Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Youseenmywork]

@TRUEST Miss snapchat ...is going threw something with her man (?) I guess . Even thoe me and her had or usually have good convo into why im going to stop talking to and leaving playful message on some her snapchat photos. Let the games begin. I commented on a photo that was pretty much her going to the gym but the picture was taken in her car. So i send a comment on that photo "this is my favorite pic". She responds back "your favorite pic huh". We get to talking so i say you need to stop playin and come to the crib and bring some wine and i might rub on your booty...lol

Fast foward and for the record she responded well to me flirting with her. She didnt say she woukd come to my crib or anything. She did respond with i didnt say i didnt like my booty rubbed or wine ..lol The conversation shifted to her not loving herself . Now she wouldnt tell me what is wrong. I just remember her saying something to the effect of " some nikkas anit shyt" . I have a feeling even thoe she been with this dude for 5yrs i dont think shes happy.

@C.Holla @360dagod I believe they said leave this chic alone thats what i plan to do. Something tells me thoe she still going to send me beatuiful snap photos ...directly to me for whatever reason.

 

[Reno89]

Honestly, some of these dudes date like females these days. They're just saying that they're going to call and text her whenever they feel like it, and if she's feeling you, it won't matter. They are unaware that successful dating is about STRATEGY.

 

[Fatboi1]

Don't beat yourself up, just don't do it next time.

Yeah.. Funny enough I saw the book The Art of Mackin' on my shelf just now and flipped through some pages. It's funny how some of the stuff seemed so simple. Basically, I realized I was being too with a hoodrat(in the politest sense.)

 

[TRUEST]

I'm not about playing mental chess games to grab a bytch.. Cats especially in the PUA be on that technical bullshyt. "Text her at 9:50 when you tell her 8:50" Talk but don't talk too much, Say little but not too little, Be a mystery but don't be gone too long"

Man fukk all that, You call her when YOU feel like it. Call her and make arrangements to meet up and let it be known what you're all about. It shows confidence and boldness. Those who don't respond, Charge it and keep it pushing.

While you got suckers waiting on her to make a move(which is unlikely especially if she' s good looking and juggling options) The man who make the move like I aforementioned above is already at base 3 while nikkas waiting on dee bytch is on Base 1 like that Kent nikka

n1ggas "aint waiting on dee b1tch" like u put it. its about having options. and being busy enough that a chick feels u're doing her favor by squeezing her in your busy/bossman lifestyle. i can't see a chick taking u seriously if u r frequently available for her to talk to for 2 gadamn hours straight.

i do have legit female friends that i can do that with, but these are women i have absolutely no sexual attraction to. so they're like my guy friends.

 

[Mr210]

Honestly, some of these dudes date like females these days. They're just saying that they're going to call and text her whenever they feel like it, and if she's feeling you, it won't matter. They are unaware that successful dating is about STRATEGY.

Date hoodrat brehs

 

[Mr210]

n1ggas "aint waiting on dee b1tch" like u put it. its about having options. and being busy enough that a chick feels u're doing her favor by squeezing her in your busy/bossman lifestyle. i can't see a chick taking u seriously if u r frequently available for her to talk to for 2 gadamn hours straight.

i do have legit female friends that i can do that with, but these are women i have absolutely no sexual attraction to. so they're like my guy friends.

No one said talk for 2 hrs every damn day, ssssh u coli peeps take shyt to the extreme, but doing every once in awhile isn't going to cause any harm. And by every once in awhile I mean like once a month if that

 

[TRUEST]

@TRUEST Miss snapchat ...is going threw something with her man (?) I guess . Even thoe me and her had or usually have good convo into why im going to stop talking to and leaving playful message on some her snapchat photos. Let the games begin. I commented on a photo that was pretty much her going to the gym but the picture was taken in her car. So i send a comment on that photo "this is my favorite pic". She responds back "your favorite pic huh". We get to talking so i say you need to stop playin and come to the crib and bring some wine and i might rub on your booty...lol

Fast foward and for the record she responded well to me flirting with her. She didnt say she woukd come to my crib or anything. She did respond with i didnt say i didnt like my booty rubbed or wine ..lol The conversation shifted to her not loving herself . Now she wouldnt tell me what is wrong. I just remember her saying something to the effect of " some nikkas anit shyt" . I have a feeling even thoe she been with this dude for 5yrs i dont think shes happy.

@C.Holla @360dagod I believe they said leave this chic alone thats what i plan to do. Something tells me thoe she still going to send me beatuiful snap photos ...directly to me for whatever reason.

maybe I'm just a lil too impatient, but what happened to the part of ur conversation where u asked her to come to the crib? how did the conversation jump from that to something completely unrelated to that? i've seen the pic of this chick, she's cute, and it is baffling to me how u can do this to yourself.

first, this girl has some sort of interest in you. i know this from everything else u've said.
second, the interest she has in u is being stifled by ur inability to cross over from being a passive scavenger to a fierce hunter
when u ask a girl to come through and she dithers, or doesn't offer a convincing alternative, u need to just go silent because anything else u do after that will be lame. the last thing a girl can have the nerve to do to me is complain about another man. i'm deading that sh1t fast before it even comes close to that.

i think a lot of u guys are just content with a girl showing u attention or liking u. an ego boost don't get a man's d1ck wet.

whenever this girl hits u up, and u let her direct the conversation into no man's land, guess who loses? you.

don't worry about sounding redundant. if everytime this girl hits u up, u allude to her coming over and when she doesn't, u ignore her, she'll connect the dots and either eventually agrees or will just stop hitting u up. either way, u don't lose.

 

[RealAssanova]

i damn near fell out my chair when i read that other dude Mr210's post about talking on the phone for 2.5 hours. like wtf??? Attraction 101....stay the fucck away from the phone. U shouldn't be talking for no more than 15 minutes. hell, that's too long. When you talk on the phone for more than that, what the hell do u have to talk about when u see each other? there's no anticipation. she already knows whats going on in ur life. then these dudes wonder why these women disappear on them. u let the candle burn out too fast. that's why.

i've spoken to women on the phone late at night. Put em to bed with that phone sex. When u hear them moans

but this was only after we met in person and shyt not beforehand

 

[Mr210]

i've spoken to women on the phone late at night. Put em to bed with that phone sex. When u hear them moans

but this was only after we met in person and shyt not beforehand

Cosign..ife I haven't met the chick yet then they aren't getting more than a 20 min phone convo, the really positive thing about the current oman I'm talking to is we have known each for some years now, we are just now taking it to another level

 

[TRUEST]

Honestly, some of these dudes date like females these days. They're just saying that they're going to call and text her whenever they feel like it, and if she's feeling you, it won't matter. They are unaware that successful dating is about STRATEGY.

i see what you're saying because i'm on ur side of the argument, however, i see what they're saying as well as far as not wanting to follow a rulebook just to date a girl.

but the problem is, they're failing to understand a few basic things.

its not a rulebook or rules to follow. its a way of life. it's been said a few times in this thread that women date UP. but, people don't stop to think what "dating up" means. dating up is dating someone who's not in ur class. someone with far more resources than u..a lot of friends, money, connections....and sometimes looks way better than you. etc.

now, when ur a guy that responds to text on time, or is easily reachable, that portrays to anyone that you don't have a lot going for urself. and the more u respond to these girls texts and phone calls, the more they'll want to text u death. and the more y'all text and talk on the phone, the less inclined they'll be to actually wanna see u. don't ever be surprised if she all of sudden rarely wants to meet in person. why should she?

the girls i've dated who i really liked, they've told me "u know, i can't really tell whether u like me or not. u hardly ever answer my text or talk long on the phone". to which i responded, hun, i like u. i really do. but talking on the phone for long periods of time is not something i i like to do as i find it very effeminate. by that statement alone, i just subconsciously planted a gauge in her mind which she'll use to measure other dudes in the future. but that's another story. anyway, to each his own. a lot of these dudes will learn and i say, let them.

 

[Mr210]

i see what you're saying because i'm on ur side of the argument, however, i see what they're saying as well as far as not wanting to follow a rulebook just to date a girl.

but the problem is, they're failing to understand a few basic things.

its not a rulebook or rules to follow. its a way of life. it's been said a few times in this thread that women date UP. but, people don't stop to think what "dating up" means. dating up is dating someone who's not in ur class. someone with far more resources than u..a lot of friends, money, connections....and sometimes looks way better than you. etc.

now, when ur a guy that responds to text on time, or is easily reachable, that portrays to anyone that you don't have a lot going for urself. and the more u respond to these girls texts and phone calls, the more they'll want to text u death. and the more y'all text and talk on the phone, the less they'll be less inclined to actually see u. don't ever be surprised if she all of sudden rarely wants to meet in person. why should she?

the girls i've dated who i really liked, they've told me "u know, i can't really tell whether u like me or not. u hardly ever answer my text or talk long on the phone". to which i responded, hun, i like u. i really do. but talking on the phone for long periods of time is not something i i like to do as i find it very effeminate. by that statement alone, i just subconsciously planted a gauge in her mind which she'll use to measure other dudes in the future. but that's another story. anyway, to each his own. a lot of these dudes will learn and i say, let them.

I agree 100%, about 4 yrs ago I dated a woman and our first phone convo was after about 5 dates, our relationship lasted 3 yrs. At one point she told me that she thought I wasn't into her because I never called her and hardly text her, I usually sent her like 2 text a day. I told her I'm not her homegirl, plus I'm about that person to person interaction

 

[DaHNIC82]

n1ggas "aint waiting on dee b1tch" like u put it. its about having options. and being busy enough that a chick feels u're doing her favor by squeezing her in your busy/bossman lifestyle. i can't see a chick taking u seriously if u r frequently available for her to talk to for 2 gadamn hours straight.

i do have legit female friends that i can do that with, but these are women i have absolutely no sexual attraction to. so they're like my guy friends.

Correct on that part. Unless its a female friend from a distance or she's really about bringing something tangible to my business, Theres no way I'd be on the phone with no chick for 2 hours and not getting no proper pay off. Its that or I'm already smashing or officially in a relationship.

I'm just saying, Men in this day and age can't wait for women to make the move because most likely these days with social medial involved(especially if she's pretty) She's entertaining endless options and unless you're a nikka with stature, You're gonna easily be lost in the shuffle. Sometimes women want men to make the call and take charge of the situation. It depends.

 

[Phitz]

I dont know, I've talked with females for hours...but then again it's because we haven't talked in 3 monts, 6 months so maybe that's different lol

 

[Soundbwoy]

I've been reading the last couple of pages and it seems a lot of brehs are regressing and over thinking this whole shyt

 

[Mr210]

I've been reading the last couple of pages and it seems a lot of brehs are regressing and over thinking this whole shyt

Yea def. Way too much overanalyzing and nitpicking but when you point that out their response is, "you will learn"