i see it

...and it's a lot of damn work honestly to keep up with lies. shyt, it's tough trying to get in some draws already as is.

 

[Bless't]

It takes time, breh. You need to focus on yourself and give it a while. In my opinion, one of the worst things you can do is find another chick to distract yourself. Work through the feelings and grow from it. Keep moving forward.


Seven years is a long ass time man. You will probably need a lot more than 2 weeks to move on. What's the rush in getting involved with another chick so quickly? You could just take some time to date you.

Fantastic advice. I noticed the 2 weeks comment too.

 

[Urbanmiracle]

Still going good with this nurse girl. The other day she came over and we watched movies and she surprised me with a gift of Gucci Guilty cologne that I mention I liked. I rarely get surprised like that. Also I noticed more and more she asking to come over or hang out. Even invited me to a her friend baby shower. Hmmmm


On the dating a chick from work: DO NOT PROCEED! I'm dealing with that now. I was dating/ fukking this supervisor from my job for over a year and I made the mistake of doing "BF shyt" with her ( her meeting my pops, we took a road trip to Montreal etc) and I found myself not wanting to take it to the next level cause she had a bad rep at work. So she noticed I became distant (cuz things started getting good with the nurse) and she was like I wanna be with you and I said I don't see it like that. Now everytime there is OT she wanna come to my area. I see this woman 3 times a week and it's awkward as fukk. If you can, avoid this bullshyt.

 

[DarkHorse23]

Dating women at work is a no no

Well she's actually leaving now. Supposedly put in her two weeks, so that won't be an issue. Going ask her for her number today. Hopefully she gives me some play.

I somewhat agree with you though, because people are so messy. Smh you got grown ass adults in they 50's asking you about the girl they suspect you talking to, and asking so "what you do for valentine's day?" . Like really? . Why yall so worried about my personal life?