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1 simple piece of advice that will take you a long way when dealing with women. If they are not showing interest in you like you're showing interest in them, do not I repeat do not continue to pursue.
Dealing with women it's not the same as dealing with a friend. And you shouldn't treat it as such. In the long run only one person's feelings going to end up hurt and it's probably yours
Take it from an older head in the game I've taken my losses and looking back one common denominator was pursuing when there shouldn't even been a Chase
It's really refreshing when you deal with a woman that is genuinely interested in your mundane everyday affairs and your well-being. That doesn't mean calling or texting or speaking everyday but more than a couple days probably won't go by without a hello or how you doing.
If it's not this way and is not mutual red flag. Save yourself a lot of headache and ignore women no matter how good, great or amazing they may seem if the interest isn't Mutual.
You said yourself months if not years of headache and heartache and no those simple polite holiday text or once every 6 months clothes don't count is mutual attraction if your hitting them up every week
This can apply to both men and women I know it's hard but remind yourself that you can do better and there are people out there that are actually enjoy and look forward to you and what you have to say
Great post. I was just thinking about this today morning. I've been sending texts and emails to a bunch of ppl to just check up on them. A bunch of ppl haven't even bothered to respond. I'm glad that a few ppl have responded and seem friendly but I was just thinking how - damn bro if I hadn't contacted you you probably would have been fine with us not talking or hanging out for months, years ... whatever.
The unfortunate thing is that this describes the majority of ppl I deal with (both men and women). I've been putting a lot of effort into trying to connect with ppl but that effort is rarely reciprocated. I guess its time to focus on myself while my useless acquaintances fade into the background.






but i feel like she wants me to go all the way till she gives it up.
sexual chemistry that i wanna dig her out. So i'm not sure what my play should be?