Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[root_eruditorium_org]

I already know that men are hunters. The real question is whether the prey is worth catching, and with the lower standard many women are setting in this day and age, my answer is, in most instances, no. What in the world do I look like spending all of this time trying to keep some woman entertained who has been around the block and back, took countless sausage, can't cook, can't clean, refuses to obey her man, etc. etc. She's lucky that I'm even talking to her, much less making any effort to pursue her.

All throughout this thread, men have been advised to step their game up, improve themselves, be more of a leader, get a better body in the gym, be a better conversationalist, etc. Men tell other men to better themselves and offer a better product to women. On the other hand, I rarely, if ever see women telling other women to offer a better product for men. in fact, they constantly make excuses for other women to offer men as little quality in womanhood as possible. They justify other women whoring, lying, not cooking, not cleaning, not obeying their man, etc. etc. Now why world I work harder to reward a woman who is actively working in the accomplice of other women to offer us less?

We're in the time of strong 'feminism', and we're in a generation who is strongly indulging in the 'sexual revolution.' By the time you get to that woman you are going so gaga over, you're probably the 40th guy in line for your turn. Have fun trying to wife that up. Here's the thing about hoes. Hoes 'ho up'. It's in their nature to be transient. You can spend all this time and effort keeping them entertained, but no matter what you do, sooner or later, she's going to get bored and she's going to jump ship. What was all your effort worth then when all the value she brought walked out the door with her?

The real problem in this day and age is we have a squadron of settle for less negroes who actually feel they need to know how to make a single mother with 10 kids by 8 daddies pay them attention and they're willing to cook for her, clean, pay all her bills and let her do whatever she wants. In reality, she should be wondering how to get YOUR attention. In order for women to really make me want to 'hunt', they need to be more worthy prey. They need to bring more to the table. It's like going fishing. Fishing is cool, but not when the fish you're catching are filled with mercury. The problem in this day and age is that women don't have to do anything to get attention. That's why women who bring NOTHING to the table can make outrageous demands.

I'm sorry, I'd much rather be spending my time working on financial independence and doing things I enjoy than trying to convince the neighborhood floozy to pay me some attention. In fact, when you've got all that money and fame from perfecting your craft, you don't have to chase women. They chase YOU.

brehs, how do I dap this twice?

 

[TRUEST]

She finally responded to my text that said "?i text you a few days ago and you never said nothing" with "nah". I can't tell if she lying but my gut instinct telling me she did get it.



I'll call her later and see what's good. She nothing special imo. I'll give her a time and date to come through or whatever.

its too late now. leave it alone. if she reaches out to u again, dont d1ck around on some how are u doing , what u been up to bs.

just be like:

hey hun, great to hear from u. when are u free to meet up and catchup?

 

[Fatboi1]

its too late now. leave it alone. if she reaches out to u again, dont d1ck around on some how are u doing , what u been up to bs.

just be like:

hey hun, great to hear from u. when are u free to grab a meet up and catchup?

I felt like she was lying about the text she supposedly responded to when she said "u never text back" which was to me.

Oh well, I was thinking of calling but I'll just leave it alone.

 

[TRUEST]

I felt like she was lying about the text she supposedly responded to when she said "u never text back" which was to me.

Oh well, I was thinking of calling but I'll just leave it alone.

dont call. and im saying this again because i know how, if u dont know the game well enough, ur mind plays tricks on u. u'll start thinking "i saw this post of hers on facebook, she must be refering to me, let me hit her up to see whats good". lol. trust me man, dont talk urself into calling or texting her. but if she reaches out, u already know what to do.

Number 1 Rule: Don't D!ck Around!!!

 

[TheArchitect]

I'm just feeling jaded when it comes to starting things off with women at times.

Like, you hit me up(She wanted to talk to me) and after some small talk and a few texts, you just left shyt to die. How you was with me Friday, ask me before you got out the car"When we gonna see again?" which from prior experiences meant the chick wants to see you again and then basically go quiet?

I tell her to lemme know her schedule since she's working. Saturday I don't hit her up cuz she working. Sunday I hit her up, she don't respond which is odd because she responded immediately before the other days.
I figure it's her phone but that's highly unlikely. I check her FB today and she's active on there posting and shyt. Already made me throw out a red flag. I'm not hitting her up again. When a chick blatantly ignores a message or doesn't call I just leave them alone as I think I get the message.

shyt like that wastes my time and I don't like it .

I'm the exact same way. One reason I haven't been really hollering at females like that is because I subconsciously feel it's gonna be a waste of time. Just too many games, factors, and bullshyt in general.

Alright well this is tought cause I'm taking a time out until late September just to work on a 5yr plan. I can say this an area of life that to me at this stage is just like any other skills like cooking or any other manly skills. My goals is for my mouth piece to get better MAYBE have a wife and kid. Honestly breh I never seen myself having kids and the the way the world is going I might not end of with a wife but at 32 it's something that I have accepted it.

My tolerance level for BS is thin. I do wanna say I love women and hate them at the same time. So when it's all said and done I can say I didn't fail at I beleive one of men's intrinsic purposes in life which is getting and truly understanding women. My happiness has to come FIRST or it want be a relationship.

Same with me. Reason I don't really see myself with children is because I don't even see myself finding anyone worth being with for a long time....these broads get worse and worse....

jeez. i see from the posts on here the problem a lot of u guys have. u d1ck around too much.

i know my schedule pretty well. when a girl ask you when we gon see each other again, the dumbest response you can give is "let me know ur schedule". i mean wtf is that?? yall n1ggas need to stop playing cassanova and be a gadamn hunter.

her: when are we gon see each other again
you: u take a few seconds to think, then u say "how about we meet wednesday at 730pm?


see what just happened there?? u just set a specific DATE and TIME. now, she has that ON HER MIND!!!!!!

you saying "let me know your schedule" leaves things TOO GADAMN OPEN ENDED!!!!!

i mean, no amount of game can save a man if he doesn't have a lick of aggressiveness in him.

Yup, now that I think of it I may have let a few slip through my fingers due to dragging my ass from I think you actually told me the same thing in my previous post in here recently....whether that's why she stopped responding or something else, it doesn't matter....her number's been deleted, she's been unfriended from fb. Hey, may be petty, but I just don't see any reason to keep in contact with one who doesn't want to be bothered....

 

[TRUEST]

I'm the exact same way. One reason I haven't been really hollering at females like that is because I subconsciously feel it's gonna be a waste of time. Just too many games, factors, and bullshyt in general.

Same with me. Reason I don't really see myself with children is because I don't even see myself finding anyone worth being with for a long time....these broads get worse and worse....


Yup, now that I think of it I may have let a few slip through my fingers due to dragging my ass from I think you actually told me the same thing in my previous post in here recently....whether that's why she stopped responding or something else, it doesn't matter....her number's been deleted, she's been unfriended from fb. Hey, may be petty, but I just don't see any reason to keep in contact with one who doesn't want to be bothered....

blocking/deleting people is feminine behavior unless ur dealing with a chick who u dont like and is pestering you. but blocking a chick just cause she ignored u is some spiteful, feminine sh1t.

i personally save all text messages cause in the past, these girls come back and ive found myself having to be very coy to try to figure out who it is im talking to. so now, if i have the text messages i can brush up quick on why communication was stopped with a particular girl and treat her a specific way.

 

[Youseenmywork]

I already know that men are hunters. The real question is whether the prey is worth catching, and with the lower standard many women are setting in this day and age, my answer is, in most instances, no. What in the world do I look like spending all of this time trying to keep some woman entertained who has been around the block and back, took countless sausage, can't cook, can't clean, refuses to obey her man, etc. etc. She's lucky that I'm even talking to her, much less making any effort to pursue her.

All throughout this thread, men have been advised to step their game up, improve themselves, be more of a leader, get a better body in the gym, be a better conversationalist, etc. Men tell other men to better themselves and offer a better product to women. On the other hand, I rarely, if ever see women telling other women to offer a better product for men. in fact, they constantly make excuses for other women to offer men as little quality in womanhood as possible. They justify other women whoring, lying, not cooking, not cleaning, not obeying their man, etc. etc. Now why world I work harder to reward a woman who is actively working in the accomplice of other women to offer us less?

We're in the time of strong 'feminism', and we're in a generation who is strongly indulging in the 'sexual revolution.' By the time you get to that woman you are going so gaga over, you're probably the 40th guy in line for your turn. Have fun trying to wife that up. Here's the thing about hoes. Hoes 'ho up'. It's in their nature to be transient. You can spend all this time and effort keeping them entertained, but no matter what you do, sooner or later, she's going to get bored and she's going to jump ship. What was all your effort worth then when all the value she brought walked out the door with her?

The real problem in this day and age is we have a squadron of settle for less negroes who actually feel they need to know how to make a single mother with 10 kids by 8 daddies pay them attention and they're willing to cook for her, clean, pay all her bills and let her do whatever she wants. In reality, she should be wondering how to get YOUR attention. In order for women to really make me want to 'hunt', they need to be more worthy prey. They need to bring more to the table. It's like going fishing. Fishing is cool, but not when the fish you're catching are filled with mercury. The problem in this day and age is that women don't have to do anything to get attention. That's why women who bring NOTHING to the table can make outrageous demands.

I'm sorry, I'd much rather be spending my time working on financial independence and doing things I enjoy than trying to convince the neighborhood floozy to pay me some attention. In fact, when you've got all that money and fame from perfecting your craft, you don't have to chase women. They chase YOU.

First I wanna say no man should entertain a woman of low value at all. I see this a lot but the men that be talking to these low value women be low value themselves. The older and wiser I got the more the if I can't get an 8,9,10, I'm just go for a six to get my rocks off mentality is low value.(even thoe I have a 1-30 scale now)

One thing you fail to realize is men all around have gotten weaker. It's not the same round table like julius caesar had were men like us would talk politics, money , religion, etc. Men don't value being knowledgeable above all else and also skillful. I can attribute to the growing of technology the changing of the times etc.

I can't really relate to what you said above...at least not majoruty of it BECAUSE I put soo many thing above women it's not even funny. I DONT like talking with women with kids and if I do I can't do more than one kid. I can never condone talking to women when you so called get rich and or famous. I say that because your going to be the social awkward 40ur old with a Mohawk trying to figure out what happend. What I will say is this and I have said it before. The other layers of your life or any man for that matter you should strive to mastery you and your life well before you deal with the realm of women. Yes that means getting back to be a renaissance man. As patrice once said it dosent matter if your rich and or famous it is still the nature of a women to TEXT you and try to bytch you up. What I can say it just makes it easier to toss a lot of women to the side and they really only going to deal with you cause you have resources or what you can do for them.

I ascribe to working on your personality as whole not just for women breh but for the man himself. That way when these women say and do stupid shyt you go back to these other realms of who you are and be good . What you fail to realize is we are all fighting the same war. I like @TRUEST @360dagod @C.Holla @Sharp and even @CrossBones brings to the table. What I have got from there post is they all seem to fight the war with feminism/women differently, but I still learn from them.

I say that because my personality is ...I can't dance for shyt but I got crude sense of humor and I like to talk shyt . This why I can say I'm a man after patrice oneal heart. I'm still learning about how and when to finesse a chic. As patrice would say it's YOUR FAULT. If you don't wanna talk to a women with kids then don't...if you want an open relationship you have to put that on the table. If you want or is looking for a chick to be 60/40 put that on the table and guess what if they anit down it will.be others .

Any way it goes you entertain women. We are ALL fighting the same war what men In this thread and you need to understand is many way to conquer and enemy. Trust I have a hobbies I want to monetize and turn into a business. I wanna start a blog to help men to be better on all fronts and not just women I really wanna help men cause I see that the world don't give two fukks about us. I'm here for solutions on HOW to win the war not to come in here and be jaded. Women don't TAKE days off from the world why should MEN ?

 

[TheArchitect]

blocking/deleting people is feminine behavior unless ur dealing with a chick who u dont like and is pestering you. but blocking a chick just cause she ignored u is some spiteful, feminine sh1t.

i personally save all text messages cause in the past, these girls come back and ive found myself having to be very coy to try to figure out who it is im talking to. so now, if i have the text messages i can brush up quick on why communication was stopped with a particular girl and treat her a specific way.

I suppose it was a knee jerk reaction. Because in the past, anytime I would keep a chick around when they pulled that shyt, they'd pop back up with straight BULLshyt if they do come back around.....

I AM a bit spiteful and vindictive (for good reason, but I suppose I was wrong in this case)....I just be like "ok, the bytch ain't feeling me, she doesn't want to be bothered. Why stick around for her? She probably ain't gonna do shyt but try and use me or some other bullshyt. And I'll bet 1st time dude she IS fukking with calls her, it's gonna be Houdini all over again....

I just find/found that kind of shyt incredibly insulting. Like "what the fukk does this bytch take me for....."

Besides, I just hate feeling like I'm being used or tampered with (which always happened when I would try and keep in contact)....

Perhaps I have more growing up to do...I guess I'll try to be more grown about shyt next time.....

 

[Mr210]

Fellas if you meet a girl and she has only dated men 10-15 yrs older than her and you are younger than her or roughly same age, expect that odds are against you for success

 

[root_eruditorium_org]

I suppose it was a knee jerk reaction. Because in the past, anytime I would keep a chick around when they pulled that shyt, they'd pop back up with straight BULLshyt if they do come back around.....

I AM a bit spiteful and vindictive (for good reason, but I suppose I was wrong in this case)....I just be like "ok, the bytch ain't feeling me, she doesn't want to be bothered. Why stick around for her? She probably ain't gonna do shyt but try and use me or some other bullshyt. And I'll bet 1st time dude she IS fukking with calls her, it's gonna be Houdini all over again....

I just find/found that kind of shyt incredibly insulting. Like "what the fukk does this bytch take me for....."

Besides, I just hate feeling like I'm being used or tampered with (which always happened when I would try and keep in contact)....

Perhaps I have more growing up to do...I guess I'll try to be more grown about shyt next time.....

I used to be like you ... deleting chick's numbers and shyt after we had a falling out ... but once you start talking to lots of chicks you just straight up forget the ones that are not giving you play.

 

[Youseenmywork]

Fellas if you meet a girl and she has only dated men 10-15 yrs older than her and you are younger than her or roughly same age, expect that odds are against you for success

I can't with you nikkas maann...

 

[Youseenmywork]

...but i say it and it's wrong thoe.

 

[Youseenmywork]

 

[root_eruditorium_org]

Fellas if you meet a girl and she has only dated men 10-15 yrs older than her and you are younger than her or roughly same age, expect that odds are against you for success

you got dudes dropping dissertations about the game, and then you got this guy droppingg this pre-school shyt here like nobody's gonna notice.

 

[Youseenmywork]