Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[TheArchitect]

She may have been in limbo with another dude and wanted to set something up to make herself feel better or distract her til her situation improved. Every chick is guilty until proven innocent in my book, guilty of changing/leaving/switching up at a moments notice

so I pretty much could of simply been used....

i wanna delete this bytch off fb so bad....shyt is discouraging as hell....like wtf.....

 

[TRUEST]

so I pretty much could of simply been used....

i wanna delete this bytch off fb so bad....shyt is discouraging as hell....like wtf.....

nah u weren't used. u met her at a time she was in limbo with some other dude, and ur ass was trying to be casanova on some "im not gonna try and rush this" type sh1t and play this slow.

the way i see it is, every chick who looks good got a ton of men on her radar. when u drag ur feet and refuse to go straight for what u want, sh1t like this happens. when she dropped u off at the airport, ur last thing u said to her should have been "hey listen, when i get back, lets grab a drink or a bite to eat". and when u do get back, u should have been on some "hey i'm back, u free at 8?"

there's so much knowledge in this thread but u dudes need to stop d1cking around with all of that movies sh1t.

 

[kevm3]

so I pretty much could of simply been used....

i wanna delete this bytch off fb so bad....shyt is discouraging as hell....like wtf.....

What you're going through isn't something that's unique to you. That sort of behavior is something that's happened to most of us in this group. That's why I say that you shouldn't allow a modern woman's actions to be a metric of your self-worth or even happiness. A lot of these women are simply rude and self-serving and it's mind-blowing the extent that they can be so.

You will come to realize that most women are always juggling and exploring options, even when they are 'with you' and many of them will not 'live up to her word'. This is why you have to prepare for any woman to walk at any time and never get emotionally hooked into them to the extent that you can't function.

 

[Youseenmywork]

....So I made a post a couple of posts back about this chick who I somewhat was interested in, but was confused by the circumstances of how we got back into contact....

Welp, needless to say she ignored me when I hit her up to see if she was still down to get me from the airport....and I winded up having to wait like an hour and a half for my cousin to get off.

I would of liked to think she was interested, but obviously that's not the case. I started to second guess myself asking "maybe it was something I said/did, or texted..." But then I was like "Nah, I couldn't of did anything that dumb'...Point is, apparently I wasn't worth even replying to with a "no"...just radio silence...So needless to say, her number/convo has been deleted.

This kind of shyt has been happening to me my entire life. I'm not even exaggerating, EVERY SINGLE TIME. I've never been with anyone I was legitimately attracted, only hurt/played. You would think a nikka would quit being frustrated after a while...Everybody else is mingling with females/dating, while i sit there wondering what it's like. shyt, I've never even had a REAL gf....I've been in a relationship but all it ever brought me was grief and frustration.

I honestly don't know what to do right now except focus on everything else and act as if females don't even exist (like that's gonna work out well for me, ha...) This is gonna sound ridiculous, but it's gotten to the point that it's starting to hurt physically. It's like the stress and mental pain are eating away at me,and it surges through my body.

I wish i could just turn my libido off. I'm a Scorpio, I'm not build for this kind of shyt.....

And you had guys in the thread talking passive aggressive when I told you not to get hype or believe the hype when you first informed us of this situation. This why I take women and their "intrest" with a grain of salt. That was what my "GUT" reaction when I read your first post on this situation. That's why I wanted you to take a wait and see approach cause I didn't want you to be back in this thread talking bad I confident I knew then what I was talking about.

 

[Youseenmywork]

nah u weren't used. u met her at a time she was in limbo with some other dude, and ur ass was trying to be casanova on some "im not gonna try and rush this" type sh1t and play this slow.

the way i see it is, every chick who looks good got a ton of men on her radar. when u drag ur feet and refuse to go straight for what u want, sh1t like this happens. when she dropped u off at the airport, ur last thing u said to her should have been "hey listen, when i get back, lets grab a drink or a bite to eat". and when u do get back, u should have been on some "hey i'm back, u free at 8?"

there's so much knowledge in this thread but u dudes need to stop d1cking around with all of that movies sh1t.

Somebody get this man a beer

 

[TRUEST]

-However, you must understand that every man has three banks that he must protect at all cost: The Time Bank, The Money Bank, and The Energy/Desire Bank. In order to be truly successful and achieve greatness at whatever you strive to accomplish you will more than likely need to devote a significant amount of your time, money, and energy. The problem is that by being involved in a serious relationship or marriage you have (whether intentionally or not) communicated to your woman that she is numero uno in the hierarchy of important things in your life (otherwise you would have never committed to her exclusively right?).

This is where conflict arises. So you want to create the next social media site to knock Facebook on its ass? Good luck telling your girlfriend/wife you can’t take her to the movies because you have various manuals to read on source coding.

Which brings me to the Energy/Desire Bank; do you honestly think that after getting off from your 9-5 and jumping head first into building your side business or pursuing your hobbies that you will have the energy or desire to put up with what will be the constant nagging of your woman? You’re relationship will resemble the movie Groundhog Day with repeated naggings of “We barely spend time together anymore” and “You haven’t taken me anywhere nice since you’ve been spending all your money on that stupid project” and my favorite “It’s like your mind is always somewhere else when we hangout, you’re not the same guy I fell in love with”. And guess what gentleman; she’s right. Women aren’t designed or conditioned to play second fiddle to anything let alone the business idea that you’ve been spending so much of your time, money, and energy on to get off the ground. Women just don’t understand sacrifice and will rarely if ever see the big picture.

Understand we are not talking about Lebron’s high school sweetheart that stuck it out with him until his NBA dreams came to fruition. We are talking about regular ole you with ambitions to be the first multi-millionaire in your family. Girlfriends/wives have a hard time picturing “regular ole you” achieving the types of things that only a small percentage of people ever will. Does this mean she doesn’t love you? Of course not. Does this mean she doesn’t believe you have the drive or intelligence to pull it off? Sometimes. But more than anything your girlfriend or wife has been programmed from birth to believe she’s the most important thing on earth and that any man who would put her at number two for “some silly business idea” doesn’t deserve her.


3 Parts Of The Matrix You Must Unplug From

^^^Expert from this article

See yall come October. Just wanted to leave you with something to chew on .

i meant to respond this a while back. but anyway, this information is golden. we talk about women quite a lot but, getting ur finances in order is the most inportant thing that we all need to focus on. nothing better than being able to do whatever u want, take vacations whenever u want (cause u work for urself). women see u being this free, they cant help but to gravitate towards to u. but beware of those gold diggers.

 

[RealAssanova]

i think the main reason why a lot of us men get frustrated with women is because we have expectations and unconsciously invest feelings into them even though we know we shouldn't. Until you've entered a woman (emotionally and physically), treat them as strangers. When we approach a random stranger on the street and ask em for directions, we don't get nervous, invest feelings or expect anything...so why should it be any different when it comes to a broad?

it shouldn't. Yes they may look attractive, have big titties/ass, but at the end of the day, they just a stranger. They don't owe you anything and we don't either. Our brains/dikk is so conditioned to feelin/acting some typa way when it comes to women that we end up gettin hurt and or pissed.

We need to fix that. I need to fix that.

 

[TheArchitect]

nah u weren't used. u met her at a time she was in limbo with some other dude, and ur ass was trying to be casanova on some "im not gonna try and rush this" type sh1t and play this slow.

the way i see it is, every chick who looks good got a ton of men on her radar. when u drag ur feet and refuse to go straight for what u want, sh1t like this happens. when she dropped u off at the airport, ur last thing u said to her should have been "hey listen, when i get back, lets grab a drink or a bite to eat". and when u do get back, u should have been on some "hey i'm back, u free at 8?"

there's so much knowledge in this thread but u dudes need to stop d1cking around with all of that movies sh1t.

You're right. I just felt like I'd creep her out if I was trying to set shyt up when we've only chilled once....but then again she did all of that...


i swear I'm my worst fukking enemy....

What you're going through isn't something that's unique to you. That sort of behavior is something that's happened to most of us in this group. That's why I say that you shouldn't allow a modern woman's actions to be a metric of your self-worth or even happiness. A lot of these women are simply rude and self-serving and it's mind-blowing the extent that they can be so.

You will come to realize that most women are always juggling and exploring options, even when they are 'with you' and many of them will not 'live up to her word'. This is why you have to prepare for any woman to walk at any time and never get emotionally hooked into them to the extent that you can't function.

I know, but it always feels like it only happens to me. Everyone else around me gets some kind of play, and its like I'm the only one that gets bullshytted. They leave you no choice but to treat em the way you gotta..you can slay dragons for these bytches and they still won't be grateful. I just am not trying to meet an early death or wither away due to the stress...Sadly, I'm not even trying to be on no pimp mack shyt...i could date one woman at a time and be totally content. However, I ain't that naive...

And you had guys in the thread talking passive aggressive when I told you not to get hype or believe the hype when you first informed us of this situation. This why I take women and their "intrest" with a grain of salt. That was what my "GUT" reaction when I read your first post on this situation. That's why I wanted you to take a wait and see approach cause I didn't want you to be back in this thread talking bad I confident I knew then what I was talking about.

Yeah...guess aint much I can do now but hope the universe smiles on me next time around. Something still needs to give though....at the rate I'm going ill be a complete basket case soon if something doesn't happen for a nikka soon...

 

[Soundbwoy]

You're right. I just felt like I'd creep her out if I was trying to set shyt up when we've only chilled once....but then again she did all of that...


i swear I'm my worst fukking enemy....

I know, but it always feels like it only happens to me. Everyone else around me gets some kind of play, and its like I'm the only one that gets bullshytted. They leave you no choice but to treat em the way you gotta..you can slay dragons for these bytches and they still won't be grateful. I just am not trying to meet an early death or wither away due to the stress...Sadly, I'm not even trying to be on no pimp mack shyt...i could date one woman at a time and be totally content. However, I ain't that naive...

Yeah...guess aint much I can do now but hope the universe smiles on me next time around. Something still needs to give though....at the rate I'm going ill be a complete basket case soon if something doesn't happen for a nikka soon...

do you have hobbies? if not try to hit a group class on groupon I guarantee you will meet chicks and take it from there because if you always date from the same pool of chicks you will keep getting the same results also look into traveling

 

[Nighthawk]

bytches aint shyt. Find you a real WOMAN. These ho's be thinking they nikkas nowadays

 

[RichieRich]

do you have hobbies? if not try to hit a group class on groupon I guarantee you will meet chicks and take it from there because if you always date from the same pool of chicks you will keep getting the same results also look into traveling

@TheArchitect
Paint Nite breh, paint and drink with a bunch of tipsy women

 

[root_eruditorium_org]

You're right. I just felt like I'd creep her out if I was trying to set shyt up when we've only chilled once....but then again she did all of that...

Stop overthinking so much. Like somebody said girls get so much attention it would not have been unusual in the slightest for you to make a pass at her after her doing all that for you. Learn to be more decisive - I struggle with this too but I'll admit guys who are not aggressive with broads just get scraps.

 

[Youseenmywork]

bytches aint shyt. Find you a real WOMAN. These ho's be thinking they nikkas nowadays

Women thinking and trying to act like a man , along with feeling like they equal is the big problem. The biggest problem is its not enough men taking the red pill. If ALL men got back on track women would have to get in line.

 

[Ohene]

Women thinking and trying to act like a man , along with feeling like they equal is the big problem. The biggest problem is its not enough men taking the red pill. If ALL men got back on track women would have to get in line.

agree with the bold

 

[TheArchitect]

do you have hobbies? if not try to hit a group class on groupon I guarantee you will meet chicks and take it from there because if you always date from the same pool of chicks you will keep getting the same results also look into traveling

I have a couple....I actually plan to get back into one of them next week (which has an influx of decent looking women). It'd probably be the best place for me to to meet them as well (chill vibe, familiar with a lot of the people that go there/run the place, doing things I like to do, etc.)

Stop overthinking so much. Like somebody said girls get so much attention it would not have been unusual in the slightest for you to make a pass at her after her doing all that for you. Learn to be more decisive - I struggle with this too but I'll admit guys who are not aggressive with broads just get scraps.

EXACTLY! That's why I used the "" smiley....I literally realized my mistake as I was typing that shyt....Admittedly I do need to stop hesitating on shots.....