I'm having to develop the discipline to understand that. Was going to try and holla this woman today( I was helping her find shoes) but I stopped myself. Every woman you meet or friendly conversation isn't an invitation to holla. I'm learning though.
Where are y'all taking these birds during the week?
I've had people tell me they're tired of chilling in the dorm/apartment and watching movies..they wanna go "out"
I'm guessing if I don't come up with some ideas for outings she's gonna toss me to the
I need a second opinion on this bc ive had issues with it for the past 6 years, even though ive gotten betterIm an introvert, selectively social, not very talkative or w/e words you wanna use
Ive been this way since HS and to be real im wondering if i should try to change...I usually start dealing with a woman and then they start asking "Why are you so quiet?" "Dont you know more people?" And im just likei run with a small circle and enjoy time to myself. I feel like it's fcking me up bc im not always in the club/go out all the time or have a large circle on speed dial. Shii is weird because if a girl is lowkey/reserved we value that bc we assume shes not out fukking everyone. But if a guy is the same its like yo
why isnt this nikka out more/more sociable/more fun?
Am i trippen or should i work on this more? Im conversational but other than that im not a real extrovert
) and we grab some bbq. We spend the majority of the day watching walking dead. So she decided to make drinks. Mind, you already plotting to get them draws. We get a little tipsy and sho nuff - baby was throating ya boy like it was going out of style 
I was hitting it for a good while and I told her I couldnt nut because I drunk too much. She really took it hard, like it was her or something. I reassured her and that it was cool. We rested, watch some more tv and then went at it again.
Eventually she comes back out and chills out. We go to sleep for a few hours and wake up. She starts gargalin a nikka nuts, and let me say this - she swallowed every fukking drop with no hesitation fukking christ I swear, I aint never had a female do that.
so needless to say, fukking a chubby chick with a fat ass with a normal dikk is not in your favor, she's also 5'9 and I'm 5'5, so doggy style and shyt like that was kind of a challenge for me because I had to get on the tip of my toes to get in that ass 
i would think that I was small for her - but I wasn't. I think porn had my mind fukked up.
"This might be the best 1st date i've ever had...this is exactly the kind of woman I need" 
You should have stopped at one text brehSo last night, I had a date with this chick who's honestly, probably a top 3 best looking girl I've ever gone out on a date with. Maybe the best-looking ever.
Whole night was great. We went to a bar/restaurant. She didn't really eat, but got a drink and dessert, then we went salsa dancing. Everything was perfect. She was smiling ans laughing have an awesome time. We were holding hands, arm in arm, everything. Great conversation about everything, joking, laughing, etc she's talking about the 2nd date already.
I drive her home, walk up to her door, drop her off & leave. Whole time in the car, I'm thinking,
So I'm driving, halfway home, thinking about her, the phone rings, it's her. Calling to talk to me since I had about a 25 min drive and it's late 2:30am, so we keep talking until I pull into my garage, say's we'll talk tomorrow, then we hang up....I get home home on cloud 9.
Today she texts me and tells me she wants to hang out again tonight, I agreed. Then told her this evening I have a family dinner and will call her when I head home to change, to see what we're gonna do....so I call her back after I got dressed, and she's like, "I'll call you back in a bit to let you know whatsup..."
Never heard back from her.... I sent her 2 texts and she doesn't reply....
What in the fock?
These women are NUTS!
I got dressed-up & prepared for absolutely nothing.
But the point is, it's just such a juxtaposition from last night.
I just don't get it, and I don't know what to say if she hits me up tomorrow. I wanna give her another chance just on the strength of the 1st date...but I dunno....
a different motive probably came up....hopefully it wasnt with another dude and she aint playing the field like that though. if girl as bad as you say she is though...that shyt is likely. see what her excuse is...it'll probably be some bullshyt, typical response and youll know then to sag off of her.So last night, I had a date with this chick who's honestly, probably a top 3 best looking girl I've ever gone out on a date with. Maybe the best-looking ever.
Whole night was great. We went to a bar/restaurant. She didn't really eat, but got a drink and dessert, then we went salsa dancing. Everything was perfect. She was smiling ans laughing have an awesome time. We were holding hands, arm in arm, everything. Great conversation about everything, joking, laughing, etc she's talking about the 2nd date already.
I drive her home, walk up to her door, drop her off & leave. Whole time in the car, I'm thinking,
So I'm driving, halfway home, thinking about her, the phone rings, it's her. Calling to talk to me since I had about a 25 min drive and it's late 2:30am, so we keep talking until I pull into my garage, say's we'll talk tomorrow, then we hang up....I get home home on cloud 9.
Today she texts me and tells me she wants to hang out again tonight, I agreed. Then told her this evening I have a family dinner and will call her when I head home to change, to see what we're gonna do....so I call her back after I got dressed, and she's like, "I'll call you back in a bit to let you know whatsup..."
Never heard back from her.... I sent her 2 texts and she doesn't reply....
What in the fock?
These women are NUTS!
I got dressed-up & prepared for absolutely nothing.
But the point is, it's just such a juxtaposition from last night.
I just don't get it, and I don't know what to say if she hits me up tomorrow. I wanna give her another chance just on the strength of the 1st date...but I dunno....
