Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

Mr Hate Coffee

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Haven't been in this thread in FOREVER. It's so easy to get behind and I never can catch up.

I guess it's a good thing too. Because I usually ran in here when I had relationship problems. :ehh:

I came back because I was dropping some game in another thread.

Anyways, hope y'all brehs are staying strong and keeping up the supportive environment.


Never settle. Women don't, you shouldn't either. Rejection or not go for the best.

Anybody who has followed my story from the beginning, knows exactly why i feel that way.

Yo I'm 32 but I think I'm starting to agree with this 100% now. One thing I've learned in all my years is that you have to shoot your shot. I'm not intimidated by any woman these days, no matter how she looks. My time in Spain has shown me that I can still pull chicks 10 years younger than me with ease.

What's your story tho breh? I'm not familiar with it. :lupe:
 
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LMAO at this breh. Sounds like you got caught being naughty :umad:

Give us the details :feedme:

:russ:....

Breh...

Basically i "opened up" to this chick at work...She seen/sees the side of me that no one else besides the outside crowd sees..

We've developed a good chemistry and we build alot..Im fighting the good fight and keeping it at moderate flirting:whoa:

My overall point is...When your working a long term job with the same people over the years, you naturally "loosen" up even if you dont realize it..She put the full court press on and really left me no choice...:francis:

I know a dude who lost his wife over a co-worker affair..he was a cop....

When you spend 12+hours a day sometimes with a female partner, its a recipe for disaster..Now these days co-workers are facebook friends/text buddies etc...Then they go right to the job and be friends there..

Its a whole new dynamic breh:leostare:
 

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Yo I'm 32 but I think I'm starting to agree with this 100% now. One thing I've learned in all my years is that you have to shoot your shot. I'm not intimidated by any woman these days, no matter how she looks. My time in Spain has shown me that I can still put chicks 10 years younger than me with ease.

What's your story tho breh? I'm not familiar with it. :lupe:

I don't want to get into again(don't feel like typing a lot), but i'll just summarize it by saying, I was interested in two women, one was very attractive but wasn't very warm towards me, the other was less attractive, but very nice to me. I choose the latter because i felt she'd give me more play, and it turned out to be a big mistake because as i got to REALLY know her i saw how jacked up her personality truly was. That's not to suggest the other girl doesn't have flaws as well, BUT what I will say is if i'm going to deal with a shytty personality it needs to at least come in the package of something bad as fukk, not from a chick who is a 6 at best on a 10 scale. fukk that. Also if i'm rejected by that beautiful woman, then so be it. That rejection beats having the companionship of an average looking woman with a shytty ass personality.

Average looks + Bad personality :camby:

Average looks + Good personality :ehh:

Great looks + Bad personality
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Great looks + Good personality :blessed:
 
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Yo I'm 32 but I think I'm starting to agree with this 100% now. One thing I've learned in all my years is that you have to shoot your shot. I'm not intimidated by any woman these days, no matter how she looks. My time in Spain has shown me that I can still put chicks 10 years younger than me with ease.

What's your story tho breh? I'm not familiar with it. :lupe:

I been saying this since time. If there's anything I used to do while I was younger it was selling myself short. But the lame hoes I was trying to get at acted like they walked on gold platforms when in reality they were borderline :gag:

Meanwhile I met a whole lot of hot chicks with great personalities, who weren't rude ... etc. & then it hit me that a lot of average hoes have a really distorted view of their own market value. if i'm gonna be rejected and deal with female drama i rather it be with a chick who's 0.02% worth it physically than some lame average hoe. I don't even include average girls in my squad anymore if at all possible, especially ones with attitude. Am I being a hypocrite sort of ... well yeah ... but there's enough delusional hoes out there to balance my hypocrisy out.
 

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I really hate talking on the phone for long periods of time. Most of the time I'm like this :francis:on the other end. I really don't want to call you everyday to talk about the same shyt from the day before.
get in the habit of ending it within 5 minutes or dont even pick up at all. tell them to come see u.

some girls call u a lot so they can get down ur routine so whenever u start to deviate from that routine, they can put on their investigator gadget hat and get to work on ur ass. why isn't he piccking up? its 4:10pm. he usually gets off work at 4pm? hmmmm let me call him again. a girl told me this once and i was awe at how calculating these women can be.
 

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I really hate talking on the phone for long periods of time. Most of the time I'm like this :francis:on the other end. I really don't want to call you everyday to talk about the same shyt from the day before.

Not much of a talker but she talks a lot and I just listen. She ask my opinions on things then we keep it going. Luckily for me, I lived through some things so I share some funny stories or experiences that keeps her interested. She told me she clocks on how our phone conversations are to see how long I can hold her attention. I hit her with the :patrice::leon: cause I didn't think of it like that
 

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I really hate talking on the phone for long periods of time. Most of the time I'm like this :francis:on the other end. I really don't want to call you everyday to talk about the same shyt from the day before.


I see this nikka hasn't changed. :russ:

I'm the same way tho. I've learned that I can't be bothered to pretend/fake the funk in order to get a chick these days.
 

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Not much of a talker but she talks a lot and I just listen. She ask my opinions on things then we keep it going. Luckily for me, I lived through some things so I share some funny stories or experiences that keeps her interested. She told me she clocks on how our phone conversations are to see how long I can hold her attention. I hit her with the :patrice::leon: cause I didn't think of it like that
Um she just psychologically enslaved u. Now ur gonna be putting urself thru bs to keep her attention? What is she bringing to the table that warrants this type of chase? U shoulda told her the same. I wanna see how knowledgeable u are about different topics. That'll put HER On the defense
 
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