Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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:snoop: so my main was in the shower and she left her phone on the bed by me unlocked. I decide to see what's going on, I see her ex's name with heart and broken heart emojis next to his name in the message. I read a few of the messages and I see that he would send her I miss you text messages, and she would send "I was thinking about you today" text messages. I also see that she got up with him for a movie a couple of Friday's ago.


She gets out the shower and I put everything away. We watching tv and something about relationships come up on a show and I casually steer the conversation about my ex and how she was crazy and shyt. She says her ex was crazy too, I then ask if he still hit her up and she tells me no. I than ask her when's the last time she seen him, and she said sometime LAST YEAR, and that she doesn't even think about him at all..:stopitslime:. I smashed one last time this morning and put her on ignore.

No need to confront her about what I read and all that shyt so she can hit me with more lies.

shyt crazy...

As soon as you clean the roster:mjcry:
 

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i feel like day after day im not seeing women as this confusing puzzle anymore. im not going to see them that way. i treat them like i treat dudes in a sense. :patrice:
 

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There are women who 'like you' and there are women who like the 'concept of you'. The latter, like your coworker, I'd avoid. She doesn't like you, she likes the position you are in. She likes the fact that you are popular with another woman and a catch to her, so it becomes a game in her mind to her if she can get your attention. As soon as your popularity wanes, she's gone and off to the next one. The woman that is about you likes you because of your personality, and even if other women didn't like you, she'd still be liking you. These women that like you because you're getting attention are fame junkies and I wouldn't waste a second of time on them.
When I was trying to explain this scenario to my boys, I told them I'd rather be with a girl who genuinely likes me as opposed to only liking me because she sees competition.

But you stated it much more eloquently. Not gonna put any further effort into the girl who just likes the 'concept of me"
 

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When I was trying to explain this scenario to my boys, I told them I'd rather be with a girl who genuinely likes me as opposed to only liking me because she sees competition.

But you stated it much more eloquently. Not gonna put any further effort into the girl who just likes the 'concept of me"

i dont think this is a black and white type of situation:patrice:

if a female looks good,its gonna end up being a combination of both for it to really be successful..

unless she is of a certain caliber of female..But you might not even find that type attractive...or they already know that you choosed down and are just happy to be the one chosen..

Point im making is, 9 times outta 10, the women you go after wont be of the caliber your talking about..

which means that you gonna have to keep her on her toes just like she will shyt test you:ld:
 

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I used a line from the Fresh Prince..

Walked up to a chick woth my phone out and said "Hurry up and gimme your number, before i dont want it no more"

She put the digits in my phone, beat the 3rd time we kicked it.
ive always wanted to try that shyt. id crack up halfway through:mjlol:

i need to cold approach more.:patrice:
 

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I would have rather you be upfront, I would have taken the rejection rather than how things were played out
 

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women play way too many games.. thats all they know how to do.. they were trained that way since they were kids. pay no mind to that shyt, dont let em fukk with you.
 

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9/10 times a broad asks you a question, shes fukking with you just to see what you say. if shes asking you dumb shyt just ignore that shyt or change the subject.
 
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