Werd breh. She wasn't at work today. Hopefully I catch her tomorrow. If I do ill post an update. Congrats on ya date too b
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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out the blue breh
shyt...within our first few messages when i told her I was an accountant. She said she would've guessed I was a personal trainer...based on my physique and posture.
hadnt been to the gym in two weeks and felt lean but said tthanks. told her i had actually just been coming from getting a haircut and wanted to grab sumn quick so didnt expect to run into anybody. she said she could tell and how honestly she gave me her number because above all else she liked my approach.
so right then and there, her saying she could tell i just came from the barber is basically insinuating that I looked fresh. her saying i had the physique of a trainer insinuates I have a good fit body. Not only that but it shows she's somewhat impressed that I'm a professional (could be a backhanded compliment but nonetheless). And lastly, she explicitly said my approach was good. but i digress
if that isnt outta the blue what is
thanks yall for your insight but honestly...shyt isnt should not be that difficult. You cant tell me girls are so rigid to the point where despite everything seeming good...that if a man doesnt go in for the kiss at XYZ time, and if a man doesnt set up a date in ABC manner that the girl is gonna curve em. Nah...the average person aint that rigid. shyt like that just leads to overthinking which is even worse in my opinion. Maybe after a few dates/meet ups okay...she might think homie a p*ssy. But the first rendezvous? That shyt can keep a bytch waiting anxiously for the next time and hoping homie goes in for the kiss. That's just in my experience.
out the blue breh
shyt...within our first few messages when i told her I was an accountant. She said she would've guessed I was a personal trainer...based on my physique
hadnt been to the gym in two weeks and felt lean but said tthanks. told her i had actually just been coming from getting a haircut and wanted to grab sumn quick so didnt expect to run into anybody. she said she could tell and how honestly she gave me her number because above all else she liked my approach.
if that isnt outta the blue what is
thanks yall for your insight but honestly...shyt isnt should not be that difficult. You cant tell me girls are so rigid to the point where despite everything seeming good...that if a man doesnt go in for the kiss at XYZ time, and if a man doesnt set up a date in ABC manner that the girl is gonna curve em. Nah...the average person aint that rigid. shyt like that just leads to overthinking which is even worse in my opinion.
i understand what ur going through dude. i've curved too many chicks for reasons many of u will consider abysmally trivial. so when i get curved or have to deal with a text message not being returned, i honestly just move on. i dont dwell on things. it helps that i have many hobbies that are very time consuming and keeps my mind occupied.
u cant be bothered by these silliness. move on the next.
Breh always judge people by their actions. Not only women, but men, family, friend, relative, neighbors.
I know it's cynical but thats how life is.
I had a girl like that who always talked big. Similar to the girl you're talking about. So one day, I told her you're all talk and no action. Now she always follows up her talk by taking an action
NerdBird
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Anybody here in a relationship with their high school crush? On my behalf, this is the third time trying to make the relationship work out between us. I feel like now it has a chance to last, since we are both more mature...
But like someone said in here, enjoy what you have because you never know when it's gone. Things happens for a reason, even if your intentions are good.
But like someone said in here, enjoy what you have because you never know when it's gone. Things happens for a reason, even if your intentions are good.
NerdBird
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Sooooo I might be in some trouble. Like, this Cuban chick gon stab me up trouble.
I had a thing with one of my coworkers (Cuban girl), and we agreed (by that I mean she) to put it on hold for a bit until I get my life right. Makes sense, it's cool. She said as soon as I do? We backBut she still tryna act like I'm her nikka and shyt, always questioning me about females and shyt. "Who's that you was talking to?" "I see you got a new boo" Shyt like that. So ya boy always gotta bring it back around, talking that slick stuff. "Oh, my boo right next to me" and shyt.
Now, lately I been fukking with this chick who is cool with some people I know, and I feel like ol Cuban knows. She been asking more questions, what I do when I get home and shyt. It makes the car rides from work to my place (ya boy ain't got a whip) a lil awkward. She be dropping me off to the punani and shyt, but I don't feel guilty. Other people think me and the Cuban got something going on, and my boy always talking about some "Maaaan, how you gonna fukk around on ya girl?" making jokes and shyt, then she come around the corner on some "Whose girl? Burn got a girl?
" I feel like she's know about the other chick, and she's waiting for the opportune time to shank me in the breakroom
She's crazy, crazy fukkin fine, but crazy. What do I do Coli brehs? Help me.
It seems like you didn't establish the status between both of you. Are you leading her on? She needs to have it made clear that you are not exclusive to her. Man up breh
Yoo forreal this my first time im talking to 4 diff bytches srsly at same time so hard to keep up
I slipped up today cause i told one of em a lie and got caught up with smh i need to focus wheneever i text
I slipped up today cause i told one of em a lie and got caught up with smh i need to focus wheneever i text
root_eruditorium_org
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root_eruditorium_org
All Star
I was on a streetcar on Friday right next to these 2 chicks and I couldn't help eavesdropping on their conversation because I was so close ...
One of the chicks was telling her friend how she had 4 different dates lined up for the week. She was going on into the types of interactions she's been having with all the dudes, how she had a good feeling about this one, was meh about the other one, but is just gonna go on the dates to feel it out. I won't go into excruciating detail on what was said but basically this chick was completely out of her mind and imo was being very superficial and silly. Essentially her entire dating strategy is to date en masse, and let a "struggle for existence" go on to see which dude will come out on top ... in her opinion.
I don't know if it matters but both of these girls were white and noticeably overweight.
So dude, these girls know EXACTLY what they are doing, it's not even unintentional.
Breh it's really retarded how these women play silly ass games..
Right now this girl that I've been seeing and texting for the last two weeks is waiting for me to text her and show any kind of affection/attention but I'm not gonna...cause I know the game she's playing and she's not going to win. I also know she's been curbing nikkas left and right and let me hit, but still wanna go through this bullshyt.
I ain't sweating tho.
@Asantehene
on second thought, u might want to employ this strategy next time you're with a chick.
if u guys are on a date and u feel she's digging u. just ask her, what do you have planned for the rest of the night. the answer to that question will let u know if she's down to fucck or at the very least, it'll let u know if she's interested in u or not. A girl who's not all that into u will respond with a variation of "aaahh i've got x y z to do, i goto prepare for this and that," in which case, u end the date asap.
girls who like u will say:
what do u mean? im with u arent i? we planned this date. so what are u saying? in which case, u just be like "i'm thinking we should head back to my place, get away from all this noise". i hardly ever encounter resistance to that suggestion.
the point i'm trying to get at here is, dont dicck around with these chicks. a lot of them go on dates wanting to fucck. so if they meet up with u, and ur dilly dallying trying to be a gadamn gentleman, she'll dry up fast. i'm telling u this because u said u were going on long ass walks and sh1t. u might want to stop that, especially if u haven't fuccked the chick.
another experience i had with a girl that i want u take into consideration is:
i went on a date once with this chick. i met up with her at a bar, we had a something light to eat, and within 30 to 40 minutes, i ended the date and dipped. i did all this because at the time, i was dating a different chick that was acting wayward but i liked her and didn't wanna ditch her yet. so i was just dating other people and trying to keep it under wraps. which meant, whenever i go on date, i cant be out too long cause she'll suspect something.
anyway, the girl i went on a date with, before we dipped. i told her we should hang out sometime over the weekend. she's like cooll. just tell me where. so 2 days goes by, she hits me up and goes, "have u figured out where u wanna meet". i'm like nah. i'll let u know once i do.
i didn't let her know that the place i wanted us to meet was going to by my place until the night before.
so, the day we were to meet came, and sure enough, she comes to my house. we fuccked. and after we did all that and was just laying in bed chilling, she made a comment that stuck out to me. she said:
her: you know, u played me really well.
me: what do you mean?
her: on our first date, u made sure it wasn't too long, and wasn't too short. just the right amount of time
me: lol
her: then, when i asked u where u wanted to meet on saturday (today), u didn't tell me it was going to be ur house until the literally the night before i was to come.
me: lol
her: you didn't want to give me enough time to think hard about coming to ur house and potentially saying no.
me: its not a game hun. it just happened that way (i was of course bullsh1ting)
point here is, notice how i limited the conversations i had with her between the first date and the next date where she came to my house. notice what she said. obviously, she's been in similar situations in the past of guys inviting her to their house and obviously, she's said no before. she's privy to the game (as i expected her to be...but she didn't expect me to be since most guys aren't). when she came to my house, i sealed the deal within 2 interactions. when u fucck a chick, she's very unlikely to play these games of cat and mouse cause after yall do the deed, something happens to them mentally/emotionally that u can use to ur advantage.
some chicks want genuine relationships and most are willing to give it up as quickly as u get ur mind right. plan ur dates well (to ur advantage) and u'll succeed more.
on second thought, u might want to employ this strategy next time you're with a chick.
if u guys are on a date and u feel she's digging u. just ask her, what do you have planned for the rest of the night. the answer to that question will let u know if she's down to fucck or at the very least, it'll let u know if she's interested in u or not. A girl who's not all that into u will respond with a variation of "aaahh i've got x y z to do, i goto prepare for this and that," in which case, u end the date asap.
girls who like u will say:
what do u mean? im with u arent i? we planned this date. so what are u saying? in which case, u just be like "i'm thinking we should head back to my place, get away from all this noise". i hardly ever encounter resistance to that suggestion.
the point i'm trying to get at here is, dont dicck around with these chicks. a lot of them go on dates wanting to fucck. so if they meet up with u, and ur dilly dallying trying to be a gadamn gentleman, she'll dry up fast. i'm telling u this because u said u were going on long ass walks and sh1t. u might want to stop that, especially if u haven't fuccked the chick.
another experience i had with a girl that i want u take into consideration is:
i went on a date once with this chick. i met up with her at a bar, we had a something light to eat, and within 30 to 40 minutes, i ended the date and dipped. i did all this because at the time, i was dating a different chick that was acting wayward but i liked her and didn't wanna ditch her yet. so i was just dating other people and trying to keep it under wraps. which meant, whenever i go on date, i cant be out too long cause she'll suspect something.
anyway, the girl i went on a date with, before we dipped. i told her we should hang out sometime over the weekend. she's like cooll. just tell me where. so 2 days goes by, she hits me up and goes, "have u figured out where u wanna meet". i'm like nah. i'll let u know once i do.
i didn't let her know that the place i wanted us to meet was going to by my place until the night before.
so, the day we were to meet came, and sure enough, she comes to my house. we fuccked. and after we did all that and was just laying in bed chilling, she made a comment that stuck out to me. she said:
her: you know, u played me really well.
me: what do you mean?
her: on our first date, u made sure it wasn't too long, and wasn't too short. just the right amount of time
me: lol
her: then, when i asked u where u wanted to meet on saturday (today), u didn't tell me it was going to be ur house until the literally the night before i was to come.
me: lol
her: you didn't want to give me enough time to think hard about coming to ur house and potentially saying no.
me: its not a game hun. it just happened that way (i was of course bullsh1ting)
point here is, notice how i limited the conversations i had with her between the first date and the next date where she came to my house. notice what she said. obviously, she's been in similar situations in the past of guys inviting her to their house and obviously, she's said no before. she's privy to the game (as i expected her to be...but she didn't expect me to be since most guys aren't). when she came to my house, i sealed the deal within 2 interactions. when u fucck a chick, she's very unlikely to play these games of cat and mouse cause after yall do the deed, something happens to them mentally/emotionally that u can use to ur advantage.
some chicks want genuine relationships and most are willing to give it up as quickly as u get ur mind right. plan ur dates well (to ur advantage) and u'll succeed more.
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