Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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thats what i'd think. but man...
last one me and this chick just went for a walk cause we live mad close. It was at like 9PM so it lasted about two hours. We had great conversation and all that; really got to know one another. I know she was comfortable cause she was out here taking me to random catwalks/trails in the park and shyt where it was dark/obscure as hell. She also said she wanted to go out later ...we decided we'd see a movie and then grab some desserts at a waffle/crepe spot on Canada Day but she had to reschedule because family came over for the long weekend and she suggested sometime this week. nonetheless, after we went out, continued talking and all that. I went a few days without messaging her but when i messaged her on some casual shyt I got no reply. Mind you , before she'd be out here texting me paragraphs and shyt.
Sometimes it happens before I go out with a chick too. Iunno. I'm honestly baffled. Maybe this chick was talking to another dude, got back with an ex or some shyt. Just disappointing when everything seems good and you get ghosted. A heads up would be appreciated but nobody owes anybody shyt i guess. This last one hurts though. Badly. I'm feeling defeated
i dont deny its something I'm doing but shyt just doesnt make sense. cant put my finger on it. got my first CPA exam this morning, hopefully this bullshyt doesnt linger on my mind during it. gotta lock in. I'ma head to the exam centre on some boxer shyt...just listening to some Kingpin Skinny Pimp, Playa Fly and Gangsta Blac in some silence. Cause that's the mood right now lol
Man..I dont even try to understand anymore
Its like the less you ask about them and the more shyt you talk,the better reception you get
thats what i'd think. but man...
last one me and this chick just went for a walk cause we live mad close. It was at like 9PM so it lasted about two hours. We had great conversation and all that; really got to know one another. I know she was comfortable cause she was out here taking me to random catwalks/trails in the park and shyt where it was dark/obscure as hell. She also said she wanted to go out later ...we decided we'd see a movie and then grab some desserts at a waffle/crepe spot on Canada Day but she had to reschedule because family came over for the long weekend and she suggested sometime this week. nonetheless, after we went out, continued talking and all that. I went a few days without messaging her but when i messaged her on some casual shyt I got no reply. Mind you , before she'd be out here texting me paragraphs and shyt.
Sometimes it happens before I go out with a chick too. Iunno. I'm honestly baffled. Maybe this chick was talking to another dude, got back with an ex or some shyt. Just disappointing when everything seems good and you get ghosted. A heads up would be appreciated but nobody owes anybody shyt i guess. This last one hurts though. Badly. I'm feeling defeated
i dont deny its something I'm doing but shyt just doesnt make sense. cant put my finger on it. got my first CPA exam this morning, hopefully this bullshyt doesnt linger on my mind during it. gotta lock in. I'ma head to the exam centre on some boxer shyt...just listening to some Kingpin Skinny Pimp, Playa Fly and Gangsta Blac in some silence. Cause that's the mood right now lol
u goto be careful with the bolded. in every relationship, there's always someone who's the lead and its in ur best interest, as a man, and as a lover to make sure that lead is you!
in some relationships, its ok to let ur girl lead u "from time to time", but not before you've fuccked her. women dont like to feel like they're in control of a man. if they do, they'll lose interest fast, or treat u like sh1t, or both. i'm not talking from a theoretical point of view. i'm talking from experience. not one experience, but repeated painful experiences. so next time u wanna go out with a girl, plan everything out. if ur driving (and u better be), dont ask her help for anything. handle everything on ur own. women like to not have to do sh1t but get dressed up and be taken places.
in ur particular case. if a girl is that comfortable with me to be walking in secluded places, that signals she might be in the mood to get freaky. i woulda at least tried something. and depending on how receptive she is, we could be fuccking that same night.
and next time u go on dates with these chicks, dont be hitting them up after the date. if yall have a great time, after u get home, she'll most likely hit u up on some "i really had a great time today". in which case, u set up another time to meet up...i.e. "me too, we should make it happen again next time you're free". now the ball is in her court. if shes really digging u, she'll be like "i'm free so and so date.". in which case, u set a specific date and time. dont be like "how about saturday? what time works for u". nah, none of that bullsh1t. if she says she's free over the weekend, u take the lead and be like "cool, let's meet at 4pm on saturday at blah blah
".now u've got a date. and after u've met a girl outside at a restaurant or anywhere outside ur house for 2 consecutive time, the next place u meet better be at ur house. or if the first date really went well she'll be eager to come to ur house the next time. or even on the first date.
the gist of my post here is, take the lead. and after a date, let the girl come to u. dont be the one texting her on some "i had a really great time". that's b1tch sh1t. and if she doesn't text u after the first date, dont sweat it. let it be. i know women all too well. if u showed genuine interest in her on the first date and she had a great time, she will hit u up on her own. if u hit her up, u've tipped the scale all the way in her favor and u're fukked.
everything i just said here is very important because u must understand, if a girl is hot, u aint the only dude that's on her. there are many dudes on her. but i assure u, its very few of those dudes that knows how the game is to be played. if she goes on a date with 5 guys in one week and 4 of them keep texting her after the date. and u, the 5th guy didn't do any of that. who do u think she'll wonder about the most?? the dudes blowing up her phone, or the one who hasnt??? and yes, u texting her first, after a date, IS blowing up her phone. sucks. but thats the way it is.
control your enthusiasm and thee shall prosper in the game of love.
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Great post.u goto be careful with the bolded. in every relationship, there's always someone who's the lead and its in ur best interest, as a man, and as a lover to make sure that lead is you!
in some relationships, its ok to let ur girl lead u "from time to time", but not before you've fuccked her. women dont like to feel like they're in control of a man. if they do, they'll lose interest fast, or treat u like sh1t, or both. i'm not talking from a theoretical point of view. i'm talking from experience. not one experience, but repeated painful experiences. so next time u wanna go out with a girl, plan everything out. if ur driving (and u better be), dont ask her help for anything. handle everything on ur own. women like to not have to do sh1t but get dressed up and be taken places.
in ur particular case. if a girl is that comfortable with me to be walking in secluded places, that signals she might be in the mood to get freaky. i woulda at least tried something. and depending on how receptive she is, we could be fuccking that same night.
and next time u go on dates with these chicks, dont be hitting them up after the date. if yall have a great time, after u get home, she'll most likely hit u up on some "i really had a great time today". in which case, u set up another time to meet up...i.e. "me too, we should make it happen again next time you're free". now the ball is in her court. if shes really digging u, she'll be like "i'm free so and so date.". in which case, u set a specific date and time. dont be like "how about saturday? what time works for u". nah, none of that bullsh1t. if she says she's free over the weekend, u take the lead and be like "cool, let's meet at 4pm on saturday at blah blah
now u've got a date. and after u've met a girl outside at a restaurant or anywhere outside ur house for 2 consecutive time, the next place u meet better be at ur house. or if the first date really went well she'll be eager to come to ur house the next time. or even on the first date.
the gist of my post here is, take the lead. and after a date, let the girl come to u. dont be the one texting her on some "i had a really great time". that's b1tch sh1t. and if she doesn't text u after the first date, dont sweat it. let it be. i know women all too well. if she showed genuine interest in her on the first date and she had a great time, she will hit u up on her own. if u hit her up, u've tipped the scale all the way in her favor and u're fukked.
Make your intentions known.
I almost always go for a kiss on the first date.
Posted this already in random thots but I really want the advice...
Brehs and Brehettes Hear Me !! Thyne art called for advice post haste !!
Aight so here is the thing. There is girl that I am attracted to what who works at a shop I frequent from time to time. She is
.
and from what I can tell she really Fukks wit me.
At first I couldn't tell if she was just super friendly in the customer service type of way. or If she was actually attracted to me.
So for the past two weeks Ive been going in there and making sure to talk to her and see how she acts with other customers. and there is a huge difference the last time I was in there to talk to her she had a huge smile and was blushing like hell
. and she kinda low key acts a bit nervous when she see me. and all signs scream YES!
If it was any where else I would have been asked her out. but this is her job and I dont want to misread anything or cause problems. I plan on shooting my shot today.
What yall think tho?? Asking a girl out at her job... Yay or NaY
Please brehs??
Brehs and Brehettes Hear Me !! Thyne art called for advice post haste !!
Aight so here is the thing. There is girl that I am attracted to what who works at a shop I frequent from time to time. She is
.and from what I can tell she really Fukks wit me.
At first I couldn't tell if she was just super friendly in the customer service type of way. or If she was actually attracted to me. So for the past two weeks Ive been going in there and making sure to talk to her and see how she acts with other customers. and there is a huge difference the last time I was in there to talk to her she had a huge smile and was blushing like hell
. and she kinda low key acts a bit nervous when she see me. and all signs scream YES!If it was any where else I would have been asked her out. but this is her job and I dont want to misread anything or cause problems. I plan on shooting my shot today.
What yall think tho?? Asking a girl out at her job... Yay or NaY
Please brehs??
Posted this already in random thots but I really want the advice...
Brehs and Brehettes Hear Me !! Thyne art called for advice post haste !!
Aight so here is the thing. There is girl that I am attracted to what who works at a shop I frequent from time to time. She is
and from what I can tell she really Fukks wit me.
So for the past two weeks Ive been going in there and making sure to talk to her and see how she acts with other customers. and there is a huge difference the last time I was in there to talk to her she had a huge smile and was blushing like hell
If it was any where else I would have been asked her out. but this is her job and I dont want to misread anything or cause problems. I plan on shooting my shot today.
What yall think tho?? Asking a girl out at her job... Yay or NaY
Please brehs??
next time u are u see her and shes super friendly as u say she's always been, keep it simple and be like
"you know, u seem like cool peoples.
we really should hang out next time you're free".chicks who have genuine interest in u will be like "yes yes, i would like that." or "that sounds like a great plan". and she'll ask u to take down her number.
or if u have a card, u can give it to her - but this i wouldn't do because if she doesn't call u, it'll be an awkward situation next time u see her. so leave the ball completely in her court.
Thx. I plan on doing something like this. Except imma leave her my number. Im not pressed at all but I know approaching women at work is seen as a no no so I fell back. She definitely been sending me the vibez which is why im gonna try alway.next time u are u see her and shes super friendly as u say she's always been, keep it simple and be like
"you know, u seem like cool peoples.
chicks who have genuine interest in u will be like "yes yes, i would like that." or "that sounds like a great plan". and she'll ask u to take down her number.
or if u have a card, u can give it to her - but this i wouldn't do because if she doesn't call u, it'll be an awkward situation next time u see her. so leave the ball completely in her court.
thats what i'd think. but man...
last one me and this chick just went for a walk cause we live mad close. It was at like 9PM so it lasted about two hours. We had great conversation and all that; really got to know one another. I know she was comfortable cause she was out here taking me to random catwalks/trails in the park and shyt where it was dark/obscure as hell. She also said she wanted to go out later ...we decided we'd see a movie and then grab some desserts at a waffle/crepe spot on Canada Day but she had to reschedule because family came over for the long weekend and she suggested sometime this week. nonetheless, after we went out, continued talking and all that. I went a few days without messaging her but when i messaged her on some casual shyt I got no reply. Mind you , before she'd be out here texting me paragraphs and shyt.
Sometimes it happens before I go out with a chick too. Iunno. I'm honestly baffled. Maybe this chick was talking to another dude, got back with an ex or some shyt. Just disappointing when everything seems good and you get ghosted. A heads up would be appreciated but nobody owes anybody shyt i guess. This last one hurts though. Badly. I'm feeling defeated
i dont deny its something I'm doing but shyt just doesnt make sense. cant put my finger on it. got my first CPA exam this morning, hopefully this bullshyt doesnt linger on my mind during it. gotta lock in. I'ma head to the exam centre on some boxer shyt...just listening to some Kingpin Skinny Pimp, Playa Fly and Gangsta Blac in some silence. Cause that's the mood right now lol
Some chicks just don't feel you and nothing you can do about it. and focus on your exam, girls ain't shyt.
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every time I'll meet a chick lately, shyt will be going well...texting, a meet up or two, some more texting and then poof they vanish and stop replying to messages.
shyt does not make any sense. i know girls have many options. maybe they get back with an ex, lose interest or whatever but the way it be happening outta nowhere...unexplainable and feels like shyt man at times. shyt is fukked up
Damn, this explains my current situation so well it's unreal.
Maybe its a TO thing
My thing is ... why even entertain the initial banter if you are just gonna go ghost on me eventually? Like how does that even make you feel doing that to another person. Heartless, scandalous broads breh 
they're just fickle. I wanna say its me, that I am the problem so i can introspect, adjust and see what Im doing wrong. But honestly I dont think it is. THese girls are just on some bullshyt.Damn, this explains my current situation so well it's unreal.
Maybe its a TO thing
they got options breh...they'll entertain you till someone else comes along. soon as you show interest really quick, they will ghost on you. unless the girl was feeling you, she won't look for other options if she thought you were attractive for her.
that's just the reality and how the game is played. it's bullshyt
she complimented my physique, looks, and approach. i guess she was bullshytting.they got options breh...they'll entertain you till someone else comes along. soon as you show interest really quick, they will ghost on you. unless the girl was feeling you, she won't look for other options if she thought you were attractive for her.
that's just the reality and how the game is played. it's bullshyt
Ask her out.Posted this already in random thots but I really want the advice...
Brehs and Brehettes Hear Me !! Thyne art called for advice post haste !!
Aight so here is the thing. There is girl that I am attracted to what who works at a shop I frequent from time to time. She is
and from what I can tell she really Fukks wit me.
So for the past two weeks Ive been going in there and making sure to talk to her and see how she acts with other customers. and there is a huge difference the last time I was in there to talk to her she had a huge smile and was blushing like hell
If it was any where else I would have been asked her out. but this is her job and I dont want to misread anything or cause problems. I plan on shooting my shot today.
What yall think tho?? Asking a girl out at her job... Yay or NaY
Please brehs??
I had a co-worker who was sending me hints that she was interested for MONTHS, but again, she's naturally charismatic and friendly with everyone, so I had my doubts.
I waited until I transferred divisions because I didn't want to make things awkward at work, and on my last day I asked her out. She said she'd love to. We're going out this week-end.
No ragrets.
how did the compliments come about?she complimented my physique, looks, and approach. i guess she was bullshytting.
the only compliments from women u should take seriously are those that come out of the blue. like, u guys are talking about something completely different and she just looks at u and goes, i really like ur hair. oh my goodness, our eyes are mesmerizing. i love your voice.
but if the compliments come through avenues such as this:
you: you sure do look nice today.
her: *blushes* awww thank you. u dont look bad urself.
or
you: i wish i had a body like the rock.
her: u got a nice build too.
that's a bullsh1t compliment and u shouldn't let it get to your head. sure, u may look nice, but it was a compliment that was sired through ur initial compliment to her. she's most likely being nice.
(these are just an examples, u can re-examine ur scenario to see if it fits)