Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Yup I've never seen them work out either. I mean I'd be willing to meet up as much as I could but that shyt gets expensive :francis:


24 big homie

You are in a weird place in life..

you start getting "sensitive"to certain things and overlook the red flags...

basically, you are vulnerable to heavy simping...

A female several hours away is no good for you or your life...

She can sell you dreams and sell the nikka who can see her everyday a reality..

Dealing with women in relationships are already hard..dont make it worst
 

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:takedat:I was the executive poster mentioned in this post

Nicca calm your ass down. I aint say first date, keep reading the thread.


Edit: you too @Youseenmywork

painting? no. its stupid. dont be throwing out these wild ideas to these dudes who are just learning this stuff. painting is way way way down the line after u've got the girl wrapped around ur finger.
 

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You are in a weird place in life..

you start getting "sensitive"to certain things and overlook the red flags...

basically, you are vulnerable to heavy simping...

A female several hours away is no good for you or your life...

She can sell you dreams and sell the nikka who can see her everyday a reality..

Dealing with women in relationships are already hard..dont make it worst
This probably the biggest thing that bothers me. I dont want to invest time into something that was doomed from the start
 
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painting? no. its stupid. dont be throwing out these wild ideas to these dudes who are just learning this stuff. painting is way way way down the line after u've got the girl wrapped around ur finger.



I pretty much said it was lame breh. I said that was for a women you see something long term.
 

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Brehs this thread has helped me a lot in recent time with women. I'm still getting over an ex of 4 1/2 years. I started real estate classes, gym like 4x a week, traveling. I'm building myself up but still hurt from that girl. What ovther advice can y'all give to move on and heal?
 

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Man so she text me this morning to say good morning, I respond and tell her what's up and she responds that she is working and I ask her what she does for work. She tells me and then ask what my job is. A couple hrs later she sends me a pic of herself and ask for 1 from me. We haven't talked since . I'm about to throw her to the bushes:

So should I just tell her that we should get together this weekend and if she flakes don't respond to her text or should I not even bother with that
 

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Naw



One of these days @TRUEST is going to learn to speake to guys on THEIR level. I take this female and feminism shyt seriously so I know there is layers to why a guys FEELS like painting is a good idea for a date ...lol. As lame as it is. I like to dig deep into nikkas mindset when it come to many situations. Any women you try to feel out don't deserve more than Starbucks and if her looks is just decent then dunkin donuts.

see u goto understand something. when u want to teach something to somebody, if the thing ur teaching them is important, there's a level of aggressiveness u have to apply to show the seriousness of the lesson ur teaching. if u had a child and ur child is playing very a pot of hot water, in what tone would u reprimand him?

hey my love. dont go near that pot.
hey my love, come stand right next to daddy.
hey my love, get away from there.

that's a very passive tone. a tone, that does not instill fright or caution in the child's mind. chances are, if ur not around, he wont remember u cautioning him, and he'll go play near a hot pot of boiling water, and u'll have urself to blame if something happens. and no, letting that child learn on his own is not an option because it could be a lesson he never recovers from.

if a child of urs is in fact playing with hot water, I expect ur tone to be on this level:

<his name> get away away from that!!!!!! be extremely careful when near a boiling pot of hot water. if ur not, u can be seriously hurt and disfigured. please baby, dont ever be reckless near any hot liquid.....blah blah blah

now, in reference to this thread. i'm doing my part in instillling game into the minds of the less experienced because the more privy to the game men are, the less power these women have. when i hear a man say he finds nothing wrong with talking on the phone for 2 hours with a chick he's trying date, i know for a fact this is a very bad idea. and any one who argues with me on that is just plain stupid. and i say that not from an angle of arrogance, but from personal and many external experiences. When someone suggests painting or a museum as a first date, again, that is also a terribly foolish idea.

of course i know none of the guys in this thread nor am i invested in their well being, however, if they're not privy to the games women play, and the ways to deal successfully with women, they'll become simps one way or another and will further pollute the dating world. or may end up bitter and go do something stupid.

im just gonna leave it at that.
 

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see u goto understand something. when u want to teach something to somebody, if the thing ur teaching them is important, there's a level of aggressiveness u have to apply to show the seriousness of the lesson ur teaching. if u had a child and ur child is playing very a pot of hot water, in what tone would u reprimand him?

hey my love. dont go near that pot.
hey my love, come stand right next to daddy.
hey my love, get away from there.

that's a very passive tone. a tone, that does not instill fright or caution in the child's mind. chances are, if ur not around, he wont remember u cautioning him, and he'll go play near a hot pot of boiling water, and u'll have urself to blame if something happens. and no, letting that child learn on his own is not an option because it could be a lesson he never recovers from.

if a child of urs is in fact playing with hot water, I expect ur tone to be on this level:

<his name> get away away from that!!!!!! be extremely careful when near a boiling pot of hot water. if ur not, u can be seriously hurt and disfigured. please baby, dont ever be reckless near any hot liquid.....blah blah blah

now, in reference to this thread. i'm doing my part in instillling game into the minds of the less experienced because the more privy to the game men are, the less power these women have. when i hear a man say he finds nothing wrong with talking on the phone for 2 hours with a chick he's trying date, i know for a fact this is a very bad idea. and any one who argues with me on that is just plain stupid. and i say that not from an angle of arrogance, but from personal and many external experiences. When someone suggests painting or a museum as a first date, again, that is also a terribly foolish idea.

of course i know none of the guys in this thread nor am i invested in their well being, however, if they're not privy to the games women play, and the ways to deal successfully with women, they'll become simps one way or another and will further pollute the dating world. or may end up bitter and go do something stupid.

im just gonna leave it at that.


You stay dropping knowledge, so could you help me with my current situation if you need the back story let me know, I'm going to start listening to you guys more often,
 
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