Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Any of you guys who have bad luck with finding a girl to get with ever come across what would be considered a straight up square chick who isnt ugly but doesnt exactly look on point clothes/hair wise etc....
























But you get this sick idea in your head because of her shyness and chance that she is looking for a man that you can try and fukk her for a nut? :ld:

Well i have...girls like these are usually more looking for love right? Do you guys think it is as easy to tell them your just looking for no strings attached/fukk buddies and they wouldn't get offended? i know every chick is capable of something but its hard to imagine finding alot of square chicks who are cool with that arrangement...
 

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Bushes both of them and get new recruits.
I'm trying to make one of them my girl though........the other one was just eh, I'll see how much she's feeling me.

I know a kiss rejection sounds like a straight up friend zone move, but all the other signs I got were good.

I escalated physically with both, so it's not like I awkwardly went in for the kiss at the end either :manny:
Get used for free food, brehs.





Nah I'm playing. Maybe they ain't tryna move too fast
LOL they both contributed to the bill so I'm :yeshrug:


@TRUEST will say, let them initiate contact afterwards. It might be hard...but if I were you'd id delete their numbers right now. Who ever is interested will hit you up...or at the very least will wonder ":jbhmm: why hasnt this nikka hit me up"
I should've gave more context... these aren't some random girls I met off Tinder/OKCupid.

One I knew from HS, and the other was my subordinate for the last 6 months

Looks like they are viewing you as more of a relationship instead of f*ck buddy...they are making you wait for it because guys in the past who they gave it up quicked turned out to be azzholes...they are trying to feel you out...basically wanting you to invest in them
This is what my homies were telling me. Make a lot of sense:ehh: Hope you're right because one of them is wifey material
 

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I'm trying to make one of them my girl though........the other one was just eh, I'll see how much she's feeling me.

I know a kiss rejection sounds like a straight up friend zone move, but all the other signs I got were good.

I escalated physically with both, so it's not like I awkwardly went in for the kiss at the end either :manny:

LOL they both contributed to the bill so I'm :yeshrug:



I should've gave more context... these aren't some random girls I met off Tinder/OKCupid.

One I knew from HS, and the other was my subordinate for the last 6 months


This is what my homies were telling me. Make a lot of sense:ehh: Hope you're right because one of them is wifey material

nah dude. it aint them viewing u as relationship material.
attraction isn't something u can control. in this day and age, for a girl to so much as view a kiss as "going too far" is making a big statement. girls today are succking and swallowing on the first day they meet a guy. and u go on a date with chicks and at the end they turn the cheek? man, u better better grab ur self respect and dip before they have u all twisted up like shoestrings.
 

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nah dude. it aint them viewing u as relationship material.
attraction isn't something u can control. in this day and age, for a girl to so much as view a kiss as "going too far" is making a big statement. girls today are succking and swallowing on the first day they meet a guy. and u go on a date with chicks and at the end they turn the cheek? man, u better better grab ur self respect and dip before they have u all twisted up like shoestrings.

girls are giving up to guys on the first date yes....but how many times does it ruin the potential relationship? girls have told me they try not to do anything on the first date because they want to feel a guy out..and at times when they have had sex quick on the first date, it fizzled out because the guy didnt want to end up trying to learn about them
 

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girls are giving up to guys on the first date yes....but how many times does it ruin the potential relationship? girls have told me they TRY not to do anything on the first date because they want to feel a guy out..and at times when they have had sex quick on the first date, it fizzled out because the guy didnt want to end up trying to learn about them

No. There are no ifs and buts to attraction. when 2 people see each other and they are very attracted to each other, it does not end in a kiss on the cheek. and kissing is not or shall i say its never considered her "giving up the goods". its just kissing. when 2 girls, back to back, are turning the cheeks on u, u MUST go back to the drawing board immediately.

all that "relationship type" crap ur talking about is just to make urself feel better.

and notice i emphasized "TRY" in your post. what do u think that means? it means when these girls come across someone they really like, if he tries at all to get a romantic moment out of them, they will give in. i mean dude, u need to stop believing everything these girls tell u when they're rejecting u.
 
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Tbh, sometimes I get annoyed as fukk reading @TRUEST's posts.

:mjlol: he is that arrogant, annoying, rigid ass uncle who stays making you feel bad :ufdup: with his unsolicited advice :childplease:
But deep down though you know that he is right :stopitslime: and is just trying to look out for his nephew :lupe:

I guess it's the ranty, "it's my way or the highway" tone of his posts that irks me :bryan:

This ain't a diss breh :mjpls: keep on spittin that real :feedme:
 

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No. There are no ifs and buts to attraction. when 2 people see each other and they are very attracted to each other, it does not end in a kiss on the cheek. and kissing is not or shall i say its never considered her "giving up the goods". its just kissing. when 2 girls, back to back, are turning the cheeks on u, u MUST go back to the drawing board immediately.

all that "relationship type" crap ur talking about is just to make urself feel better.

and notice i emphasized "TRY" in your post. what do u think that means? it means when these girls come across someone they really like, if he tries at all to get a romantic moment out of them, they will give in. i mean dude, u need to stop believing everything these girls tell u when they're rejecting u.

i can rock with this.......you would think its just if a chick likes you and theres attraction she would be down....theres girls guys rock with but guys just got the goods so quick...they stopped trying to learn about the chick...
 
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Tbh, sometimes I get annoyed as fukk reading @TRUEST's posts.

:mjlol: he is that arrogant, annoying, rigid ass uncle who stays making you feel bad :ufdup: with his unsolicited advice :childplease:
But deep down though you know that he is right :stopitslime: and is just trying to look out for his nephew :lupe:

I guess it's the ranty, "it's my way or the highway" tone of his posts that irks me :bryan:

This ain't a diss breh :mjpls: keep on spittin that real :feedme:


...Yeah his shyt gets right to the point. I would say any guy that steps in this thread has to have tough skin. As patrice would "you have to get rid of your ego when wanting advice on women and in just your dealings with women get rid of your ego all together when dealing with women. " @TRUEST is just not that philosophical with his answers when it comes to this thread.
 
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i can rock with this.......you would think its just if a chick likes you and theres attraction she would be down....theres girls guys rock with but guys just got the goods so quick...they stopped trying to learn about the chick...



...but if you continue to deal with them they have to SHOW that they are worth more than vigina. I hate the term "wifey material" . You have to tell both these chicks " look I don't just want sex unless that all you got ". It will be a time when this should be said and that time will be up to you. I say this cause you can't let these women TREAT YOU like you just some nikka that want to have sex with them...that friendzone shyt. Now that I'm thinking how arrogant do you have to be to set boundaries in early dealings with a guy? You have to put your happiness above all else....BE philosophical when dealing with women. Don't become a TIME HOE...cause that means you headed towards that friendzone status. You gon be the nikka thats cooking them eggs and some other dude is fukking them in the mouth.
 

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Two dates in a row.

Two nights where I go for a kiss and they turn and offer me their cheek.

But then they text me immediately after the date saying they had a great time.

These mixed emotions are confusing me brehs.
I lose interest immediately when that happens and delete them.
 

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Looks like they are viewing you as more of a relationship instead of f*ck buddy...they are making you wait for it because guys in the past who they gave it up quicked turned out to be azzholes...they are trying to feel you out...basically wanting you to invest in them

Women in 2016 are throwing puzzy like hotcakes. This is the age of Tinder, Soulswipe, Bumble,etc... Women know a quality man has plenty of options and he isnt going to wait around for one chick. Women that dig you will want to kiss you fast because they know if they dont they will get their number blocked and may get replaced by the next tinder swipe.

BUSHES!
 

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Two dates in a row.

Two nights where I go for a kiss and they turn and offer me their cheek.

But then they text me immediately after the date saying they had a great time.

These mixed emotions are confusing me brehs.

Women sense the thirst or they sense the nervousness...
 

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It's a crazy feeling when you meet the girl of your dreams and you Cant have her :francis:

I'm miserable as fukk :dead:

I legit want something real with her not even on some sex shyt. I want to be with her forever and just treat her good.:mjcry:

I wish there was something I could say or do to make her change her mind. :to:
I just want to show her that I could be good for her and that I can do a lot for her to make her happy. :wow:

no matter how much u want her, know there are several of her out there in ur city, county, state. dont stress it. and stop this hollywood rosy sh1t now. ur setting urself up for a heartbreak if/when u do come across the chick who u really like and who likes u back.
 
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