Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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my gut has never been wrong, even with small everyday decisions, never wrong.

last chic I tried to get with my gut told me somethings up and this chic doesn't fukk with me like that and now till this day she wont even bother saying hello to me at the gym :francis:



April aint never lie :salute:


Yea man....funny enough, if I had gone with my gut instincts for my last three girlfriends, I would have been dead right about all three because my initial impression of all of them ended up being excruciatingly accurate. Go with your gut :francis:
 

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But how can you move past problems primary because of your lack of success with women?

If you don't mind, can you be more specific? Like, you talking about having limited opportunities and only bad experiencs when talking to girls?
 

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If you don't mind, can you be more specific? Like, you talking about having limited opportunities and only bad experiencs when talking to girls?

A combination, when referring to me. I've had limited opportunities, but obviously my experiences which have been limited, have all been bad, and they obviously have stayed with me.
 

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I would keep that shyt to yourself. Once she thinks she got you figured out game over.


Edit: Actually it depends on situation but most times i would stick what i said above. But if its unneccesary and/or weak keep it to yourself.
 
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Yeah dont, you can let her know you like her. You like her alot even and want to see where things go but leave it at that.

Most people don't know how to handle someone liking them alot. And then it becomes weird.

Just keep doing what you doing if it's going well. If you want it to be exclusive put that in the air but done be extra "I've never felt this way before"

With that said it depends on the woman too, if they are mature and like you like that you can be open like that. But....that's not most people.
 
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I need a second opinion on this bc ive had issues with it for the past 6 years, even though ive gotten better:francis:Im an introvert, selectively social, not very talkative or w/e words you wanna use:wow:

Ive been this way since HS and to be real im wondering if i should try to change...I usually start dealing with a woman and then they start asking "Why are you so quiet?" "Dont you know more people?" And im just like:yeshrug:i run with a small circle and enjoy time to myself. I feel like it's fcking me up bc im not always in the club/go out all the time or have a large circle on speed dial. Shii is weird because if a girl is lowkey/reserved we value that bc we assume shes not out fukking everyone. But if a guy is the same its like yo:patrice:why isnt this nikka out more/more sociable/more fun?

Am i trippen or should i work on this more? Im conversational but other than that im not a real extrovert:dame:
 

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I need a second opinion on this bc ive had issues with it for the past 6 years, even though ive gotten better:francis:Im an introvert, selectively social, not very talkative or w/e words you wanna use:wow:

Ive been this way since HS and to be real im wondering if i should try to change...I usually start dealing with a woman and then they start asking "Why are you so quiet?" "Dont you know more people?" And im just like:yeshrug:i run with a small circle and enjoy time to myself. I feel like it's fcking me up bc im not always in the club/go out all the time or have a large circle on speed dial. Shii is weird because if a girl is lowkey/reserved we value that bc we assume shes not out fukking everyone. But if a guy is the same its like yo:patrice:why isnt this nikka out more/more sociable/more fun?

Am i trippen or should i work on this more? Im conversational but other than that im not a real extrovert:dame:
I don't see a reason to change it.
 
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I need a second opinion on this bc ive had issues with it for the past 6 years, even though ive gotten better:francis:Im an introvert, selectively social, not very talkative or w/e words you wanna use:wow:

Ive been this way since HS and to be real im wondering if i should try to change...I usually start dealing with a woman and then they start asking "Why are you so quiet?" "Dont you know more people?" And im just like:yeshrug:i run with a small circle and enjoy time to myself. I feel like it's fcking me up bc im not always in the club/go out all the time or have a large circle on speed dial. Shii is weird because if a girl is lowkey/reserved we value that bc we assume shes not out fukking everyone. But if a guy is the same its like yo:patrice:why isnt this nikka out more/more sociable/more fun?

Am i trippen or should i work on this more? Im conversational but other than that im not a real extrovert:dame:

Don't sweat it - I spent quite a lot of money and time the past 6 months trying to be extroverted / sociable and fun but it just does not mesh with my natural inclinations. I still like spending time w/ ppl but I'd prefer to restrict it to the ppl I really value / have a lot in common with - and after a certain point, going out to clubs and bars gets really welll .... pointless and boring, especially if you are going w/ ppl you don't really like.

Do you man. In the grand scheme of things it ain't really a big deal. I got the 'you are so quiet' line so much .... my current circumstances are a lot better than the ppl who used to rag on me believe me
 
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