Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Deafheaven]

You stay dropping knowledge, so could you help me with my current situation if you need the back story let me know, I'm going to start listening to you guys more often,

push for a date. if she gives you a lot of chaff over it go dead for a week. ask again. if that doesn't work bushes.

 

[Mr210]

push for a date. if she gives you a lot of chaff over it go dead for a week. ask again. if that doesn't work bushes.

Roger that, thanks

 

[TRUEST]

You stay dropping knowledge, so could you help me with my current situation if you need the back story let me know, I'm going to start listening to you guys more often,

if im correct, this is a chick u haven't met yet? she asked for a picture. u sent it to her, and u haven't spoken since?
if that's correct, move on breh. she doesn't like u. women get bombarded with so many messages that they have the luxury of nexting u for the slightest imperfection. she probably didn't like the pic.

next time u meet a chick online and she gives u her number, but during urs texts with her, u sense her attraction or concentration in the conversation is starting to wane, call her. women get attracted to various things but one of the top things is Voice. there's a reason people make millions being musicians or orators. u can speak bullsh1t but if u sspeak it well, u can have women eat out the palms of ur hands. when u do get on the phone though, do what u goto do, at the end, set up a date for possibly the next day or that night. and get off the phone!

 

[Fatboi1]

see u goto understand something. when u want to teach something to somebody, if the thing ur teaching them is important, there's a level of aggressiveness u have to apply to show the seriousness of the lesson ur teaching. if u had a child and ur child is playing very a pot of hot water, in what tone would u reprimand him?

hey my love. dont go near that pot.
hey my love, come stand right next to daddy.
hey my love, get away from there.

that's a very passive tone. a tone, that does not instill fright or caution in the child's mind. chances are, if ur not around, he wont remember u cautioning him, and he'll go play near a hot pot of boiling water, and u'll have urself to blame if something happens. and no, letting that child learn on his own is not an option because it could be a lesson he never recovers from.

if a child of urs is in fact playing with hot water, I expect ur tone to be on this level:

<his name> get away away from that!!!!!! be extremely careful when near a boiling pot of hot water. if ur not, u can be seriously hurt and disfigured. please baby, dont ever be reckless near any hot liquid.....blah blah blah

now, in reference to this thread. i'm doing my part in instillling game into the minds of the less experienced because the more privy to the game men are, the less power these women have. when i hear a man say he finds nothing wrong with talking on the phone for 2 hours with a chick he's trying date, i know for a fact this is a very bad idea. and any one who argues with me on that is just plain stupid. and i say that not from an angle of arrogance, but from personal and many external experiences. When someone suggests painting or a museum as a first date, again, that is also a terribly foolish idea.

of course i know none of the guys in this thread nor am i invested in their well being, however, if they're not privy to the games women play, and the ways to deal successfully with women, they'll become simps one way or another and will further pollute the dating world. or may end up bitter and go do something stupid.

im just gonna leave it at that.

ight so how do I get my $40 back from this chick? I haven't spoken to her in like a week.

 

[TRUEST]

ight so how do I get my $40 back from this chick? I haven't spoken to her in like a week.

be a man and let it go. lesson learned. dont be giving money to women (unless she's ur girl and has proven to be down for u in more ways than one) and dont be giving them the impression that it is ok to ask u for some sh1t like that.

 

[RichieRich]

be a man and let it go. lesson learned. dont be giving money to women (unless she's ur girl and has proven to be down for u in more ways than one) and dont be giving them the impression that it is ok to ask u for some sh1t like that.

Yup.
@Fatboi1
You spent $40 to see she aint shyt. Though you coulda saved that money and hit this thread up

 

[Bless't]

Brehs this thread has helped me a lot in recent time with women. I'm still getting over an ex of 4 1/2 years. I started real estate classes, gym like 4x a week, traveling. I'm building myself up but still hurt from that girl. What ovther advice can y'all give to move on and heal?

You're doing all the right things. Keep it up.

You'll hurt for a while. It's just... natural. Be strong, be focused on what you're accomplishing now and give it time. Cliche... I know. But one day you'll wake up and be like;

 

[TRUEST]

Brehs this thread has helped me a lot in recent time with women. I'm still getting over an ex of 4 1/2 years. I started real estate classes, gym like 4x a week, traveling. I'm building myself up but still hurt from that girl. What ovther advice can y'all give to move on and heal?

if u can, find someone who looks better. that always helps tremendously far more than anything...in my experience

 

[MikelArteta]

ight so how do I get my $40 back from this chick? I haven't spoken to her in like a week.

 

[MikelArteta]

It takes time some heal quick like Adrian peteeson some take a while longer.
Your doing what's necessary, get rid of pictures and mementos put them away, start going out on dates.

Brehs this thread has helped me a lot in recent time with women. I'm still getting over an ex of 4 1/2 years. I started real estate classes, gym like 4x a week, traveling. I'm building myself up but still hurt from that girl. What ovther advice can y'all give to move on and heal?

 

[Fatboi1]

be a man and let it go. lesson learned. dont be giving money to women (unless she's ur girl and has proven to be down for u in more ways than one) and dont be giving them the impression that it is ok to ask u for some sh1t like that.

Yeah I dont know why I gave it to her. I've never given money to a chick ever until now.

 

[MikelArteta]

been there lent a chick who was close to me a high 4 digit amount, was supposed to get it back a few weeks later only got back like 500.

Had to eat that big l

Yeah I dont know why I gave it to her. I've never given money to a chick ever until now.

 

[Mr210]

shyts drying up on okcupid, seeing the same women, I just sent out about another 15 messages, right now I have only gotten 3 numbers

 

[Mainevent_7]

shyts drying up on okcupid, seeing the same women, I just sent out about another 15 messages, right now I have only gotten 3 numbers

I can hop on OKC, Tinder, soulswipe and see the same women on all 3 dating website. Are they that desperate to find someone? Are they not capable of finding someone outside of online dating?

 

[Mr210]

I can hop on OKC, Tinder, soulswipe and see the same women on all 3 dating website. Are they that desperate to find someone? Are they not capable of finding someone outside of online dating?

I had never heard of soulswipe until today but yeah you have a point