Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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If you want to catch some nonblack females throw a pool party and put on "I met you in the summer" by Calvin Harris you will increase your roster
 

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Checked up on that Nigerian engineering major chick. She was talking to some other Nikka and got back with him:mjcry:she told me we can't do anymore dates. If we hang out it has to be strictly platonic.

Should I even entertain this? I'm dealing with 2 other women but to be real I was hoping this Nigerian chick would work out. She's ambitious and traditional:wow:but at the same time I don't want that karma of being one of those dudes who sits back on the cut preying on other nikkas girls.

I was just going to stay on good terms and keep it cordial:yeshrug:this upcoming year will be my last one in the city and I'm going out of state (for work) for 8 weeks at the end of May. Should I fall back or keep hope alive. I might be trippen but
-Fam oriented
-African
-Successful
-Fat ass
I don't wanna give up this easy:sadcam:
 

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Checked up on that Nigerian engineering major chick. She was talking to some other Nikka and got back with him:mjcry:she told me we can't do anymore dates. If we hang out it has to be strictly platonic.

Should I even entertain this? I'm dealing with 2 other women but to be real I was hoping this Nigerian chick would work out. She's ambitious and traditional:wow:but at the same time I don't want that karma of being one of those dudes who sits back on the cut preying on other nikkas girls.

I was just going to stay on good terms and keep it cordial:yeshrug:this upcoming year will be my last one in the city and I'm going out of state (for work) for 8 weeks at the end of May. Should I fall back or keep hope alive. I might be trippen but
-Fam oriented
-African
-Successful
-Fat ass
I don't wanna give up this easy:sadcam:

Keep it moving breh.

Any further pursuit of her would be a waste of your time.
 

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Checked up on that Nigerian engineering major chick. She was talking to some other Nikka and got back with him:mjcry:she told me we can't do anymore dates. If we hang out it has to be strictly platonic.

Should I even entertain this? I'm dealing with 2 other women but to be real I was hoping this Nigerian chick would work out. She's ambitious and traditional:wow:but at the same time I don't want that karma of being one of those dudes who sits back on the cut preying on other nikkas girls.

I was just going to stay on good terms and keep it cordial:yeshrug:this upcoming year will be my last one in the city and I'm going out of state (for work) for 8 weeks at the end of May. Should I fall back or keep hope alive. I might be trippen but
-Fam oriented
-African
-Successful
-Fat ass
I don't wanna give up this easy:sadcam:
delete. if she texts you you can reply or whatever to try and monitor her relationship but keep it short. none of that friendly shyt
 

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[QUOTE="WatergunTalk, post: 18851784, member: 512"]where was the exact point I fukked up the momentum? What should I have said instead? And what should I do moving forward? I'm not good at picking the brains of these bytches over text where they got time to think and shyt

the very 1st text...:francis:...Because there was no buildup to actually slip that shyt in there

If you have a hint of sexual attraction towards her, you need to be physical(subtly) at some point(THE BEGINNING) and gauge her reaction...And do it semi-occasionally to keep shyt honest

Also..if you had that planned, you shoulda picked up the phone and called her or set up a date..

And u called her a hoe:snoop::ufdup::dead::damn:

I dont care if you were joking or not....You called her a hoe:damn:

I really just read that shyt in detail....:skip:

In short....

More face to face...Less Text...

Give yourself wiggle room

Show signs from the jump you think she sexy...in the physical sense...

TAKE THE WORD HOE OUT OF YOUR VOCAB:ufdup:

Understand the art of subtly...

LISTEN...[/QUOTE]
Thank you. No offense..but that nikka really called her a ho and doesn't know why she's objective to his advances?

Yeah, this thread is much needed. Dudes so used to hanging around other dudes they have no clue how to talk to women. Any dude that said that to me is automatic no-go from here on out. If she's smart, she'll see that disrespect for what it is. Boys is wild.
 

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Chick sent me some booty pics. I was like "nice", she said a better response would of been that it turns me on,

But it didn't :ld:

I mean for fukk sakes - a nikka can go on IG and see all kinds of shyt. wtf do these hoes think nowadays? shyt ain't even private anymore, let alone boner worthy to see a hoe in her panties anymore. IG has desensitized males to the female anatomy (porn too, but still). shyt ain't a mystery anymore
 

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I mean for fukk sakes - a nikka can go on IG and see all kinds of shyt. wtf do these hoes think nowadays? shyt ain't even private anymore, let alone boner worthy to see a hoe in her panties anymore. IG has desensitized males to the female anatomy (porn too, but still). shyt ain't a mystery anymore
Basically, and I refuse to lie to these women to boost their ego, shyt didn't turn me on, plain and simple, of course she text me a long ass paragraph after I hit her with the truth :snoop:
 

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Checked up on that Nigerian engineering major chick. She was talking to some other Nikka and got back with him:mjcry:she told me we can't do anymore dates. If we hang out it has to be strictly platonic.

Should I even entertain this? I'm dealing with 2 other women but to be real I was hoping this Nigerian chick would work out. She's ambitious and traditional:wow:but at the same time I don't want that karma of being one of those dudes who sits back on the cut preying on other nikkas girls.

I was just going to stay on good terms and keep it cordial:yeshrug:this upcoming year will be my last one in the city and I'm going out of state (for work) for 8 weeks at the end of May. Should I fall back or keep hope alive. I might be trippen but
-Fam oriented
-African
-Successful
-Fat ass
I don't wanna give up this easy:sadcam:

She don't see you that way breh. You want a girl who puts you at the top of her priority list, because a woman that is feeling you wants your time and energy. If she's able to put you to the side, ESPECIALLY for another dude in the picture, it means you don't do it for her in that way, or she'd be trying to lock you down. She's not wrong for that, but don't settle for waiting on logistics to work out.
 

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She don't see you that way breh. You want a girl who puts you at the top of her priority list, because a woman that is feeling you wants your time and energy. If she's able to put you to the side, ESPECIALLY for another dude in the picture, it means you don't do it for her in that way, or she'd be trying to lock you down. She's not wrong for that, but don't settle for waiting on logistics to work out.

100%

a female that really wants you will make time for you - there's always time. On the flip side, don't come running at her every call. know when to restrain yourself, just be smart about it.
 
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