Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[International Playa]

I just feel I'm never given a chance. It's always "I have a boyfriend", or something. With the women I'm attracted to its either they're not available or I'm not their type or they see me as a friend. Even the few women I dealt with, I resent how they treated me. It's like generally speaking women don't give a shyt about my feelings or me. And then they wanna judge your personality. Oh he's quiet, he's not approachable, he's not social, he's this or that. Like seriously ppl in this world always want to label you as something without knowing your backstory. Many of my true feelings I keep them hidden, and on share them to ppl close to me, or on message boards like this. IRL I can hide it better( my real feelings about women). I can be nice, and social and outgoing with the ppl(if they my friends or ppl I'm comfortable with). Most ppl who aren't close to me wouldn't know how much bitterness and dislike I have for women but it's there. Just underneath the surface, just something I only show in public if I get really angry.

That anger and bitterness is only going to work against you bro. I been there, when I was a virgin. You need to get rid of it no matter what, because it will affect how you deal with the next woman who is giving you half a chance.

On changing your energy, you gonna have to go for the women who dig you no matter how ugly they are. Just having a woman dig you and feel you will boost your ego & build positive energy. Positive energy attracts people to you, which in turn will attract the hot women that you want.

 

[Virtuous_Brotha]

So I have created a pof profile twice today and both times the accounts were deleted, not sure why. I guess I will try okcupid

They delete it when you send your convo initation template around to too many women

 

[Virtuous_Brotha]

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[Mr210]

They delete it when you send your convo initation template around to too many women

Yea I didn't do that I make my messages unique to each person I message, nothing crude on my profile, within 2 hrs of making it was deleted.

I'm on okcupid sent out about 15 messages and got a reply to 2 of them

 

[CASHAPP]

i usually pay...the no tell motel usually got hourly rates

thanks. and what about giving names? like say if you randomly meet a chick in public like at the bus stop or something and she giving hints she wants to fukk and just randomly starts a conversation...

when you exchange numbers...do you use your real name or a fake name?

 

[Mr210]

thanks. and what about giving names? like say if you randomly meet a chick in public like at the bus stop or something and she giving hints she wants to fukk and just randomly starts a conversation...

when you exchange numbers...do you use your real name or a fake name?

Get a Google number

 

[Larry Lambo]

How do/did you guys cope with bitterness when you were not getting chosen or feeling noticed or given a chance by women?

I know I'm not in the right circles to get at the women I want to get at, so I just concede that I'm not doing enough to get these women.

In general, I don't base my happiness on whether I succeed with women or not. They do them, I do me. If I find one that is on the same page as me, cool, But I don't stress it either way.

 

[DarkHorse23]

That anger and bitterness is only going to work against you bro. I been there, when I was a virgin. You need to get rid of it no matter what, because it will affect how you deal with the next woman who is giving you half a chance.

On changing your energy, you gonna have to go for the women who dig you no matter how ugly they are. Just having a woman dig you and feel you will boost your ego & build positive energy. Positive energy attracts people to you, which in turn will attract the hot women that you want.

Last woman I dealt with was quite frankly the one I didn't really want as much(compared to another) and she started out really sweet and nice and then became a real bytch. Which raises the question is it better to be alone then settle for someone you're not really crazy about anyway just so you aren't alone

 

[International Playa]

Last woman I dealt with was quite frankly the one I didn't really want as much(compared to another) and she started out really sweet and nice and then became a real bytch. Which raises the question is it better to be alone then settle for someone you're not really crazy about anyway just so you aren't alone

When you were with that woman you shoulda kept hunting for better women bro. Its easier to get women when you already have a woman than when you are totally single, because usually your energy levels will be positive and very high

 

[360dagod]

thanks. and what about giving names? like say if you randomly meet a chick in public like at the bus stop or something and she giving hints she wants to fukk and just randomly starts a conversation...

when you exchange numbers...do you use your real name or a fake name?

sounds like she a hooker

most motels photocopy your id....

its tricky with that because you dont know her and its ways she can get your name

 

[CASHAPP]

sounds like she a hooker

most motels photocopy your id....

its tricky with that because you dont know her and its ways she can get your name

LOL SON

i never said any of that shyt at all. i never give hookers my real name, use the same fake name

im only talking about regular chicks especially if they live in your town. like if there is any point in lying about your real name or if it matters

 

[DarkHorse23]

When you were with that woman you shoulda kept hunting for better women bro. Its easier to get women when you already have a woman than when you are totally single, because usually your energy levels will be positive and very high

That makes sense, but don't most guys make the mistake of getting complacent once they get a woman

 

[Mr210]

I have exchanged about 5 messages on okcupid with this one woman before the day is over, I'm going to ask for her number, give her a brief 15 min call on tuesday to set up a date for next weekend

 

[360dagod]

LOL SON

she can say the receptionist stopped her blah blah blah

the safest way is to tell her to stand at a certain area while you handle the paying part..

but before all that

Get a google number..

convo with her..ask if she got kids etc...never plan to fukk days ahead...

Ask her if she got a man..this is important..because if she hesitates, she quite possibly has a pimp and that changes the whole game right there..to the point where you abort..because the pimps these days are straight up gorilla...

also if she starts talking prices,simply say thats nice and keep da convo pushing

when you ready simply say meet me at the telly..ask her what she doin and what her day looking like beforehand..and use whatever convo to interwine your donation in case she gets "stupid"..whether it be getting her hair done etc..Make everything quick..If she hesitates, keep it moving..if she aint doing shyt, she should be ready to roll..if she watching her baby, she should have the sitter on deck...and get there before her

point im making is you dont know this broad...Unless you see her on a hoe stroll/backpage,you dont know what she about...which means you need to limit your risk...

Be careful with that though..Younger ones are tricky

 

[CASHAPP]

she can say the receptionist stopped her blah blah blah

the safest way is to tell her to stand at a certain area while you handle the paying part..

but before all that

Get a google number..

convo with her..ask if she got kids etc...never plan to fukk days ahead...

Ask her if she got a man..this is important..because if she hesitates, she quite possibly has a pimp and that changes the whole game right there..to the point where you abort..because the pimps these days are straight up gorilla...

also if she starts talking prices,simply say thats nice and keep da convo pushing

when you ready simply say meet me at the telly..ask her what she doin and what her day looking like beforehand..and use whatever convo to interwine your donation in case she gets "stupid"..whether it be getting her hair done etc..Make everything quick..If she hesitates, keep it moving..if she aint doing shyt, she should be ready to roll..if she watching her baby, she should have the sitter on deck...and get there before her

point im making is you dont know this broad...Unless you see her on a hoe stroll/backpage,you dont know what she about...which means you need to limit your risk...

Be careful with that though..Younger ones are tricky

read my post after. she isnt a hoe breh