Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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What about what the second girl wrote "It's not the right time"?

And from what I'm gathering from what you wrote basically I gotta play it cool.

Ending dialogue with the 2nd chick with a "let me know" was a bad idea, you should have asked her what would be the right time and why she is not interested right now.

It wouldn't hurt texting her on snapchat again and asking her when the right time would be. I wouldn't get my hopes up though. Like I said, it sounds like they are rejecting you on the low. I had a chick do me like this EXACTLY not too long ago, I'm still cheesed tbh.

Anyways good luck my dude :salute:

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Ending dialogue with the 2nd chick with a "let me know" was a bad idea, you should have asked her what would be the right time and why she is not interested right now.

It wouldn't hurt texting her on snapchat again and asking her when the right time would be. I wouldn't get my hopes up though. Like I said, it sounds like they are rejecting you on the low. I had a chick do me like this EXACTLY not too long ago, I'm still cheesed tbh.

Anyways good luck my dude :salute:

when a coli breh eats we all :eat:

Just gotta :smugfavre:share the juicy stories

Salute! Imma see if I can work some magic today.
 

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so me and this girl went on 2 dates already....both paid by me. One time to see deadpool bout 2.5 weeks ago and then minigolfing on sat night. Shyt got real heavy after that golf session :whew:

but i ain't tryna pay no more or take her out on dates. I feel like i'm about 75-80% of the way there to getting them draws...perhaps another date or 2 will get me over the line. But at what cost? :beli:

I want homegirl to play her part and offer :ufdup: but i feel like she wants me to go all the way till she gives it up.

i'm thinkin of chillin on askin her out again....but at the same time, me and ole girl got some :ohlawd: sexual chemistry that i wanna dig her out. So i'm not sure what my play should be?
You've reached the two date max limit. It's time for her to show her interest in you by offering to do something. No matter how good she look, stick to the principal to see what type of chick you're dealing with. The type that's always going to be expecting, or one who will show effort that she likes you as well.
These chicks will use you only for a good time if you let them :ufdup:
 

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You've reached the two date max limit. It's time for her to show her interest in you by offering to do something. No matter how good she look, stick to the principal to see what type of chick you're dealing with. The type that's always going to be expecting, or one who will show effort that she likes you as well.
These chicks will use you only for a good time if you let them :ufdup:

:salute:fam.

i'mma chill on askin her out again....if she wanna kick it, i'mma tell her she gotta take me out. :smugdraper:

or if i do wanna see her, i'mma try and go to her spot. I'mma keep it at phone convo's till she begins to get anxious and says she wants to see me. Then i'mma be like, i'm down, but you offering? :sas1:
 

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:salute:fam.

i'mma chill on askin her out again....if she wanna kick it, i'mma tell her she gotta take me out. :smugdraper:

or if i do wanna see her, i'mma try and go to her spot. I'mma keep it at phone convo's till she begins to get anxious and says she wants to see me. Then i'mma be like, i'm down, but you offering? :sas1:
Breh I cut two chicks off with no hesitation. We had great two first dates, but when it came to that third one, they became silent, waiting for me to come up with the plan or spend more bread.

I Cut them off quickly and moved on to chicks who were willing to show their interest, had some who cooked for me, purchased movie tickets for us, etc... They out there fam, fukk the leeches :pacspit:
 

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Breh I cut two chicks off with no hesitation. We had great two first dates, but when it came to that third one, they became silent, waiting for me to come up with the plan or spend more bread.

I Cut them off quickly and moved on to chicks who were willing to show their interest, had some who cooked for me, purchased movie tickets for us, etc... They out there fam, fukk the leeches :pacspit:

well she does text and call me....like she did 20 mins ago when i hadn't seen or spoken to her since saturday night.

so we'll see. i ain't gonne press though. I gotta let her bring it up. Otherwise, i'm chillin. :manny: I'mma hop back on tinder after finals, permanently finish university, go on vacation and hit that gym religiously....so hopefully it'll be a good summer and i ain't gonne fret over her or any other shorty.
 

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Breh I cut two chicks off with no hesitation. We had great two first dates, but when it came to that third one, they became silent, waiting for me to come up with the plan or spend more bread.

I Cut them off quickly and moved on to chicks who were willing to show their interest, had some who cooked for me, purchased movie tickets for us, etc... They out there fam, fukk the leeches :pacspit:

Those are the ones you take bowling, a day out of town, walking in the park, THEN out for dinner. Even if you don't like them you gotta show them a good time(and enjoy the time yourself) for their return on investment. It makes for a quality connection whether you work out or not.
 

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i tend to be chilled in the beginning...but later on i tend to get real sexual and girls really pick up on this. The amount of times girls have hit me with a:whoa: is quite frequent. But i can't help it :manny: i see curves, titties and ass and best believe i want to pipe.




this all went down in my whip on saturday night. Backseat in a deserted parking lot. Windows fogged up and everything :whew: I didn't wanna fukk cuz it was cramped and she didn't either. I also like having space and being able to be flexible to do what i want.

i feel like this shyt is just gonne be drawn out and i'mma get frustrated and toss her to the bushes. :patrice:I don't want to though. I wanna keep her on the team, especially since i have yet to dig her out.

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Breh I cut two chicks off with no hesitation. We had great two first dates, but when it came to that third one, they became silent, waiting for me to come up with the plan or spend more bread.

I Cut them off quickly and moved on to chicks who were willing to show their interest, had some who cooked for me, purchased movie tickets for us, etc... They out there fam, fukk the leeches :pacspit:

I wouldn't neccassarily call them leeches maybe they were shy or like you wanted to see how interested you are in even though you'd paid/offered dates initially. It's best to communicate your concerns and if she's still not reciprocating than move on. Just because a person seems confident doesn't mean it's how they actually feel. I actually missed out on some relationships by not showing interest more often, even though I really I mean really liked the guys, being afraid of rejection was one of my biggest road blocks to finding a healthy relationship. Thankfully I've gotten a heck of a lot better with showing interest and am now with the man I'll probably marry. Communication is key.
 

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I wouldn't neccassarily call them leeches maybe they were shy or like you wanted to see how interested you are in even though you'd paid/offered dates initially. It's best to communicate your concerns and if she's still not reciprocating than move on. Just because a person seems confident doesn't mean it's how they actually feel. I actually missed out on some relationships by not showing interest more often, even though I really I mean really liked the guys, being afraid of rejection was one of my biggest road blocks to finding a healthy relationship. Thankfully I've gotten a heck of a lot better with showing interest and am now with the man I'll probably marry. Communication is key.

what you just said only applies if the girl is young (under 21/22). u take it, they haven't had that much experience or acquired enough smarts to know how to show a guy they're interested.

past 21/22, that girl is deliberately playing dumb. dont let them shame u into buying them sh1t or doing everythinng while they sit back and do nothing.

whatever experience you'vd had with women, trust, that woman you've got ur eye on has had more than triple that with men. shes far more experienced than u. and she'll run circles on ya ass if u dont watch ur pockets....and her behavior.
 
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what you just said only applies if the girl is young (under 21/22). u take it, they haven't had that much experience or acquired enough smarts to know how to show a guy they're interested.

past 21/22, that girl is deliberately playing dumb. dont let them shame u into buying them sh1t or doing everythinng while they sit back and do nothing.

whatever experience you'vd had with women, trust, that woman u got ur eye on as had more than triple that with men. shes far more experienced than u. and she'll run circles on ya ass if u dont watch ur pockets....and her behavior.

Not nearly true, you sound paranoid on the real. I'm past 28 and wouldn't purposely try using a man. Not in me because I wouldn't want the karma. Obviously there are women out there looking to run game and will play dumb but you should know this, it comes with asking questions and getting to know her such as phone conversations hanging out etc etc. if you even get a hint of her being selfish, run run as fast as you can because it's one the worst traits a woman can have. I have brothers and sisters so I see both sides of the coin.
 

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Im using tinder again

I got rid of it shortly after i intitally got it

I never tried to get at a girl i didnt know on on a app

I just want to smash

So how do yall talk these tinder hoes into wanting to smash
 
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