@Asantehene
on second thought, u might want to employ this strategy next time you're with a chick.
if u guys are on a date and u feel she's digging u. just ask her, what do you have planned for the rest of the night. the answer to that question will let u know if she's down to fucck or at the very least, it'll let u know if she's interested in u or not. A girl who's not all that into u will respond with a variation of "aaahh i've got x y z to do, i goto prepare for this and that," in which case, u end the date asap.
girls who like u will say:
what do u mean? im with u arent i? we planned this date. so what are u saying? in which case, u just be like "i'm thinking we should head back to my place, get away from all this noise". i hardly ever encounter resistance to that suggestion.
the point i'm trying to get at here is, dont dicck around with these chicks. a lot of them go on dates wanting to fucck. so if they meet up with u, and ur dilly dallying trying to be a gadamn gentleman, she'll dry up fast. i'm telling u this because u said u were going on long ass walks and sh1t. u might want to stop that, especially if u haven't fuccked the chick.
another experience i had with a girl that i want u take into consideration is:
i went on a date once with this chick. i met up with her at a bar, we had a something light to eat, and within 30 to 40 minutes, i ended the date and dipped. i did all this because at the time, i was dating a different chick that was acting wayward but i liked her and didn't wanna ditch her yet. so i was just dating other people and trying to keep it under wraps. which meant, whenever i go on date, i cant be out too long cause she'll suspect something.
anyway, the girl i went on a date with, before we dipped. i told her we should hang out sometime over the weekend. she's like cooll. just tell me where. so 2 days goes by, she hits me up and goes, "have u figured out where u wanna meet". i'm like nah. i'll let u know once i do.
i didn't let her know that the place i wanted us to meet was going to by my place until the night before.
so, the day we were to meet came, and sure enough, she comes to my house. we fuccked. and after we did all that and was just laying in bed chilling, she made a comment that stuck out to me. she said:
her: you know, u played me really well.
me: what do you mean?
her: on our first date, u made sure it wasn't too long, and wasn't too short. just the right amount of time
me: lol
her: then, when i asked u where u wanted to meet on saturday (today), u didn't tell me it was going to be ur house until the literally the night before i was to come.
me: lol
her: you didn't want to give me enough time to think hard about coming to ur house and potentially saying no.
me: its not a game hun. it just happened that way (i was of course bullsh1ting)
point here is, notice how i limited the conversations i had with her between the first date and the next date where she came to my house. notice what she said. obviously, she's been in similar situations in the past of guys inviting her to their house and obviously, she's said no before. she's privy to the game (as i expected her to be...but she didn't expect me to be since most guys aren't). when she came to my house, i sealed the deal within 2 interactions. when u fucck a chick, she's very unlikely to play these games of cat and mouse cause after yall do the deed, something happens to them mentally/emotionally that u can use to ur advantage.
some chicks want genuine relationships and most are willing to give it up as quickly as u get ur mind right. plan ur dates well (to ur advantage) and u'll succeed more.
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why hasnt this nikka hit me up"
