so my main was in the shower and she left her phone on the bed by me unlocked. I decide to see what's going on, I see her ex's name with heart and broken heart emojis next to his name in the message. I read a few of the messages and I see that he would send her I miss you text messages, and she would send "I was thinking about you today" text messages. I also see that she got up with him for a movie a couple of Friday's ago.
She gets out the shower and I put everything away. We watching tv and something about relationships come up on a show and I casually steer the conversation about my ex and how she was crazy and shyt. She says her ex was crazy too, I then ask if he still hit her up and she tells me no. I than ask her when's the last time she seen him, and she said sometime LAST YEAR, and that she doesn't even think about him at all... I smashed one last time this morning and put her on ignore.
No need to confront her about what I read and all that shyt so she can hit me with more lies.

When I was trying to explain this scenario to my boys, I told them I'd rather be with a girl who genuinely likes me as opposed to only liking me because she sees competition.There are women who 'like you' and there are women who like the 'concept of you'. The latter, like your coworker, I'd avoid. She doesn't like you, she likes the position you are in. She likes the fact that you are popular with another woman and a catch to her, so it becomes a game in her mind to her if she can get your attention. As soon as your popularity wanes, she's gone and off to the next one. The woman that is about you likes you because of your personality, and even if other women didn't like you, she'd still be liking you. These women that like you because you're getting attention are fame junkies and I wouldn't waste a second of time on them.
To everyone in here. What was the dumbest thing you said when approaching?
When I was trying to explain this scenario to my boys, I told them I'd rather be with a girl who genuinely likes me as opposed to only liking me because she sees competition.
But you stated it much more eloquently. Not gonna put any further effort into the girl who just likes the 'concept of me"


ive always wanted to try that shyt. id crack up halfway throughI used a line from the Fresh Prince..
Walked up to a chick woth my phone out and said "Hurry up and gimme your number, before i dont want it no more"
She put the digits in my phone, beat the 3rd time we kicked it.
