Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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99 percent when a woman says this its already over

Always say the best thing you can do when. Woman says this is just consider it over and just give her "space". If she comes back the ball is in your court if she doesn't you've already started living your life without her.


Yeah see I responded with " tell you what how about you think on it for the next 25 years and I'll see you around."

But they say I'm harsh :yeshrug:
 

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Me and my now ex girl got into it after she put me on the spot with a question right as i was about to go to sleep. She's been on my ass about a few things. She asked me "do you even care about this relationship? "

Had me like :dwillhuh:" Yeah of course i care i've been giving in to some of your demands what else do you want?" ( i probably shouldn't have worded it that way :lolbron:)

Her: Demands!! :damn:i'm just trying to keep us together despite your bullshyt.

Me: The only one on some bullshyt right now is you :martin:.

So begins a heated argument at around 12 am or so mostly about some old shyt and blaming me all the time for everything. She said we are done and left the next morning and we didn't say another word to each other, haven't heard from her since either. Did i fukk up or was she just looking for a way out?.
 

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pretty much and thats why all the meticulousness and analysis is unnecessary when a girl is a) feeling you and b) has the same goal or desire whether its just fukkin, dating, being in a relationship or whatever. the games are only necessary when whomever youre dealing with wouldnt be interested in the real you and that shyt aint sustainable anyways.

Yep, this is what it is. Sooner than later, you get tired with the whole role playing thing because you can only pretend to be someone other than yourself for so long and you end up confused because the source of your actions becomes trying to read someone else's mind and become the person that does everything they like. What I've found is there is no woman worth rearranging your core essence for in order to do everything they like.

It's much better to be yourself, call when you feel, etc. and if she doesn't like it, move on to a woman who is more in sync with your true nature.
 

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Me and my now ex girl got into it after she put me on the spot with a question right as i was about to go to sleep. She's been on my ass about a few things. She asked me "do you even care about this relationship? "

Had me like :dwillhuh:" Yeah of course i care i've been giving in to some of your demands what else do you want?" ( i probably shouldn't have worded it that way :lolbron:)

Her: Demands!! :damn:i'm just trying to keep us together despite your bullshyt.

Me: The only one on some bullshyt right now is you :martin:.

So begins a heated argument at around 12 am or so mostly about some old shyt and blaming me all the time for everything. She said we are done and left the next morning and we didn't say another word to each other, haven't heard from her since either. Did i fukk up or was she just looking for a way out?.

If she popped up with that argument out the blue, she might have found someone else and is looking for a reason to break up so she can explore her options. If she comes back in a week or so like nothing happened, the other guy probably didn't pan out. This isn't always the case, but a lot of times it is.

If a woman wants out, open up the door and let her go. You'll only make yourself look weak by trying to handcuff her.
 

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Man this is why it's important to always stay fly. Something I've learned is the majority of women are always scanning their options for the 'next best thing' or the 'thing they can't have' and it has been that way since Adam and Eve in the garden of Eden. What I'm saying is that you realistically never know when a woman is going to come and go, so if one leaves out the door, if you kept it real crispy, there's another one to step right on in. NEVER use catching a particular woman as a reason to stay sharp, because once you catch her, you'll fall off because 'you got the prize.' Just make staying sharp something that you love to do just for it's own sake. Always keep yourself up and realize that a lot of these women are blockbusters... aka they ain't there to stay permanently, so don't cry when you got to return them to the dating pool.
 
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When you have given a broad some dikk and they don't want to fukk with you (at the moment), just let 'em be. They'll ALWAYS come back. ALWAYS. That DNA stays in 'em for a long minute. :pachaha:

If you haven't given 'em sex, you're worst off.

Put that DNA in 'em. Leave 'em alone until THEY decide to come back in your life.
 

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i finally moved to the city and man there are just too many beautiful women in this world :francis:. No use getting hung up on one. I've gotten to the point where I will see a chick, know that I could and might succeed in talking to her but restrain myself because at what point does one stop. Before I know it i'd have like 10 chicks hitting me up with time and 5 that I like equally...but time for no more than one or two.

When you have given a broad some dikk and they don't want to fukk with you (at the moment), just let 'em be. They'll ALWAYS come back. ALWAYS. That DNA stays in 'em for a long minute. :pachaha:

If you haven't given 'em sex, you're worst off.

Put that DNA in 'em. Leave 'em alone until THEY decide to come back in your life.
this is real game right here. Until you fukk be on your Ps and Qs...but as soon as you have...unless she's a hoe that fukks any and everyone that girl is yours. She'll let you get away with murder.
 
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this is real game right here. Until you fukk be on your Ps and Qs...but as soon as you have...unless she's a hoe that fukks any and everyone that girl is yours. She'll let you get away with murder.

Ps and Qs?

Also congrats on finally moving out on your own :salute:

Agreed there's some hot ass chicks in the city. Sometimes I feel like being a heterosexual guy must simultaneously be the greatest gift :noah: and curse :sadbron:
 
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