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All I really fukk with are "square" chicks. They want to let loose and have fun just as much as ratchets. that paint shyt brehs are suggesting is like after you smash material. Wayyyy too many logistics and reasons for her to not want to go. I find the simpler the better. Drinks, build rapport, shoot your shot, see if it lands. Simple dates are king. After you get the fact you aren't a creep out of the way she should have few probs just coming over to your crib soon. Cuz I mean at the end of the day we dating to fukk and that should be the end goal in all your endeavors.


You make a good point, first dates really should be simple, I mean save the good dates for when things are becoming more serious
 

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All I really fukk with are "square" chicks. They want to let loose and have fun just as much as ratchets. that paint shyt brehs are suggesting is like after you smash material. Wayyyy too many logistics and reasons for her to not want to go. I find the simpler the better. Drinks, build rapport, shoot your shot, see if it lands. Simple dates are king. After you get the fact you aren't a creep out of the way she should have few probs just coming over to your crib soon. Cuz I mean at the end of the day we dating to fukk and that should be the end goal in all your endeavors.


You make a good point, first dates really should be simple, I mean save the good dates for when things are becoming more serious
 

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All I really fukk with are "square" chicks. They want to let loose and have fun just as much as ratchets. that paint shyt brehs are suggesting is like after you smash material. Wayyyy too many logistics and reasons for her to not want to go. I find the simpler the better. Drinks, build rapport, shoot your shot, see if it lands. Simple dates are king. After you get the fact you aren't a creep out of the way she should have few probs just coming over to your crib soon. Cuz I mean at the end of the day we dating to fukk and that should be the end goal in all your endeavors.

Thanks for the tips. Yeah i suspected some of that. I think the main difference is your less likely to be corny for certain shyt and they are more open minded. I think they could actually be just as freaky or even freakier too.
 

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All I really fukk with are "square" chicks. They want to let loose and have fun just as much as ratchets. that paint shyt brehs are suggesting is like after you smash material. Wayyyy too many logistics and reasons for her to not want to go. I find the simpler the better. Drinks, build rapport, shoot your shot, see if it lands. Simple dates are king. After you get the fact you aren't a creep out of the way she should have few probs just coming over to your crib soon. Cuz I mean at the end of the day we dating to fukk and that should be the end goal in all your endeavors.

Thanks for the tips. Yeah i suspected some of that. I think the main difference is your less likely to be corny for certain shyt and they are more open minded. I think they could actually be just as freaky or even freakier too.
 

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She didn't answer and hasn't called back, oh well

Probaly shouldve texted if you dont know her like that....i like the phone too,but some people just dont,you wanna text to see if she cool to talk because you dont know if she in position to talk,if she in the mindset to talk to a new nikka:pachaha:...i just like to make it easy for her on the first attempt.

Far as where to take a square woman,take her wherever you can feel like yourself at....i wouldnt take her to a museum cuz i would probaly be bored to death and it might show...if you sumhody who can make fun out of any situation in any environment,maybe a museum is cool.....but if your that person you might as well take her sumwhere where you will have fun too,because thats all she want.
 

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i love the confidence but my nikka...you going over there = more tips for her (in her mind)

only tip I'm tryna give her is a mushroom tip pause
I already told her to hook me up with drinks, I haven't tried to impress girls with money since I was a young simp in my early 20s :skip:
 

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Need your advice again fellas.

I got domed up by this latina chick on our first date last Friday... We're supposed to smash this week-end at her place, but I can tell this girl is catching feelings and wants a relationship.

She actually hung her head in shame after I nut in her mouth because she thought I was never gonna hit her back again.

I'm not a savage like some of ya'll, so my question is... How do I let this chick know that I wanna keep seeing her (As a fukk buddy) but I'm not trying to jump into a relationship?

Honestly I don't even wanna smash this Friday because I've been a "fukkboy" to hispanic chicks before, and they're fukkin psycho... Had one girl lie about a pregnancy after I never hit her back and damn near gave me an ulcer for a good 7 months.
 

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Need your advice again fellas.

I got domed up by this latina chick on our first date last Friday... We're supposed to smash this week-end at her place, but I can tell this girl is catching feelings and wants a relationship.

She actually hung her head in shame after I nut in her mouth because she thought I was never gonna hit her back again.

I'm not a savage like some of ya'll, so my question is... How do I let this chick know that I wanna keep seeing her (As a fukk buddy) but I'm not trying to jump into a relationship?

Honestly I don't even wanna smash this Friday because I've been a "fukkboy" to hispanic chicks before, and they're fukkin psycho... Had one girl lie about a pregnancy after I never hit her back and damn near gave me an ulcer for a good 7 months.

if the high likelihood of catching a disease or impregnating a girl like this who gives it up on the first date doesn't bother u, proceed.
 

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Need your advice again fellas.

I got domed up by this latina chick on our first date last Friday... We're supposed to smash this week-end at her place, but I can tell this girl is catching feelings and wants a relationship.

She actually hung her head in shame after I nut in her mouth because she thought I was never gonna hit her back again.

I'm not a savage like some of ya'll, so my question is... How do I let this chick know that I wanna keep seeing her (As a fukk buddy) but I'm not trying to jump into a relationship?

Honestly I don't even wanna smash this Friday because I've been a "fukkboy" to hispanic chicks before, and they're fukkin psycho... Had one girl lie about a pregnancy after I never hit her back and damn near gave me an ulcer for a good 7 months.

You pretty much already got the warning signs that you better leave this alone. If she's feeling bad that she's not in a relationship with you and doing all of this stuff and starts having real regrets and you keep on trying to deal with her, this could end very badly, such as a possible false allegation. You could string her along, but that's going to come with a ton of problems. Ease yourself out of that situation. You already said that your experience with latinas has been that they can get psycho, so look at the foreshadowing there.
 

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if the high likelihood of catching a disease or impregnating a girl like this who gives it up on the first date doesn't bother u, proceed.
You pretty much already got the warning signs that you better leave this alone. If she's feeling bad that she's not in a relationship with you and doing all of this stuff and starts having real regrets and you keep on trying to deal with her, this could end very badly, such as a possible false allegation. You could string her along, but that's going to come with a ton of problems. Ease yourself out of that situation. You already said that your experience with latinas has been that they can get psycho, so look at the foreshadowing there.
I appreciate it fellas. Ya'll were two I was hoping would chime in.

I've had close calls with getting chicks pregnant so I'd wrap it up for sure, but might have to think with my big head for this one and jump ship like @kevm3 said
 

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Probaly shouldve texted if you dont know her like that....i like the phone too,but some people just dont,you wanna text to see if she cool to talk because you dont know if she in position to talk,if she in the mindset to talk to a new nikka:pachaha:...i just like to make it easy for her on the first attempt.

Far as where to take a square woman,take her wherever you can feel like yourself at....i wouldnt take her to a museum cuz i would probaly be bored to death and it might show...if you sumhody who can make fun out of any situation in any environment,maybe a museum is cool.....but if your that person you might as well take her sumwhere where you will have fun too,because thats all she want.


I did text her earlier in the day and we exchanged a few text. I had already told her I was going to call her later because the day before when I got her number she mentioned men don't call anymore. She text me last night and this morning, unable to read her right now
 

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Need your advice again fellas.

I got domed up by this latina chick on our first date last Friday... We're supposed to smash this week-end at her place, but I can tell this girl is catching feelings and wants a relationship.

She actually hung her head in shame after I nut in her mouth because she thought I was never gonna hit her back again.

I'm not a savage like some of ya'll, so my question is... How do I let this chick know that I wanna keep seeing her (As a fukk buddy) but I'm not trying to jump into a relationship?

Honestly I don't even wanna smash this Friday because I've been a "fukkboy" to hispanic chicks before, and they're fukkin psycho... Had one girl lie about a pregnancy after I never hit her back and damn near gave me an ulcer for a good 7 months.

You nutted in her mouth but you not a savage:deadrose:
 

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I did text her earlier in the day and we exchanged a few text. I had already told her I was going to call her later because the day before when I got her number she mentioned men don't call anymore. She text me last night and this morning, unable to read her right now
just play it cool. dont over think it and dont call her again at least for a week or some shyt. just cause a girl complains about men not doing something it doesnt mean they want men to do it. Girls love to complain about men not being faithful but how many take their boyfriends back time and time again?

just work the text game
 

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just play it cool. dont over think it and dont call her again at least for a week or some shyt. just cause a girl complains about men not doing something it doesnt mean they want men to do it. Girls love to complain about men not being faithful but how many take their boyfriends back time and time again?

just work the text game


Oh yeah I'm not going to call her again, I will exchange text though, I might try to set something up for Thursday, that way if she flakes I can throw her in the bushes she is 38 she should be past all the games
 
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