RealAssanova
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my shot didn't go as expected, but at least she's aware of the kid right now. Can only go up from here.
what happened?
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what happened?
what happened?
She celebrated her 1 year anniversary of her salon the other day, decided to send her a congratulatory letter to her salon via us mail with a gift card to a restaurant that's next to where I work. Kept the letter real cordial and shyt..she hit me through FB later on saying "thanks love, really appreciate the gift, that was very sweet of you <3 <3 <3".. Tried to give her a reason to come down to my area, hopefully I cracked the window in her brain, not going to sweat it though
root_eruditorium_org
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Just been arguing with somebody about this, and I was saying what you are saying but they weren't having it ... I agree with you. I don't trust women who have a lot of male "friends", shyt is weird to me ...
how was the sex life between u 2?
I've learned, with women, u need to set the rules very early. im talking, as early as the 2nd or 3rd date, after you've fuccekd them of course. if u haven't fuccked a chick, u really cant tell her sh1t cause shes not yet emotionally connected to u. but after that, u need to let her know u will never tolerate any male friends. the only friends shes allowed to have are friends she grew up with and are basically like brothers to her. even then, if she's hot, her contact with these guys is to be limited.
a woman will either submit to ur authority or she'll bounce. but u cant be trying to exert any kind of authority deep into the relationship. set ur boundaries early. very early.
i went on a date recently. and while the chick was really into me. she kept responding to this idiot female friend of her. and i got really annoyed. told her, u need to tell that girl ur on a date and dead that conversation. she looked at me a lil funny/confused but eventually realized from the expression on my face i meant business and would walk out if she continued that nonsense. needless to say, she never picked up her phone again throughout the date.
God punished Adam because Adam failed as a leader. He was weak in the face of temptation. The sooner u guys start leading in ur relationships, the better off you'll be. i learned this the hard way. trust me on this.
a woman will either submit to ur authority or she'll bounce. but u cant be trying to exert any kind of authority deep into the relationship. set ur boundaries early. very early.
i went on a date recently. and while the chick was really into me. she kept responding to this idiot female friend of her. and i got really annoyed. told her, u need to tell that girl ur on a date and dead that conversation. she looked at me a lil funny/confused but eventually realized from the expression on my face i meant business and would walk out if she continued that nonsense. needless to say, she never picked up her phone again throughout the date.
God punished Adam because Adam failed as a leader. He was weak in the face of temptation. The sooner u guys start leading in ur relationships, the better off you'll be. i learned this the hard way. trust me on this.
Rocket Scientist
Superstar
I just don't get it modern SOME women WONT
1.Cook or clean
2.Wont take your last name in a marriage
3.Will stay on Facebook/Twitter with numerous selfies (vanity)
4.Can only talk about so much.When was the last time you talked to a woman about a real topic.How many women have quoted Betty Shabazz more then Beyoncé.Ask a woman when Malcolm X b day is and I bet she wont know.Ask about a certain celebrity she would
5.Fake hair fake nails,eyelash.Ridicilous "Secretariat" horse hair weave.Crazy wigs. I can understand a lil weave but weaves are too much these days lol
6.Doesnt go to church.Will she read the Bible with you.Pray with you? Does she help bless the food? Can she quote a scripture.
7.A roster full of men (homeboys from back in day).Male friends?LOL miss me with that
8.Tatted up more then JR SMITH.Piercings etc..
9.Dips when times gets tough.At times can be mentally weak.Hard being a black man,dont need to hear a complaint about something trivial (drama on job) etc Also modern day women homegirl knows more about your relationship issue then you do.
10.MOST of all wont help you build.If you were in a relationship and didnt have dough would she be there after a few months.If a dude rode the bus all the time would she stay?If he was homeless would she on the park bench with him?
1.Cook or clean
2.Wont take your last name in a marriage
3.Will stay on Facebook/Twitter with numerous selfies (vanity)
4.Can only talk about so much.When was the last time you talked to a woman about a real topic.How many women have quoted Betty Shabazz more then Beyoncé.Ask a woman when Malcolm X b day is and I bet she wont know.Ask about a certain celebrity she would
5.Fake hair fake nails,eyelash.Ridicilous "Secretariat" horse hair weave.Crazy wigs. I can understand a lil weave but weaves are too much these days lol
6.Doesnt go to church.Will she read the Bible with you.Pray with you? Does she help bless the food? Can she quote a scripture.
7.A roster full of men (homeboys from back in day).Male friends?LOL miss me with that
8.Tatted up more then JR SMITH.Piercings etc..
9.Dips when times gets tough.At times can be mentally weak.Hard being a black man,dont need to hear a complaint about something trivial (drama on job) etc Also modern day women homegirl knows more about your relationship issue then you do.
10.MOST of all wont help you build.If you were in a relationship and didnt have dough would she be there after a few months.If a dude rode the bus all the time would she stay?If he was homeless would she on the park bench with him?
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root_eruditorium_org
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I just heard of how this old couple (nice people) I know have been together for 46 years. I was just thinking to myself ... wooow. Can that still happen in this day and age or are we forever lost?
Urbanmiracle
Brooklyn the planet...
My aunt and uncle been together for 55. They don't make em like they used to. You know, this nurse woman I've been seeing, she said she prayed for me. Not on some you need help but she just prayed for me on some I care about him.
To ya point it's society today man. People are just selfish. It's about me me me all time. People aren't willing to slow down and build with someone. People want already winning or built situations where they can just slide in and reap the rewards with ZERO hard work. And with the advant of social media, earning love and attention is only a full length mirror away. Which is why I'm starting to cut back on it. It's all fake and vanity. People think cause 1k people liked their photo of some pizza they eating or their cleavage out that they have clout or some sort of prestige. It's all fake false importance.
People don't put effort into things. Yes sometimes things gel naturally but sometimes it takes work. And you have to have the will to make it work. But people today lack the will and patience. It's easier just to leave and hop onto the next person.
To ya point it's society today man. People are just selfish. It's about me me me all time. People aren't willing to slow down and build with someone. People want already winning or built situations where they can just slide in and reap the rewards with ZERO hard work. And with the advant of social media, earning love and attention is only a full length mirror away. Which is why I'm starting to cut back on it. It's all fake and vanity. People think cause 1k people liked their photo of some pizza they eating or their cleavage out that they have clout or some sort of prestige. It's all fake false importance.
People don't put effort into things. Yes sometimes things gel naturally but sometimes it takes work. And you have to have the will to make it work. But people today lack the will and patience. It's easier just to leave and hop onto the next person.
Brandsdale
Big Yella
None should be tolerated
Rocket Scientist
Superstar
Your right but im gonna give a slight pass,if woman is cool has great character and her flaw is a small weave I aint gonna be dumbNone should be tolerated
Urbanmiracle
Brooklyn the planet...
Nails and hair don't bother me. I'm about character. If she a cool person I'm down
nah. fake hair should bother u. that sh1t stinks because they dont/cant wash their scalp as often as they should. that is an instant turn off for me. that's hygiene my dude. and it should bother u because if these women can have absurd height requirements, ur allowed to have hygiene requirements as well.
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Rocket Scientist
Superstar
Anything is possible but we are lost.True love is hard to find especially as you get older,age is nothing but a # yes but lets say one of us 5-10 years from now married a young woman 10 years younger.That young woman grew up in the smart phone era/social network.Meaning she didn't come up how we did in the 80's and some of us 70's.That means that shorty probably never sat down and wrote a handwritten letter,doesnt remember AOL etc....think about that
root_eruditorium_org
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root_eruditorium_org
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get the gist of your post although i'm a young nikka as well, so i was partially raised through the same nonsense. it's all more trouble than its worthin my opinion. i wish we could go back in time.