Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[The ADD]

Smh

First time I've actually sat down and thought of it.
Think I need a therapist

Didn't seem strange to me

I could drop a long post but no good would come from it

 

[Solano707]

i dont know my dude. im kind of a softie at heart when it comes to women that aint never did me wrong. in this case, u didn't have to do her like that. personally, if i feel the girl is gonna end up liking me more than i'll like her, i tend to just dip on them, even if the ass is a sure thing. i'd rather beat my meat than deal with what u just dealt with. but to each his own. my mom told me a long time ago to stop fuccking with these women's heads because some women can send some serious bad karma ur way if u do them wrong.

You right breh. I felt like shyt the next few days after. And I told her that, and said that I wasn't ready for a any type of relationship. She understood; everyone once in a while we text.

 

[RealAssanova]

Man that's a long post.

Putting it onto the new page

u muslim breh?

and are all the PAWGS you fukk with thick?

 

[The Mad Titan]

Smh

First time I've actually sat down and thought of it.
Think I need a therapist

Seems like women are too important to you. You need to find something else to occupy your mind or free time with instead of hanging out with women. Now based on that post alone I'ma assume your a talker and people person and you like to talk alot. I can understand why you enjoy the company of certain women.

All in all if your a black man there nothing like a sister by your side. Doesn't matter the shade but having a sister as your partner is

 

[Youseenmywork]

a different motive probably came up....hopefully it wasnt with another dude and she aint playing the field like that though. if girl as bad as you say she is though...that shyt is likely. see what her excuse is...it'll probably be some bullshyt, typical response and youll know then to sag off of her.

just play zone defense. (i might have to expand on this one day). it'll be hard because youre really feeling her, but if the feeling is mutual she'll definitely hit you up fam. never forget, the same way you landed this sexy ass girl is the same way you can land another sexy ass chick. never let the looks of a girl have you acting stupid. it was onnly one date, for all you know this could be a mere preview of her ensuing flakiness and inconsiderateness

Explain what zone defense is ....

 

[Gus Money]

Well, I had a second date with the pawg that I went bowling with. She likes board games, so I brought scrabble and risk. I get to her house (almost 2 hours away ) and we grab some bbq. We spend the majority of the day watching walking dead. So she decided to make drinks. Mind, you already plotting to get them draws. We get a little tipsy and sho nuff - baby was throating ya boy like it was going out of style I was hitting it for a good while and I told her I couldnt nut because I drunk too much. She really took it hard, like it was her or something. I reassured her and that it was cool. We rested, watch some more tv and then went at it again.

I had this bytch squirting everywhere, all over her couch and rug. I even made this bytch piss all over her couch lol, like no shyt PISS! She got super embarassed, she locked herself in her bathroom for like a good 30 minutes and I'm trying to calm her down while i'm ass naked Eventually she comes back out and chills out. We go to sleep for a few hours and wake up. She starts gargalin a nikka nuts, and let me say this - she swallowed every fukking drop with no hesitation fukking christ I swear, I aint never had a female do that.

Now, yall gonna die at this. She's pretty thick, Not super fat, but she's chubby. My dig ain't the biggest, I'm average so needless to say, fukking a chubby chick with a fat ass with a normal dikk is not in your favor, she's also 5'9 and I'm 5'5, so doggy style and shyt like that was kind of a challenge for me because I had to get on the tip of my toes to get in that ass i would think that I was small for her - but I wasn't. I think porn had my mind fukked up.

After I nutted, I just wanted to elave and so i got my shyt together had some small talk. She knew I wanted to so she gave me some attitude. I tried giving her a hug, but she shyed away. So the next day, she hits me up asking why I was acting wierd. I told her I wasn't ready to be all lovey dovey as i just got out of a long ass marriage. She starts sending me these long ass text messages and leaving me voice mails of her crying saying that no one ever made her feel that way before.

I blocked her number, I aint trying to hear all that lol

EDIT: My bad, I forgot to mention when we got done fukking in the morning, I took a shower and got dress. We sat out in her living room. At first I sat on her couch where she pissed all over, and... I just couldn't do it, it smelled like a fukking urinal stall or something. Hella strong piss. So I get up and move to her rocker chair that she had. So she's sitting on her couch (how she is not smelling this is beyond me). So this is the part where I get distant because of the smell.

No offense breh, but I don't think I can cosign this. Did you block her for good or just until she calms down?

It sounds like she got attached too quickly and I know that's annoying, but I remember your first post about her and I thought she sounded cool.

 

[Ohene]

Explain what zone defense is ....

In this analogy:
Ball = opportunity
Opposition = women
Defenders = You and other dudes

I feel like as men, we get caught up in a competition where we have a girl in our sights and try to constantly vie for their attention. A girl will run through screens, do curls, flies, post routes etc. In some cases it might not even be a pass play but the girl will still run a route to fool the defender into ignoring the run. Some men do it so much that they get tunnel vision and lose sight of other women in their proximity. This is an analogy for how girls will do all sorts of nonsense and basically show a guy that she is not interested but for whatever reason the guy will stay on them and ignore the play going on. In essence they're playing man to man...press defense.

Zone defense is the opposite. In football, a zone defender for the most part stays in his area on the field (court for basketball) unless the ball is moving in a particular direction and they must make a play. If you're a middle linebacker, it doesnt matter who is running where...unless the player or ball is reaching the shallow/middle part of the field you're not going to pay it any mind. This is what I believe men need to do more of. The more man to man defense you play on a chick the more annoyed they get and the less inclined you'll be to see their bullshyt. Instead of just worrying about one particular player (woman), worry about your own assignment (your zone) and only pay attention to whichever players are in your area. In other words focus on yourself and the girls already giving you attention. If you have put your bid in with a chick but she flaked or ignored your message...dont call them, offer again or try to figure out what went wrong. Once or twice is fine but you got to know when to let it go. Let her continue running her route down the field against another defender and focus on the girl who that actually cared enough to hit you up, or the stranger giving you looks in public.

That girl hitting you up is the slot receiver running a drag route through the middle. If the ball is thrown in that direction youll be ready to act on it because you aren't so invested in the girl who is distant from you. Sorry for rambling...but in summary zone defense is working on yourself and whichever girls are within reach while not clinging on to any particular girl.

 

[Mr.bocario]

In this analogy:
Ball = opportunity
Opposition = women
Defenders = You and other dudes

I feel like as men, we get caught up in a competition where we have a girl in our sights and try to constantly vie for their attention. A girl will run through screens, do curls, flies, post routes etc. In some cases it might not even be a pass play but the girl will still run a route to fool the defender into ignoring the run. Some men do it so much that they get tunnel vision and lose sight of other women in their proximity. This is an analogy for how girls will do all sorts of nonsense and basically show a guy that she is not interested but for whatever reason the guy will stay on them and ignore the play going on. In essence they're playing man to man...press defense.

Zone defense is the opposite. In football, a zone defender for the most part stays in his area on the field (court for basketball) unless the ball is moving in a particular direction and they must make a play. If you're a middle linebacker, it doesnt matter who is running where...unless the player or ball is reaching the shallow/middle part of the field you're not going to pay it any mind. This is what I believe men need to do more of. The more man to man defense you play on a chick the more annoyed they get and the less inclined you'll be to see their bullshyt. Instead of just worrying about one particular player (woman), worry about your own assignment (your zone) and only pay attention to whichever players are in your area. In other words focus on yourself and the girls already giving you attention. If you have put your bid in with a chick but she flaked or ignored your message...dont call them, offer again or try to figure out what went wrong. Once or twice is fine but you got to know when to let it go. Let her continue running her route down the field against another defender and focus on the girl who that actually cared enough to hit you up, or the stranger giving you looks in public.

That girl hitting you up is the slot receiver running a drag route through the middle. If the ball is thrown in that direction youll be ready to act on it because you aren't so invested in the girl who is distant from you. Sorry for rambling...but in summary zone defense is working on yourself and whichever girls are within reach while not clinging on to any particular girl.

The way I interpret this post is: Girls have a lot nikkas offering dikk. All you can do is put your bid in and if shawty chooses you cool, if she doesn't cool

 

[Deafheaven]

8 month relationship, get broken up with over text. Man these bytches really heartless nowadays

 

[Solano707]

No offense breh, but I don't think I can cosign this. Did you block her for good or just until she calms down?

It sounds like she got attached too quickly and I know that's annoying, but I remember your first post about her and I thought she sounded cool.

Naw, she went straight up crazy. So, I work in a facility were I can't bring in any electronic devices - nothing! So, every once in a while I would go out ot my car and check my phone. She had drop like 4 voice mails and like 20 text messages saying that she misses me, only wants to be wtih me and that she "feels like she loves me"... So I hit her back saying I don't have access to my phone like that and she should understand and that i will hit her up when I take breaks or go on lunch. Well, that wasn't good enough for her. I mean, we only hung out like twice, once before and the second time where we fukked.

I think if she slowed down a bit I be more understanding, but it's like she's trying to get wifed up. I already told her I just got out of a marriage and just want to date, nothing serious.

She has other plans tho...

 

[root_eruditorium_org]

Naw, she went straight up crazy. So, I work in a facility were I can't bring in any electronic devices - nothing! So, every once in a while I would go out ot my car and check my phone. She had drop like 4 voice mails and like 20 text messages saying that she misses me, only wants to be wtih me and that she "feels like she loves me"... So I hit her back saying I don't have access to my phone like that and she should understand and that i will hit her up when I take breaks or go on lunch. Well, that wasn't good enough for her. I mean, we only hung out like twice, once before and the second time where we fukked.

I think if she slowed down a bit I be more understanding, but it's like she's trying to get wifed up. I already told her I just got out of a marriage and just want to date, nothing serious.

She has other plans tho...

20 text messages? Are you exagerrating breh? Yea its better you nip that in the bud as it will fester into a full blown fukkin problem. sucks tho cuz she did sound pretty cool.

 

[Youseenmywork]

In this analogy:
Ball = opportunity
Opposition = women
Defenders = You and other dudes

I feel like as men, we get caught up in a competition where we have a girl in our sights and try to constantly vie for their attention. A girl will run through screens, do curls, flies, post routes etc. In some cases it might not even be a pass play but the girl will still run a route to fool the defender into ignoring the run. Some men do it so much that they get tunnel vision and lose sight of other women in their proximity. This is an analogy for how girls will do all sorts of nonsense and basically show a guy that she is not interested but for whatever reason the guy will stay on them and ignore the play going on. In essence they're playing man to man...press defense.

Zone defense is the opposite. In football, a zone defender for the most part stays in his area on the field (court for basketball) unless the ball is moving in a particular direction and they must make a play. If you're a middle linebacker, it doesnt matter who is running where...unless the player or ball is reaching the shallow/middle part of the field you're not going to pay it any mind. This is what I believe men need to do more of. The more man to man defense you play on a chick the more annoyed they get and the less inclined you'll be to see their bullshyt. Instead of just worrying about one particular player (woman), worry about your own assignment (your zone) and only pay attention to whichever players are in your area. In other words focus on yourself and the girls already giving you attention. If you have put your bid in with a chick but she flaked or ignored your message...dont call them, offer again or try to figure out what went wrong. Once or twice is fine but you got to know when to let it go. Let her continue running her route down the field against another defender and focus on the girl who that actually cared enough to hit you up, or the stranger giving you looks in public.

That girl hitting you up is the slot receiver running a drag route through the middle. If the ball is thrown in that direction youll be ready to act on it because you aren't so invested in the girl who is distant from you. Sorry for rambling...but in summary zone defense is working on yourself and whichever girls are within reach while not clinging on to any particular girl.

I can dig it...

 

[Ohene]

d

8 month relationship, get broken up with over text. Man these bytches really heartless nowadays

drop that story

 

[Solano707]

20 text messages? Are you exagerrating breh? Yea its better you nip that in the bud as it will fester into a full blown fukkin problem. sucks tho cuz she did sound pretty cool.

I wish i was to be honest.

 

[CaughtInTWebb]

Aye brehs.....I'm done trying to make it work brehs....

I dropped my story in her a couple pages back....my wife decided she didn't want to be married anymore after being together 7 years...we just had a kid...have a 6 year old.....etc...

I was fighting to make it work but the shyt ain't happening....I'm essentially fighting by myself...so yeah.....I'm throwing the towel in.....