Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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And on another note, I know some of ya'll are anti-social media.

But I just made a facebook and an IG a few months ago and literally got two lay-ups just off the strength of it. Girls DM'ing me first. And I'm not the best looking dude, but I do have pics with me out with friends and what not for some social proof

The right social media accounts are worth their weight in gold, that's for damn sure.
 

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One of them has been texting me and hit me up today asking when we're going to hang again... the other hasn't responded to my text from yesterday.

Believe me brehs, I can take an L....... I'm not saying shyt to stroke my ego, these dates went really well. Well, at least one of them did since the other one seems to be curvin me. The one I was really feelin' :sadcam:


I feel you on the aggressiveness. I don't ever go in for a kiss unless I've established contact earlier in the date... I held both of these girls hands, put my arm around their shoulders, etc. earlier in the date, but they wasn't having the kiss.


Where you meet a chick definitely comes into play breh..... I'm not treatin a tinder date the same as some girl I view as relationship material.

One of the two girls hit me up today saying, "So when are we gonna hang out again ;)"

Don't sound like the friend zone to me breh.

breh... i dont understand u

you got 99% of nyggas in this thread saying those hoes aint fukking w/ u, and u still trying to convince yourself of some other shyt

THEY REJECTED A KISS FROM U

stop it

Where you meet a chick definitely comes into play breh..... I'm not treatin a tinder date the same as some girl I view as relationship material.

this shyt right here is why you will keep taking Ls

you puttin hoes on a pedastal already, before yall even met. yall aint even fukk, or nthing
And on another note, I know some of ya'll are anti-social media.

But I just made a facebook and an IG a few months ago and literally got two lay-ups just off the strength of it. Girls DM'ing me first. And I'm not the best looking dude, but I do have pics with me out with friends and what not for some social proof

i learned this awhile back too, i aint neever had a social media thru college/hs, just made one a couple months ago like u did . i be postin fitness shyt, easy convo starter
 

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One of them has been texting me and hit me up today asking when we're going to hang again... the other hasn't responded to my text from yesterday.

Believe me brehs, I can take an L....... I'm not saying shyt to stroke my ego, these dates went really well. Well, at least one of them did since the other one seems to be curvin me. The one I was really feelin' :sadcam:


I feel you on the aggressiveness. I don't ever go in for a kiss unless I've established contact earlier in the date... I held both of these girls hands, put my arm around their shoulders, etc. earlier in the date, but they wasn't having the kiss.


Where you meet a chick definitely comes into play breh..... I'm not treatin a tinder date the same as some girl I view as relationship material.

One of the two girls hit me up today saying, "So when are we gonna hang out again ;)"

Don't sound like the friend zone to me breh.

might have been a lil too much:patrice:
 

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You know what works....
Giving women amazing sex and then falling back...they will do anything to get back in your good graces....the more of your time you give them the less rare and valuable you become...
*message*
 

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Has anyone given up the dating game? I haven't been on a date in about 2 years or longer (I forgot) but even so i feel like i haven't been missing out. I haven't met anyone in my life who i can even see being GF or wife material imo and i'm almost 27. I know most cats are like "You need women in life to help you blah blah blah" but i could careless. Taking women out on dates, trying to figure out if she's attracted to you, buying them shyt, meeting her friends/fam is boring to me tbh :manny: Maybe i'm one of the few who enjoys doing things by myself all the time, idk. I find bars, clubs, parties are boring as well and it's not like i'm depressed, they just don't do anything for me and are time wasting activities
 

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Has anyone given up the dating game? I haven't been on a date in about 2 years or longer (I forgot) but even so i feel like i haven't been missing out. I haven't met anyone in my life who i can even see being GF or wife material imo and i'm almost 27. I know most cats are like "You need women in life to help you blah blah blah" but i could careless. Taking women out on dates, trying to figure out if she's attracted to you, buying them shyt, meeting her friends/fam is boring to me tbh :manny: Maybe i'm one of the few who enjoys doing things by myself all the time, idk. I find bars, clubs, parties are boring as well and it's not like i'm depressed, they just don't do anything for me and are time wasting activities
i stepped away for a good 5 years. i dont want to give up on the dating game in general. but i just dont understand it at times. so what i do for the moment is improve myself and learn. :yeshrug:
 
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Has anyone given up the dating game? I haven't been on a date in about 2 years or longer (I forgot) but even so i feel like i haven't been missing out. I haven't met anyone in my life who i can even see being GF or wife material imo and i'm almost 27. I know most cats are like "You need women in life to help you blah blah blah" but i could careless. Taking women out on dates, trying to figure out if she's attracted to you, buying them shyt, meeting her friends/fam is boring to me tbh :manny: Maybe i'm one of the few who enjoys doing things by myself all the time, idk. I find bars, clubs, parties are boring as well and it's not like i'm depressed, they just don't do anything for me and are time wasting activities



I know what's going on out here and you just a generation removed from me i'm 32 and at times fill the same way...but I'm come back to your post with more thought out thoughts.
 

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Ok so I'm not a lesbian :whoa:

But there's this girl I want to be friends with.
I like her style, I never met somebody with such similar interests, her style of dress.

How do I go about this? I talked to her earlier today and made an up in the air appointment for her to do my hair.


Cuz I stalked her and found out she did hair.
:flabbynsick:


All my friends have pretty much came to me.
:jbhmm:

But this girl, I see her all the time. I need to make my (heterosexual :beli:) move soon before these basic bytches scoop her up.

Chick getting brehs...

Help a chick out. :skip:
 

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Ok so I'm not a lesbian :whoa:

But there's this girl I want to be friends with.
I like her style, I never met somebody with such similar interests, her style of dress.

How do I go about this? I talked to her earlier today and made an up in the air appointment for her to do my hair.


Cuz I stalked her and found out she did hair.
:flabbynsick:


All my friends have pretty much came to me.
:jbhmm:

But this girl, I see her all the time. I need to make my (heterosexual :beli:) move soon before these basic bytches scoop her up.

Chick getting brehs...

Help a chick out. :skip:


:laugh:
when she comes to do ur hair, just lunge for her titties and go to town. chicks dig that.
 
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Ok so I'm not a lesbian :whoa:

But there's this girl I want to be friends with.
I like her style, I never met somebody with such similar interests, her style of dress.

How do I go about this? I talked to her earlier today and made an up in the air appointment for her to do my hair.


Cuz I stalked her and found out she did hair.
:flabbynsick:


All my friends have pretty much came to me.
:jbhmm:

But this girl, I see her all the time. I need to make my (heterosexual :beli:) move soon before these basic bytches scoop her up.

Chick getting brehs...

Help a chick out. :skip:

Be natural and organic about it. When she is doing hair have here open up about what does she do outside of doing hair etc. Use your personality to get her to open about yourself . Why you want to be friends with this girl so bad...?
 
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