brehs i called up this girl i was talking about a few post ago and some dude picked up the phone
shyt is getting spooky brehs it was probably her boyfriend, i just said wrong number
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this journey ive been on. just over women... sheeesh. looking back i took so many beatings. but it helped me.
i would cling on like a leech to women. it reeked of desperation. i hate all of that shyt i did back in the day. bad feelings about doing
certain shyt was in the back of my head. i used to see the ship sinking in my mind and did nothing previously to prevent the inevitable.i cant go back and fix the shyt i did. i can at least prevent repetition. Back then i was hardheaded. these days. i have some sort of hope.
This describes me, I've been in some bad relationships I saw early on what the issues were but I was so stubborn I thougt I could fix them. My next one I'm not giving the benefit of the doubt
Youseenmywork
KING
I had a convo with @TRUEST @360dagod and I wanna @C.Holla about a chick who had a man that I was trying to get with. This convo take place months ago (?). Since then I had left that situation alone.
Fast forward up until this point. We are "friends" on snapchat cause she added me or whatever. Mann she has sent me a couple of direct snaps and photos(not nudes or anything just nice photos of her partying on the weekend)
We also have just small talk convos as well usually about nothing and they usually ended with her saying I'm mean cause I got a crude since of humor . She also came into my side job with her mother the other day to help her look for some shoes. I was just giving her a hard like I always do. That next morning I received a nice photo on snapchat from her. She at times just randomly snapchat me.
This just goes to show a lot of you in this thread ...that I left my mark I can't remember all the things I said to her but I have a feeling I left my mark. Her snapchat to me are just her teasing at best. No reason to get hype .
Fast forward up until this point. We are "friends" on snapchat cause she added me or whatever. Mann she has sent me a couple of direct snaps and photos(not nudes or anything just nice photos of her partying on the weekend)
We also have just small talk convos as well usually about nothing and they usually ended with her saying I'm mean cause I got a crude since of humor . She also came into my side job with her mother the other day to help her look for some shoes. I was just giving her a hard like I always do. That next morning I received a nice photo on snapchat from her. She at times just randomly snapchat me.
This just goes to show a lot of you in this thread ...that I left my mark I can't remember all the things I said to her but I have a feeling I left my mark. Her snapchat to me are just her teasing at best. No reason to get hype .
dude come on. when a chick is doing sh1t like that to you, u have two choices:
1. enjoy the ego boost u get that a girl u want is taking the time to snapchat u
2. or you can be a man and do something about it.
the next snap or message u get, i dont see why u cant go straight for that ass on some:
you: you miss me dont u?
her: lol maybe a lil
you: why dont u bring ur cute lil ass over here and lets make dinner together
her: *** anything she says that isn't on some "when", "what time" *** you MUST ignore
what ur doing right now is being a friend. and i mean, that is no way to be a man. men are hunters. be friends only with chicks ur not attracted to.
Youseenmywork
KING
dude come on. when a chick is doing sh1t like that to you, u have two choices:
1. enjoy the ego boost u get that a girl u want is taking the time to snapchat u
2. or you can be a man and do something about it.
the next snap or message u get, i dont see why u cant go straight for that ass on some
you: you miss me dont u?
her: lol maybe a lil
you: why dont u bring ur cute lil ass over here and lets make dinner together
her: *** anything she says that isn't on some "when", "what time" *** you MUST ignore
what ur doing right now is being a friend. and i mean, that is no way to be a man. men are hunters. be friends only with chicks ur not attracted to.
Fellas this why I like this thread...it's because cause of all the different HUNTERS. @TRUEST just has a diffrent angle than I . I'm just not looking that deeply in this situation nor is it an ego boost folk. I'm 32 I don't care for all that ego shyt like a lot of young dudes or just men general.
I can back that up by saying I was homeless once before so it really tough to bruise my ego.
Back to the girl I'm just so nonchalant plus she got a man is probably why I'm just like whatever. This nikka @TRUEST came with something to say or how I should go about it
.This why I fukk with ceartin guys tought thoe. I will do what you say cause I'm bold and fearless when it comes to these chics out here ...I'll report back thoe.
so yall brehs remember ol girl i was talking to at work that left me for the baby daddy and got married a few weeks ago?
she hit me up a few hours ago saying she wanted to have sex.
we in the bed now at the hotel
lose your life breh
The main met my mother 
I've dropped two off my roster with one more I'm going to drop soon.
I've dropped two off my roster with one more I'm going to drop soon.
I ended up desperate trying to make these relationships work it was hard to figure out what I did wrong but in the end I just left it alone. I never asked my exes that shyt. I just act like they're ghosts for the most part
Same here there were a couple of relationships in my early to mid 20s where I would get so pissed that I couldn't fix the problems I couldnt handle the failure. The last 12-18 months has been very humbling and I've gone through the most growth during this time because of career disappointment and family tragedy
Mainevent_7
Pro
I was in the same spot back in March. I finally let that relationship die. Life since then has been amazing and I still see room for growth and improvement.
Fellas this why I like this thread...it's because cause of all the different HUNTERS. @TRUEST just has a diffrent angle than I . I'm just not looking that deeply in this situation nor is it an ego boost folk. I'm 32 I don't care for all that ego shyt like a lot of young dudes or just men general.
I can back that up by saying I was homeless once before so it really tough to bruise my ego.
Back to the girl I'm just so nonchalant plus she got a man is probably why I'm just like whatever. This nikka @TRUEST came with something to say or how I should go about it
This why I fukk with ceartin guys tought thoe. I will do what you say cause I'm bold and fearless when it comes to these chics out here ...I'll report back thoe.
keep in mind, u got nothing to lose. and any chick that's unscrupulous enough to have a man and be snapchatting other men at the same time are women u ought to know are meant ONLY for fun. NEVER EVER take em serious.
i say this because, we're all men and even though u say u dont care, if she's hot enough and she decides to focus her attention on u, u'll be on some "oooo i dont know what to do" type sh1t. and u'll find urself doubting ur principles on some "maybe she's changed" type sh1t. then u'll find out, to your dismay and financial ruin, that u've been had.
the power u have when a woman knows u can legit do without her is mind blowing. when they're not willing to do what u want, the greatest weapon u have is silence. dont argue or anything.
you: come over
her: im not in the mood
you: *say nothing*...*keep saying nothing until she agrees*
Youseenmywork
KING
Was this question for everybody or meant for a ceartin poster ?
InDePickWest
Im Not American
Was right by ol girl just a second ago and didn't say nothing. Mostly cuz I'm musty as fukk right now and I didn't shower last night due to not going home. I'm GONNA say something to this girl.