Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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1 simple piece of advice that will take you a long way when dealing with women. If they are not showing interest in you like you're showing interest in them, do not I repeat do not continue to pursue.

Dealing with women it's not the same as dealing with a friend. And you shouldn't treat it as such. In the long run only one person's feelings going to end up hurt and it's probably yours

Take it from an older head in the game I've taken my losses and looking back one common denominator was pursuing when there shouldn't even been a Chase

It's really refreshing when you deal with a woman that is genuinely interested in your mundane everyday affairs and your well-being. That doesn't mean calling or texting or speaking everyday but more than a couple days probably won't go by without a hello or how you doing.

If it's not this way and is not mutual red flag. Save yourself a lot of headache and ignore women no matter how good, great or amazing they may seem if the interest isn't Mutual.

You said yourself months if not years of headache and heartache and no those simple polite holiday text or once every 6 months clothes don't count is mutual attraction if your hitting them up every week

This can apply to both men and women I know it's hard but remind yourself that you can do better and there are people out there that are actually enjoy and look forward to you and what you have to say

Great post. I was just thinking about this today morning. I've been sending texts and emails to a bunch of ppl to just check up on them. A bunch of ppl haven't even bothered to respond. I'm glad that a few ppl have responded and seem friendly but I was just thinking how - damn bro if I hadn't contacted you you probably would have been fine with us not talking or hanging out for months, years ... whatever.

The unfortunate thing is that this describes the majority of ppl I deal with (both men and women). I've been putting a lot of effort into trying to connect with ppl but that effort is rarely reciprocated. I guess its time to focus on myself while my useless acquaintances fade into the background.
 
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i agree...but this chick is built like one of them mike in brazil chicks. Nice perky titties...a fat ass. She goes to the gym 5 days a week so thats why. Unfortunately i dont know if i'll ever hit :francis:

I hate to ask, but what exactly does she look like complexion-wise? Is she `black` by north american standards (either mixed or conventional) or does she have a real exotic look. Trying to picture her in my head.

& i know that feeling well breh :francis:

at least you gave it a shot
 

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Just ask - lots of dudes have girl problems - you are not the first nor the last. What I noticed with my friends who seem to have a lot of attractive women surrounding them - they get rejected A LOT. So the major difference between them and me is they put a lot of effort into getting broads, and weather a lot of failures whereas I do not.
Its basically a numbers game nikka.

First impression aint shyt its how you gon talk to the chick for next 3 mins gonna determine if you caught her interest or not.
 

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been trying to get backis month in the game after taking pretty much whole of last year off due to other issues I needed to get sorted which are now sorted been taking straight ls so far. need to get a 2 or 3 secured before summer comes
 

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Where are y'all taking these birds during the week?

I've had people tell me they're tired of chilling in the dorm/apartment and watching movies..they wanna go "out":upsetfavre:

I'm guessing if I don't come up with some ideas for outings she's gonna toss me to the:trash:
 

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Where are y'all taking these birds during the week?

I've had people tell me they're tired of chilling in the dorm/apartment and watching movies..they wanna go "out":upsetfavre:

I'm guessing if I don't come up with some ideas for outings she's gonna toss me to the:trash:

Lol, cinema is quite cheap and during the week is quiet incase you dont wanna be seen by other females you dating and some cinemas are cheaper during the week.

Or take her out to some nice cheap restaurant, EVERY woman loves going out to eat lol.

Keep all your dates cheap brehs. Women will leave your pockets dry if you let them.
 

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It's crazy how fast a person true character come out once you put your foot down.

You see that they can't live a life of being truthful and respectful, they only want a life with you when you're playing stupid.
Thats the only time it comes out if you ask me. People dont show there true color's until after you disappoint them. After that its up to you to make a choice on if you can deal with that person.

But yeah you want to see someones true character, disappoint them or hold your ground. You'll get the real them real quick.
 

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so me and this girl went on 2 dates already....both paid by me. One time to see deadpool bout 2.5 weeks ago and then minigolfing on sat night. Shyt got real heavy after that golf session :whew:

but i ain't tryna pay no more or take her out on dates. I feel like i'm about 75-80% of the way there to getting them draws...perhaps another date or 2 will get me over the line. But at what cost? :beli:

I want homegirl to play her part and offer :ufdup: but i feel like she wants me to go all the way till she gives it up.

i'm thinkin of chillin on askin her out again....but at the same time, me and ole girl got some :ohlawd: sexual chemistry that i wanna dig her out. So i'm not sure what my play should be?
 
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so me and this girl went on 2 dates already....both paid by me. One time to see deadpool bout 2.5 weeks ago and then minigolfing on sat night. Shyt got real heavy after that golf session :whew:

but i ain't tryna pay no more or take her out on dates. I feel like i'm about 75-80% of the way there to getting them draws...perhaps another date or 2 will get me over the line. But at what cost? :beli:

I want homegirl to play her part and offer :ufdup: but i feel like she wants me to go all the way till she gives it up.

i'm thinkin of chillin on askin her out again....but at the same time, me and ole girl got some :ohlawd: sexual chemistry that i wanna dig her out. So i'm not sure what my play should be?

Minigolf sounds like a great idea for a date. Mind sharing the venue you went to?
 
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