Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Urbanmiracle]

You know brehs. Lately I've been feeling listless. No direction. Lack of focus. I think it's dealing with these women and trying to play the game instead of just focusing on what I need to do and letting them come to me as I improved. I started going to the gym regularly and started drinking more water. Heading back into the studio to finish some music projects. Been applying and taking all these city test for better opportunities. I gotta get my money right fellas.

 

[RichieRich]

Been lurking this thread for a while now, peeped fame and took notes. Gonna be back in the game after this divorce

#GM...to the wrong one...Brehs

 

[IceDragon]

You know brehs. Lately I've been feeling listless. No direction. Lack of focus. I think it's dealing with these women and trying to play the game instead of just focusing on what I need to do and letting them come to me as I improved. I started going to the gym regularly and started drinking more water. Heading back into the studio to finish some music projects. Been applying and taking all these city test for better opportunities. I gotta get my money right fellas.

Yeah I've had that same feeling of no direction and lack of focus. I think you always gotta remember to have some focus on you no matter who or how many you with. It doesn't matter how great or sexy she is, make sure you got yourself in order first. In my opinion there's a whole bunch of women out here that just ain't about shyt. Like they just aren't interested in improving themselves and that can rub off on you and distract from the goals ( not saying that's exactly what happened to you but it did happen with me )

 

[Urbanmiracle]

Yeah I've had that same feeling of no direction and lack of focus. I think you always gotta remember to have some focus on you no matter who or how many you with. It doesn't matter how great or sexy she is, make sure you got yourself in order first. In my opinion there's a whole bunch of women out here that just ain't about shyt. Like they just aren't interested in improving themselves and that can rub off on you and distract from the goals ( not saying that's exactly what happened to you but it did happen with me )

Im single in my 30s and i feel i don't meet certain expectations that people feel i should have in my 30s. Im at home helping my dad whose been sick since new years. Im in NYC so I don't have my own whip. Im dating women who have or have had their spots and vehicles. And I know i shouldn't feel a way about it because they still spread their legs and obey my every commands to the letter but they are women of lesser stature. I feel to attract the woman I want to settle down with, I need to fall back and build my self up. Get my own spot once my dad is ok. I got too many kicks Im about to sell or giveaway most of them. Control the impulses I have. I just feel I should be far more along than I am. So I'm trying to better myself. Thats the journey Ive started.

 

[Gus Money]

What's the best way to let the chicks on my roster know that I want to keep it on a casual dating aspect?

Actually keep it casual. Don't make her a priority (which you shouldn't do anyway) and don't hint at any type of commitment. When you're with her, you're with her. When you're not, you're not.

You also have to be okay with letting them go if they're not down for that.

 

[1thouwow]

One of the girls I mess with just got engaged today. I don't know how I feel about that, but it's definitely time for me to stop messing with her

 

[MaccabeanRebel]

One of the girls I mess with just got engaged today. I don't know how I feel about that, but it's definitely time for me to stop messing with her

buy why? You already got this far

 

[prettyblackk]

-Never let a chick know how much you want her, always play it co dont ol. Dont come on too strong.












Add on, lets share the wealth brehs.

I dont know about other females but the same rules apply for me as a female because... a nikka will be all up under telling u he love you eat yo p*ssy raw drive u insane with his dikk game but act like we as females are the crazy ones

 

[1thouwow]

buy why? You already got this far

Just that time to move on

 

[Mainevent_7]

I need some guidance. So last week when I was out with some friends my ex called me. We have not talked for over 3 months. I returned her call the following day and we talked, and long story short she wanted us to be friends. Then Tuesday night she called me and asked why does she always have to call me and not the other way around. I could not provide her a good answer to the question but I told her I would make an effort to reach out to her from time to time. We talked some more that night which lead to her asking if I was having sex with someone else and a few other questions. Then I found out that the dude she cheated on me with proposed to her. She said that she didn't say yes or no but she did take the ring. Fast forward to yesterday I sent her a text saying that this will not end well if we were to interact with each other as long as that dude is in her life. I received a bunch of text telling me to stop and that she loves me and wants me in her life so I backed down on my stance about us not communicating with each other. So later that night she calls me and she just did a complete 180 saying that we should never talk again and we need to cut all ties with each other. So my questions is, should i reach out to her and find out why she did a complete 180 or should i just keep it moving?

 

[EA]

I need some guidance. So last week when I was out with some friends my ex called me. We have not talked for over 3 months. I returned her call the following day and we talked, and long story short she wanted us to be friends. Then Tuesday night she called me and asked why does she always have to call me and not the other way around. I could not provide her a good answer to the question but I told her I would make an effort to reach out to her from time to time. We talked some more that night which lead to her asking if I was having sex with someone else and a few other questions. Then I found out that the dude she cheated on me with proposed to her. She said that she didn't say yes or no but she did take the ring. Fast forward to yesterday I sent her a text saying that this will not end well if we were to interact with each other as long as that dude is in her life. I received a bunch of text telling me to stop and that she loves me and wants me in her life so I backed down on my stance about us not communicating with each other. So later that night she calls me and she just did a complete 180 saying that we should never talk again and we need to cut all ties with each other. So my questions is, should i reach out to her and find out why she did a complete 180 or should i just keep it moving?

Tell her to hit the bricks

 

[Action Mike]

I need some guidance. So last week when I was out with some friends my ex called me. We have not talked for over 3 months. I returned her call the following day and we talked, and long story short she wanted us to be friends. Then Tuesday night she called me and asked why does she always have to call me and not the other way around. I could not provide her a good answer to the question but I told her I would make an effort to reach out to her from time to time. We talked some more that night which lead to her asking if I was having sex with someone else and a few other questions. Then I found out that the dude she cheated on me with proposed to her. She said that she didn't say yes or no but she did take the ring. Fast forward to yesterday I sent her a text saying that this will not end well if we were to interact with each other as long as that dude is in her life. I received a bunch of text telling me to stop and that she loves me and wants me in her life so I backed down on my stance about us not communicating with each other. So later that night she calls me and she just did a complete 180 saying that we should never talk again and we need to cut all ties with each other. So my questions is, should i reach out to her and find out why she did a complete 180 or should i just keep it moving?

Don't contact her or respond ever again in your entire life. No congrats on wedding day. Nothing.

Look what this woman is making you do writing essays about her wishy washy ways while she dangling an engagement ring in front of you.

She kept you as back up. I ain't no back up nikka

Are you?

Just think. What good can come from her.

 

[MaccabeanRebel]

Don't contact her or respond ever again in your entire life. No congrats on wedding day. Nothing.

Look what this woman is making you do writing essays about her wishy washy ways while she dangling an engagement ring in front of you.

She kept you as back up. I ain't no back up nikka

Are you?

Just think. What good can come from her.

All truth

 

[Mainevent_7]

Don't contact her or respond ever again in your entire life. No congrats on wedding day. Nothing.

Look what this woman is making you do writing essays about her wishy washy ways while she dangling an engagement ring in front of you.

She kept you as back up. I ain't no back up nikka

Are you?

Just think. What good can come from her.

Good looks. I hate I got a soft spot for her. When everything seems to be going good for myself, she just reappears.

 

[The ADD]

I need some guidance. So last week when I was out with some friends my ex called me. We have not talked for over 3 months. I returned her call the following day and we talked, and long story short she wanted us to be friends. Then Tuesday night she called me and asked why does she always have to call me and not the other way around. I could not provide her a good answer to the question but I told her I would make an effort to reach out to her from time to time. We talked some more that night which lead to her asking if I was having sex with someone else and a few other questions. Then I found out that the dude she cheated on me with proposed to her. She said that she didn't say yes or no but she did take the ring. Fast forward to yesterday I sent her a text saying that this will not end well if we were to interact with each other as long as that dude is in her life. I received a bunch of text telling me to stop and that she loves me and wants me in her life so I backed down on my stance about us not communicating with each other. So later that night she calls me and she just did a complete 180 saying that we should never talk again and we need to cut all ties with each other. So my questions is, should i reach out to her and find out why she did a complete 180 or should i just keep it moving?

KIM