Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Gl4ss said:
Just venting...

My girl is trying to give me an ultimatum...we either live together or we're done. Been dating a year and it's been a rough year to say the least, and I definitely do NOT want to live with her..and I'm not going to. It just amazes how much entitlement she has about making demands when she literally has NOTHING of leverage...She literally quit her job a few days ago with no concrete future prospects, EXTREMELY opinionated, no savings, expensive taste with nothing to show for it, weaved out, super emotional, and volatile...

I break it down to her everytime..NO one wants to come home to that. But she's getting pressure from all her friends because she has all these weddings coming up and she says we are making "no progress"...yet she says Im the only guy she would marry :martin:

On top of that Im pretty sure she still maintains contact with her guys friends who I said I didn't like her interacting with...
Anyways, im just venting...ima handle this the right way fellas, she about to get them bushes, but I just wanted to vent.
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fukk that breh, if you aint with it, then you aint with it. A real female would understand and second, she wouldn't be having male friends like that.

Also, I would like to say that if they broad is pressuring you to move in/out with her and she quit her job...? big fukking RED flag right there. She looking for a nikka to support her 100%. I will say after 16 years of being together and 13 years of marriage of her not working at all - I WILL NEVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER get with a female that don't want to work and contribute. That shyt will kill you slowly. Trust, I'd date a female that works at McDonalds than a fine as broad with no job or motivation. PERIOD.
 
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Blaxican707 said:
fukk that breh, if you aint with it, then you aint with it. A real female would understand and second, she wouldn't be having male friends like that.

Also, I would like to say that if they broad is pressuring you to move in/out with her and she quit her job...? big fukking RED flag right there. She looking for a nikka to support her 100%. I will say after 16 years of being together and 13 years of marriage of her not working at all - I WILL NEVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER get with a female that don't want to work and contribute. That shyt will kill you slowly. Trust, I'd date a female that works at McDonalds than a fine as broad with no job or motivation. PERIOD.
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:wow: your wife was stay at home, didn't work and is the one who brought the marriage down. that ether. how could yuo get over it ...

bruh you gotta drop the entire story like @General Mills the forum storyteller. we gotta know how the entire thing went down from beginning to end.
 
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craz_eddy said:
:wow: your wife was stay at home, didn't work and is the one who brought the marriage down. that ether. how could yuo get over it ...

bruh you gotta drop the entire story like @General Mills the forum storyteller. we gotta know how the entire thing went down from beginning to end.
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Yeah im doing it this weekend. In still cleaning my house since she took everything... L's I took :wow:
 
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Blaxican707 said:
@CaughtInTWebb breh you need to dumb that hoe NOW! She has lost all respect for you already. Ain't no stopping that bullet anymore. She talking to another nikka behind your back :mindblown: take it from me, I've been - wife was facetime, seeing that nikka at odd times and shyt, it tore me up homes. But on the real, save yourself the heart ache, stress and the torture and just dump her. Tell her exactly how it is: "you ain't shyt but a liar and cheater". And if another fukk nikka wanna date a woman that is already in the relationship, then it's doomed to fail.

Serious man, do it. She don't wanna be saved breh
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But I love her brehs....
That's my wife and mother of my kids man....ain't that easy for me
 
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So a little bit ago I slid into a girls DMs on Twitter. She was cool and replying to me until I asked for the number. She left me on read.

I later found out she had a BF during that time so I can't be mad at her for not giving me her number.

Today on Twitter I saw that she removed her BF's name from her bio. AKA she single now.

I want to hit at her again. But I feel weird double messaging her after she left me on read last time.

What should I message her now?

A simple "what's good" always leads to the convo dying out for me with girls...and I don't want to give her that ego boost and call her cute and shyt.

Help a brotha get some pootang! Lmao
 
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EMainstreet said:
So a little bit ago I slid into a girls DMs on Twitter. She was cool and replying to me until I asked for the number. She left me on read.

I later found out she had a BF during that time so I can't be mad at her for not giving me her number.

Today on Twitter I saw that she removed her BF's name from her bio. AKA she single now.

I want to hit at her again. But I feel weird double messaging her after she left me on read last time.

What should I message her now?

A simple "what's good" always leads to the convo dying out for me with girls...and I don't want to give her that ego boost and call her cute and shyt.

Help a brotha get some pootang! Lmao
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u know better than to keep hassling a chick after she left u on read. but i understand why u want to try againn. best thing u can do is this -

send her a message and say nothing more than:

'text me 555-555-5555 - name is matthew'

give her ur number and leave it at that. if she texts u, u just got a reset. in which case, u set up a date ASAP!!!!! no stupid chitchatting. chat her up for like no more than 2 minutes then ask her if she'd like to get drinks.
 
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Gl4ss said:
Just venting...

My girl is trying to give me an ultimatum...we either live together or we're done. Been dating a year and it's been a rough year to say the least, and I definitely do NOT want to live with her..and I'm not going to. It just amazes how much entitlement she has about making demands when she literally has NOTHING of leverage...She literally quit her job a few days ago with no concrete future prospects, EXTREMELY opinionated, no savings, expensive taste with nothing to show for it, weaved out, super emotional, and volatile...

I break it down to her everytime..NO one wants to come home to that. But she's getting pressure from all her friends because she has all these weddings coming up and she says we are making "no progress"...yet she says Im the only guy she would marry :martin:

On top of that Im pretty sure she still maintains contact with her guys friends who I said I didn't like her interacting with...
Anyways, im just venting...ima handle this the right way fellas, she about to get them bushes, but I just wanted to vent.
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Of course she wants to move in with you. She is broke and wants to move in and have you pay all the bills.
 
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craz_eddy said:
Depending on the type of ppl you hang around with, it is so easy for your pockets to get drained. I used to laugh at the ppl who'd go in debt buying presents for hoes, taking them on vacations and expensive restaurants etc, but after my pockets started draining super quikk the last couple of months while hanging out with certain ppl, I totally understand. It just doesn't go for girls, make sure EVERYBODY you hang around with is financially savvy. peer pressure is powerful brehs, you will find yourself emulating your friends self-destructive habits in no time.
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cosign this.
 
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