Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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I haven't smelled a musty woman in a long time
FLYINHAWAIIAN
Vegan For a Reason
I'm just feeling jaded when it comes to starting things off with women at times.
Like, you hit me up(She wanted to talk to me) and after some small talk and a few texts, you just left shyt to die. How you was with me Friday, ask me before you got out the car"When we gonna see again?" which from prior experiences meant the chick wants to see you again and then basically go quiet?
I tell her to lemme know her schedule since she's working. Saturday I don't hit her up cuz she working. Sunday I hit her up, she don't respond which is odd because she responded immediately before the other days.
I figure it's her phone but that's highly unlikely. I check her FB today and she's active on there posting and shyt. Already made me throw out a red flag. I'm not hitting her up again. When a chick blatantly ignores a message or doesn't call I just leave them alone as I think I get the message.
shyt like that wastes my time and I don't like it .
Youseenmywork
KING
Alright well this is tought cause I'm taking a time out until late September just to work on a 5yr plan. I can say this an area of life that to me at this stage is just like any other skills like cooking or any other manly skills. My goals is for my mouth piece to get better MAYBE have a wife and kid. Honestly breh I never seen myself having kids and the the way the world is going I might not end of with a wife but at 32 it's something that I have accepted it.
My tolerance level for BS is thin. I do wanna say I love women and hate them at the same time. So when it's all said and done I can say I didn't fail at I beleive one of men's intrinsic purposes in life which is getting and truly understanding women. My happiness has to come FIRST or it want be a relationship.
i just want to get my talking skills and my physical appearance in order. i dont want to date. id rather be able to be less hesitant so i could get better. im 21. I want to see the world explore my possibilities in women and unlock my potential before i even think of a relationship. the women i dated in the past, were a waste of my time. especially the last one. i could do way better than them. I deserve better than the shyt i put myself through. all this time i sold myself. fukk that. im taking over the show.
i just want to get my talking skills and my physical appearance in order. i dont want to date. id rather be able to be less hesitant so i could get better. im 21. I want to see the world explore my possibilities in women and unlock my potential before i even think of a relationship. the women i dated in the past, were a waste of my time. especially the last one. i could do way better than them. I deserve better than the shyt i put myself through. all this time i sold myself. fukk that. im taking over the show.
i wont tolerate games and bullshyt. i dont feel like wasting my time on women that do that.
Youseenmywork
KING
i agree with that. ive been so naive with women in my past. the thing is ive talked about having a piece missing from the puzzle, but i never let that shyt hinder me. ive gotten laid twice in my life. that aint bad. but i feel i could get back to that former success., and now is the time to improve my foundation. cause im funny, and im likeable. at least i feel like that. shyt. i know i carry value. im not gonna say i know im worthy, cause im short selling myself short as if im pleading for acceptance.
I'm just feeling jaded when it comes to starting things off with women at times.
Like, you hit me up(She wanted to talk to me) and after some small talk and a few texts, you just left shyt to die. How you was with me Friday, ask me before you got out the car"When we gonna see again?" which from prior experiences meant the chick wants to see you again and then basically go quiet?
I tell her to lemme know her schedule since she's working. Saturday I don't hit her up cuz she working. Sunday I hit her up, she don't respond which is odd because she responded immediately before the other days.
I figure it's her phone but that's highly unlikely. I check her FB today and she's active on there posting and shyt. Already made me throw out a red flag. I'm not hitting her up again. When a chick blatantly ignores a message or doesn't call I just leave them alone as I think I get the message.
shyt like that wastes my time and I don't like it .
jeez. i see from the posts on here the problem a lot of u guys have. u d1ck around too much.
i know my schedule pretty well. when a girl ask you when we gon see each other again, the dumbest response you can give is "let me know ur schedule". i mean wtf is that?? yall n1ggas need to stop playing cassanova and be a gadamn hunter.
her: when are we gon see each other again
you: u take a few seconds to think, then u say "how about we meet wednesday at 730pm?
see what just happened there?? u just set a specific DATE and TIME. now, she has that ON HER MIND!!!!!!
you saying "let me know your schedule" leaves things TOO GADAMN OPEN ENDED!!!!!
i mean, no amount of game can save a man if he doesn't have a lick of aggressiveness in him.
Rocket Scientist
Superstar
My bad for late response I remember your situation.Yes you definetely left your mark.Justchave to watch her,more then likely she might have someone else so be prepared for any flakiness
Youseenmywork
KING
Yeah she has a man ...so I'm not paying too much attention to her. I just think it's funny that she hits me up threw snapchat.
I texted her today and she said "U never text me back". that was 2 hours ago. When i texted her "so I guess you don't like texting people back huh?" she replied immediately.
I told her "I texted you a few days ago and you ain't Say nothing."
Also the day I dropped her off I told her to hit me up because she said she was working Saturday. This was on Friday. Sunday afternoon i texted her what's good and got no response and then today I texted her the above.