Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Ok so my question now is is this dead in the water or what

There wasn't solid buildup but I mean I've been dropping subtle hints for a while now it ain't like one day I'm asking her if the weathers nice tomorrow then next I'm asking if she gon fukk :francis: I've hung out with her a couple times and asked her to chill and we text pretty often, to the point where you can't be a bytch and think I'm just in there to get homework answers.

And nowhere did I really call her a hoe I was just asking if she was one and said good cuz I can't fukk with them when she said no :yeshrug: She just dragged that shyt for some reason

But you said you want looking for nothing serious...Which makes things more difficult at this point..

Im sure she's given you hints as well, but u might have missed the signals...

Women are very self conscious breh.Using the word hoe or even implying the word makes them look at themselves differently even if they didnt do anything to be labeled that..they might change their whole demeanor off that 1 word..They might hold the p*ssy out for another 8 months for shyt like that..

If you dont remember anything else from this...Remember what im about to tell you...

If I were you, i would go back to the basics and let the chips fall where they may..

Might have to take a L.....MIGHT:patrice:
 

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Just wanted to share with brehs that with these females it goes in ebbs and flows, just like in life.

I lost 2 females on the roster a couple weeks ago and also lost what i thought was keeper last week, but sure enough one girls from earlier this year came back and a new girl came into the picture:ehh:when the roster was down to 0 it fkced with my confidence a little but i GTD (got the draws) last night from the girl who cut me off a couple weeks ago for her ex:ahh:


And this new girl fcked around and gave me two big ass hickeys, talking about "Ha, now you cant mess with your other lil girlfriends huh?" and im thinking aint this bout a bytch:martin: I got caught with the ol HS okie doke, walking about with my neck all bruised up:francis::to:

Even though it would be nice to have a Ms. Right to have my back ill deal with the short term hookups for now:mjcry:
 

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Just wanted to share with brehs that with these females it goes in ebbs and flows, just like in life.

I lost 2 females on the roster a couple weeks ago and also lost what i thought was keeper last week, but sure enough one girls from earlier this year came back and a new girl came into the picture:ehh:when the roster was down to 0 it fkced with my confidence a little but i GTD (got the draws) last night from the girl who cut me off a couple weeks ago for her ex:ahh:


And this new girl fcked around and gave me two big ass hickeys, talking about "Ha, now you cant mess with your other lil girlfriends huh?" and im thinking aint this bout a bytch:martin: I got caught with the ol HS okie doke, walking about with my neck all bruised up:francis::to:

Even though it would be nice to have a Ms. Right to have my back ill deal with the short term hookups for now:mjcry:

shyt is like the stock market:wow:

you know you a top tier nikka when broads know about sidepieces but gives no fukks:salute:
 

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Not sure what to make of this :patrice: Started off a friendship with this girl and my intentions was to keep it platonic (she's very fine and cool to kick it with but I just didn't want a relationship). Fast forward a month or so later and I start to actually like her and catch some feelin's :dame:She's always shown a couple positive indicators so I assumed there was at least some mutual interest. Now the problem was I needed to change the tone of our texts/convo's so its not just casual friend shyt, since I needed to get out of the friendzone I put myself in. So she texts me something and I say

Me: You haven't been hoein' it up have you? You can't be hoein' it up if you wanna be bae (Remember there was never any remotely flirty texts on my end before so me saying bae was wildly unexpected)
Her: lol what
Her: didn't ask to be bae :smile:
(now after that I'm like :merchant:but I keep the play going)
Me: U ain't gotta ask (:youngsabo:)
Me: So is that a confirmation on your hoein'
Her: hahahah nope *thumbs up*
Me: Well that's good then I can't be fukking with hoes anymore (:troll:)
Her: hahaha noo i don't want you to get the wrong idea!! (I'm thinking the "noo" = no I wasn't talking about that, and "don't want you get the wrong idea" = I'm not interested in being bae, but here's where it gets confusing)
Me: About what?
Her: lol your comment^^^
(What comment??)
Me: Hmm sounds like something a hoe would say. jk
(I'm thinking she's talking about the hoe "comment")
Her: I'm confused
(So am I bytch)
Me: ?
Her: Why cant you be fukking with hoes anymore? lol
(So this contradicts my earlier suspicions about the "wrong idea" text, since she's asking about this for some reason)
Me: What's so confusing about that
Her: Why can't you
(why is this pertinent? Was she receptive to my flirty text or not)
Me: Because hoes are hoes
Her: I don't get it????
Me: Lol what's not to get
Her: How does this have anything to do with me hahaha
Me: Idk u tell me (:beli:)
Her: so nothing!!!
(me on the inside: :mindblown: wtf is happening)

I'm scared I might take a major L on this brehs :huhldup: I'm gonna be direct about my feelings eventually in the near future but this is where I'm at right now. Usually I avoid this point of investment altogether since I let my intentions be known from the onset but this one's different as I detailed. She a super nice person so I feel like she don't wanna let me down hard if she wants to keep it friendly, but there's just so many signs that hard to say for sure :patrice:Just wanted to share with the brehs

U text weird :dame:

So confrontational; So aggressive :dame:
 

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shyt is like the stock market:wow:

you know you a top tier nikka when broads know about sidepieces but gives no fukks:salute:
To be real man I think she did that to kind of mark her territory or some Shii. Bc if I link up with another girl and they ask about the hickeys they might start trippen:francis:or they might not:yeshrug:

But what you said is true:wow:im looking for something long term righ now but for the brehs trying to keep a roster, the females won't care if they're feeling you.

"The game has its ups and downs, you buy and sell":patrice:
 

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What do I say now :damn:

..Make it clear that you were wrong for playing around with her in that manner...Make sure you dont text this or say this over the phone..meet up with her and tell her to her face...with eye contact...And give her a kiss on the cheek...And show no hesitation when you do it..

Dont worry about titles...play ya game and ride the wave..

And REMOVE THE WORD HOE/SLUT/SIDEPIECE/JUMPOFF FROM YOUR VOCABULARY WHEN TALKING TO WOMEN..EVEN IF A WOMAN IS TALKING ABOUT WHAT ANOTHER WOMAN IS DOING

If woman senses your gonna judge her/her friends or other women, you already behind on the scoreboard
 

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Just wanted to share with brehs that with these females it goes in ebbs and flows, just like in life.

I lost 2 females on the roster a couple weeks ago and also lost what i thought was keeper last week, but sure enough one girls from earlier this year came back and a new girl came into the picture:ehh:when the roster was down to 0 it fkced with my confidence a little but i GTD (got the draws) last night from the girl who cut me off a couple weeks ago for her ex:ahh:


And this new girl fcked around and gave me two big ass hickeys, talking about "Ha, now you cant mess with your other lil girlfriends huh?" and im thinking aint this bout a bytch:martin: I got caught with the ol HS okie doke, walking about with my neck all bruised up:francis::to:

Even though it would be nice to have a Ms. Right to have my back ill deal with the short term hookups for now:mjcry:



My team is depleted right now thanks for the inspiration

:blessed:
 

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To be real man I think she did that to kind of mark her territory or some Shii. Bc if I link up with another girl and they ask about the hickeys they might start trippen:francis:or they might not:yeshrug:

But what you said is true:wow:im looking for something long term righ now but for the brehs trying to keep a roster, the females won't care if they're feeling you.

"The game has its ups and downs, you buy and sell":patrice:

these broads just wanna be loved..and want to feel the feeling that love brings...Just gotta do things in the right context and make them feel that the experience you two share cant be duplicated
 

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Not sure what to make of this :patrice: Started off a friendship with this girl and my intentions was to keep it platonic (she's very fine and cool to kick it with but I just didn't want a relationship). Fast forward a month or so later and I start to actually like her and catch some feelin's :dame:She's always shown a couple positive indicators so I assumed there was at least some mutual interest. Now the problem was I needed to change the tone of our texts/convo's so its not just casual friend shyt, since I needed to get out of the friendzone I put myself in. So she texts me something and I say

Me: You haven't been hoein' it up have you? You can't be hoein' it up if you wanna be bae (Remember there was never any remotely flirty texts on my end before so me saying bae was wildly unexpected)
Her: lol what
Her: didn't ask to be bae :smile:
(now after that I'm like :merchant:but I keep the play going)
Me: U ain't gotta ask (:youngsabo:)
Me: So is that a confirmation on your hoein'
Her: hahahah nope *thumbs up*
Me: Well that's good then I can't be fukking with hoes anymore (:troll:)
Her: hahaha noo i don't want you to get the wrong idea!! (I'm thinking the "noo" = no I wasn't talking about that, and "don't want you get the wrong idea" = I'm not interested in being bae, but here's where it gets confusing)
Me: About what?
Her: lol your comment^^^
(What comment??)
Me: Hmm sounds like something a hoe would say. jk
(I'm thinking she's talking about the hoe "comment")
Her: I'm confused
(So am I bytch)
Me: ?
Her: Why cant you be fukking with hoes anymore? lol
(So this contradicts my earlier suspicions about the "wrong idea" text, since she's asking about this for some reason)
Me: What's so confusing about that
Her: Why can't you
(why is this pertinent? Was she receptive to my flirty text or not)
Me: Because hoes are hoes
Her: I don't get it????
Me: Lol what's not to get
Her: How does this have anything to do with me hahaha
Me: Idk u tell me (:beli:)
Her: so nothing!!!
(me on the inside: :mindblown: wtf is happening)

I'm scared I might take a major L on this brehs :huhldup: I'm gonna be direct about my feelings eventually in the near future but this is where I'm at right now. Usually I avoid this point of investment altogether since I let my intentions be known from the onset but this one's different as I detailed. She a super nice person so I feel like she don't wanna let me down hard if she wants to keep it friendly, but there's just so many signs that hard to say for sure :patrice:Just wanted to share with the brehs
that was fukkin terrible...and i'm notorious for talking myself outta draws when i was younger. why are you talking about hoeing and shyt? you could've easily offended her. she was probably confused as fukk. next time just ask what shes up to and then say you wanna go out to grab food with her or some shyt. invite her to the crib.

STOP OVERTHINKING THIS shyt
 
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