Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Solano707]

Back on the scene brehs....man this the best I've felt in a long as time...

nice breh, now just work on you and do shyt that you always wanted to do.

i think the hardest thing for me, being newly single/divorced and all, is that i still want a connection to a female. but i know deep down i'm like " slow down dumbass" lol

recently i've been blowing some cash on myself because before I wasn't able too

responsible though

but yeah, welcome to singlehood lifestyle breh

 

[True Blue Moon]

nice breh, now just work on you and do shyt that you always wanted to do.

i think the hardest thing for me, being newly single/divorced and all, is that i still want a connection to a female. but i know deep down i'm like " slow down dumbass" lol

recently i've been blowing some cash on myself because before I wasn't able too

responsible though

but yeah, welcome to singlehood lifestyle breh

I don't know if you touched on it or not, cuz I'm new to this thread, but what led to the divorce breh? I ask because my wife and I are always super real with each other that this marriage thing is a decision so we have to stay honest and do right by that decision, so it's always interesting to me to find out people's points of no return in their marriage.

Godspeed on the single life

I'm a connection breh too (we all are deep down), so being newly single in a world where so much change has happened would be different.

 

[Solano707]

I don't know if you touched on it or not, cuz I'm new to this thread, but what led to the divorce breh? I ask because my wife and I are always super real with each other that this marriage thing is a decision so we have to stay honest and do right by that decision, so it's always interesting to me to find out people's points of no return in their marriage.

Godspeed on the single life

I'm a connection breh too (we all are deep down), so being newly single in a world where so much change has happened would be different.

http://www.thecoli.com/threads/the-many-ls-i-took-during-last-3-years-of-my-13-year-marriage.408247/

First post

But yeah, I should have bushed that ass sooner, I just thought that I could change things. I will say, a woman will only want you when the want you - ain't no changing their minds on that. Also, don't be naive like I was - swallow that red pill as soon as you can. Make sure you have some good people around, not just some ordinary dikk heads.

 

[True Blue Moon]

http://www.thecoli.com/threads/the-many-ls-i-took-during-last-3-years-of-my-13-year-marriage.408247/

First post

But yeah, I should have bushed that ass sooner, I just thought that I could change things. I will say, a woman will only want you when the want you - ain't no changing their minds on that. Also, don't be naive like I was - swallow that red pill as soon as you can. Make sure you have some good people around, not just some ordinary dikk heads.

13 years

Thanks for the link and advice breh, I'll check it out and reflect on your stories and what you went through.

 

[Therht]

fellow buffaloux

would you wife a chick with serious daddy issues?

like not just daddy issues, but step daddy issues on top of that.

and mummy issues on top of that for not protecting her etc?


i cant help thinking family issues are gonna create family issues down the line

 

[True Blue Moon]

fellow buffaloux

would you wife a chick with serious daddy issues?

like not just daddy issues, but step daddy issues on top of that.

and mummy issues on top of that for not protecting her etc?


i cant help thinking family issues are gonna create family issues down the line

What kind of daddy issues are we talking here

Everyone has something that fukks them up and they have to overcome, but there's a difference between having issues and being destructive.

 

[Therht]

What kind of daddy issues are we talking here

Everyone has something that fukks them up and they have to overcome, but there's a difference between having issues and being destructive.

beat on moms, left when she was 4, she tried to reconcile with him in her 20s, he dont care, step dad an absolute arsehole as well

the real question here is this?

if you were planning on raising a child with someone, would go for the girl with the stable family background, parents still together, father a dad to her

or would you be like nah none of that shyt matters, this bad bytch over here may have grown up in a shyt show, but we can make it work

 

[True Blue Moon]

beat on moms, left when she was 4, she tried to reconcile with him in her 20s, he dont care, step dad an absolute arsehole as well

the real question here is this?

if you were planning on raising a child with someone, would go for the girl with the stable family background, parents still together, father a dad to her

or would you be like nah none of that shyt matters, this bad bytch over here may have grown up in a shyt show, but we can make it work

I know we're hard on hoes out here but to be real, it depends on that woman. Just like a college degree don't make you smart, a stable family background doesn't mean a chick is going to be a good wife and mom, or that her family was a good family just because they didn't get divorced. I'm of the belief to weigh a situation and keep your eyes open, but to take a chick for what she's showing you until she gives you a reason to be alarmed. TRUST ME, a damaged and volatile chick is going to reveal those red flags long before you get to the marriage and family planning stage.

Believe it or not, sometimes those are the best ones. They grew up without a loving family so they'll go to the ends of the earth to take care of their man and make sure their kids get what they didn't get. My grandma was an orphan, so all she wanted out of life is to raise a big family and make sure her kids are educated. Now she has an entire generation of educated and loving kids and grandkids

My family is super tight knit largely based on what she didn't have. Of course, she coulda gone the opposite end of the spectrum and been a heroin addict or something, but that shows it's all on the woman and whether she wants to get better from her pain or worse from it.

 

[Therht]

I know we're hard on hoes out here but to be real, it depends on that woman. Just like a college degree don't make you smart, a stable family background doesn't mean a chick is going to be a good wife and mom, or that her family was a good family just because they didn't get divorced. I'm of the belief to weigh a situation and keep your eyes open, but to take a chick for what she's showing you until she gives you a reason to be alarmed. TRUST ME, a damaged and volatile chick is going to reveal those red flags long before you get to the marriage and family planning stage.

Believe it or not, sometimes those are the best ones. They grew up without a loving family so they'll go to the ends of the earth to take care of their man and make sure their kids get what they didn't get. My grandma was an orphan, so all she wanted out of life is to raise a big family and make sure her kids are educated. Now she has an entire generation of educated and loving kids and grandkids

My family is super tight knit largely based on what she didn't have. Of course, she coulda gone the opposite end of the spectrum and been a heroin addict or something, but that shows it's all on the woman and whether she wants to get better from her pain or worse from it.

damn thats that real son, the exact sort of level headed answer i needed

dap and rep ya grandmoms for me as well potna

 

[Bless't]

Chick sent me some booty pics. I was like "nice", she said a better response would of been that it turns me on,

But it didn't

I hate that shyt. Some struggle cakes and she's on the other end of the phone like...

 

[Atlrocafella]

I hate that shyt. Some struggle cakes and she's on the other end of the phone like...

 

[Therht]

struggle cakes

 

[EffYou]

put everything on the line with this one shawty.

Told her I liked our recent encounters and that I could see something in the future and wanted to see where she stood.

She brought up how her ex is around and that we could be friends and how she was sure we would have something in the future


clown hoe just got bushed.

"Tbh nah I'm not cool with that I like a girl to myself, I'll let you figure things out with your ex"



I feel good baby






Edit: her response-
"Okay I respect that.I thought you were just chilling not looking for a relationship at the moment when we first talked about it. But I definitely understand"



I haven't replied

 

[DAlbert]

I'm back in the game too, 8 months after I broke up with my last girlfriend and focused on myself for a while.

I already got into some extracurriculars with a former coworker this weekend.

Its about to be a hot summer.

I know how that shyt go man I got some decent head a couple months ago from my coworker. Easiest set up I've ever done.

Hopefully I can partake in the festivities this summer

 

[Deafheaven]

I think nikkas really need to make the conscious decision to never let a woman love you less than you do her. If your at a 9 and shes a 8 she can feel it and its eventually gonna blow up. Personally Im never going to let a woman think Im more into her than she is to me, seems to be a recipe for heartbreak.