Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Youseenmywork]

because im not a phone person..and it aint that much in the word to talk about on a consistent basis

Yeah its a few Avenues you can take that tweet. I don't have a problem with guys having platonic female friends. It's the reason why you have these beautiful women as friends like what's the motive behind it? What are the benefits besides trying to get her to hook you up with one of her female friends? Is that considered a real friendship

Patrice would always say you should keep a few women just "floating" around but don't let them Invade your time or space like. Use them pretty much to get information and to practice tactics on them.

 

[Youseenmywork]

 

[kevm3]

I just feel I'm never given a chance. It's always "I have a boyfriend", or something. With the women I'm attracted to its either they're not available or I'm not their type or they see me as a friend. Even the few women I dealt with, I resent how they treated me. It's like generally speaking women don't give a shyt about my feelings or me. And then they wanna judge your personality. Oh he's quiet, he's not approachable, he's not social, he's this or that. Like seriously ppl in this world always want to label you as something without knowing your backstory. Many of my true feelings I keep them hidden, and on share them to ppl close to me, or on message boards like this. IRL I can hide it better( my real feelings about women). I can be nice, and social and outgoing with the ppl(if they my friends or ppl I'm comfortable with). Most ppl who aren't close to me wouldn't know how much bitterness and dislike I have for women but it's there. Just underneath the surface, just something I only show in public if I get really angry.

Being the quiet guy makes it tough dealing with women since most aren't aggressive and wait for you to make the first move. Having those social skills proper is absolutely one of the most important things when it comes to dealing with women and being aggressive.

The reality is that you will get rejected by a lot of women before you find some that take you on so it's almost like you have to spam a ton of women to see who bites. It's understandable how you could grow to dislike women, but don't allow your energy to go in that direction. Just realize it isn't a cakewalk for anyone out here unless you're famous.

 

[DarkHorse23]

Being the quiet guy makes it tough dealing with women since most aren't aggressive and wait for you to make the first move. Having those social skills proper is absolutely one of the most important things when it comes to dealing with women and being aggressive.

The reality is that you will get rejected by a lot of women before you find some that take you on so it's almost like you have to spam a ton of women to see who bites. It's understandable how you could grow to dislike women, but don't allow your energy to go in that direction. Just realize it isn't a cakewalk for anyone out here unless you're famous.

Yeah the whole quiet thing really irritates me. I mean why if a guy isn't talkative there "has to be something wrong with him", or your "shy" or whatever. Even had one woman say she thought i was a "creep" because how i carried myself.(Me and her became friends but i still resent her for forming that impression about me without even knowing me" Even had some think i was "slow", just because i didn't say much. "Well excuse me bytch, i don't know you, and i'm on my first week at a new job doing something i've never done before. Sorry if i'm not social enough for your tastes". Women always want to judge a guy if he different than every joe they meet. The only time they see you being quiet in a positive light is if your extremely good looking.

I can be aggressive when it comes to talking/approaching women(when i'm feeling confident) i'm just not aggressive in terms of social interactions. I don't like socializing with large groups of ppl. Especially if the majority i don't know, and I don't feel comfortable around. It's mainly in social interactions that issue is come up.

 

[360dagod]

Yeah the whole quiet thing really irritates me. I mean why if a guy isn't talkative there "has to be something wrong with him", or your "shy" or whatever. Even had one woman say she thought i was a "creep" because how i carried myself.(Me and her became friends but i still resent her for forming that impression about me without even knowing me" Even had some think i was "slow", just because i didn't say much. "Well excuse me bytch, i don't know you, and i'm on my first week at a new job doing something i've never done before. Sorry if i'm not social enough for your tastes". Women always want to judge a guy if he different than every joe they meet. The only time they see you being quiet in a positive light is if your extremely good looking.

I can be aggressive when it comes to talking/approaching women(when i'm feeling confident) i'm just not aggressive in terms of social interactions. I don't like socializing with large groups of ppl. Especially if the majority i don't know, and I don't feel comfortable around. It's mainly in social interactions that is.

That comes with the territory of being quiet...u took a simple shyt test and fukked it up...women dont know how to maneuver with quiet men so they do and say certain shyt.
All you had to do was bust back with something sarcastic and you would have been gucci...

 

[Youseenmywork]

 

[TRUEST]

nah this is idiotic. some people dont get angry because they dont know they're being played for a fool till it's too late.

 

[Youseenmywork]

nah this is idiotic. some people dont get angry because they dont know they're being played for a fool till it's too late.

I don't get offended by much either thoe breh. I take my family and friends to heart but other than that ...naw. I know this is a case by case and situation based type tweet.

 

[Mr210]

I don't get offended by much either thoe breh. I take my family and friends to heart but other than that ...naw. I know this is a case by case and situation based type tweet.

I have been humbled so much in the past year and really done some reevaluating that I've noticed a chance in myself. I am so much at ease and laid back and able to stay calm with things I used to be the opposite

 

[Deafheaven]

Well ex broke up with me again and finally got me to the point I'm mostly like . Pretty much onLy thing I could have done was be literally perfect so it's not like last time where I was on a inscure n shyt. I made like one mistak I can think of but to a normal human that would have been like w/e considering how good I am to her. I guess I didn't say the perfect thing to some long ass txt About her being sad about some lady harassing her mom and instead of me reading her mind and knowing what to say on the spot I just asked if you want to go for a walk and talk about it (we been back in a relationship for like 4 month so I see no problem with this) Wrong answer I guess. She's goes on a tangent about how I'm supposed to know she wants to process her sadness alone. I'm like why the fukk you telling me about it then this chick then lost her mind and shut down on me lol. Told her change your mind lmk but if not

Looking forward to dating some not crazy women in the near future.

 

[RichieRich]

Well ex broke up with me again and finally got me to the point I'm mostly like

Sounds like its her, not you

Keep it moving breh, a relationship where you feel you gotta be damn near perfect to make it work turns into a chore

She did you a favor

 

[Deafheaven]

Sounds like its her, not you

Keep it moving breh, a relationship where you feel you gotta be damn near perfect to make it work turns into a chore

She did you a favor

Yeah after this last shyt I just threw my hands up and said fukk it. You either want an impossible human or you want to be alone because ain't nobody else gonna have the patience I have.

 

[Lo-Co]

its awkward as fukk getting out of the shadow of being a reserved guy. i mean i have my social issues. shyt thats beyond my control but i dont feel like it could hinder me. saying hi shouldn't feel this nerve wracking. i know no is the worst thing that could happen, and i know im not ugly, its just that initial moment. i know for a fact women would love who i am. I can do this shyt.

 

[Atlrocafella]

its awkward as fukk getting out of the shadow of being a reserved guy. i mean i have my social issues. shyt thats beyond my control but i dont feel like it could hinder me. saying hi shouldn't feel this nerve wracking. i know no is the worst thing that could happen, and i know im not ugly, its just that initial moment. i know for a fact women would love who i am. I can do this shyt.

Go for it. Don't overthink it.

 

[Lo-Co]

Go for it. Don't overthink it.

alright then. time to kamikaze this shyt.