lmao, for what? You didn't do anything to me. Say what you want, idcPlease put me on ignore
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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Get my dikk out of your mouth you fukking stalker
TheArchitect
All Star
I can kind of see where some people are coming from in this thread concerning just giving up the ghost.....
My luck with women is unreal. All I've wanted since I was a kid was just ONE TIME, if not more, could I just experience having a REAL gf, just be able to know what it's like. However, no matter what I did/do, nothing works out. The only time it ever does is if it's someone that I'm not even really attracted to like that (ie: my EX. I was only with her because after a lifetime of loneliness, I just wanted to know what it was like to actually be with someone. Huge mistake...). It's like I'm always the one getting brushed off, stunted on, ignored, etc....Even when I've done nothing wrong. Females being nice to me one day, the next day stunting for their friends like I'm somehow beneath them. Getting turned down by crush(es), only to see them in the hall hugged up with some next cat....it was fukking bad. Even when things were looking up *BOOM* radio silence *BOOM* Stunting for her friends *BOOM* She wants the next nikka with the "swag"....
Every. Single. Time. One thing or the other. Whether it's her acting funny, her friends or haters hating, or some other bullshyt, I always wind up in the cold while everyone else has a good time. Even when things looked up, all of a sudden I'm pretty sure I've lost friends because of this, and other females tend to judge you based on if other females fukk with you (which they weren't, so)......
It's too mentally frustrating and draining, and I've never had a good experience with a female to this day. They've caused me nothing but pain, misery, suffering, and frustration. It's a task in itself to even stay motivated. I try to keep negative thoughts out of my head, but when damn near all you know is negative it makes for a pretty big window for the negativity to seep in at any given time.
Sorry sometimes I make these long drawn out "woe is me" posts at times on here, but this seems to be the only place I can actually discuss this kind of thing without being judged/ talked about behind my back. I think this shyt is literally destroying my being from the inside, and I don't know if there really is anything I can do about it. There have been points where I would of welcomed Death like a favorite cousin I hadn't seen in years ...In hindsight.....I should of joined the military when I had the chance(s)....
Maybe I should just shut myself out completely and just do other things (I know I should always be concentrating on bettering myself which I do, but it's hard when you have this great desire like me, but your constantly being denied food for practically NOTHING.) Not too sound like a bytch, but this shyt HURTS.......VERY BAD.....It's almost like an aggressive yet slow-moving cancer is running through your body, but you can't get a cure....
Better yet, I think I'd better go to that Mental Help thread.....
My luck with women is unreal. All I've wanted since I was a kid was just ONE TIME, if not more, could I just experience having a REAL gf, just be able to know what it's like. However, no matter what I did/do, nothing works out. The only time it ever does is if it's someone that I'm not even really attracted to like that (ie: my EX. I was only with her because after a lifetime of loneliness, I just wanted to know what it was like to actually be with someone. Huge mistake...). It's like I'm always the one getting brushed off, stunted on, ignored, etc....Even when I've done nothing wrong. Females being nice to me one day, the next day stunting for their friends like I'm somehow beneath them. Getting turned down by crush(es), only to see them in the hall hugged up with some next cat....it was fukking bad. Even when things were looking up *BOOM* radio silence *BOOM* Stunting for her friends *BOOM* She wants the next nikka with the "swag"....
Every. Single. Time. One thing or the other. Whether it's her acting funny, her friends or haters hating, or some other bullshyt, I always wind up in the cold while everyone else has a good time. Even when things looked up, all of a sudden I'm pretty sure I've lost friends because of this, and other females tend to judge you based on if other females fukk with you (which they weren't, so)......
It's too mentally frustrating and draining, and I've never had a good experience with a female to this day. They've caused me nothing but pain, misery, suffering, and frustration. It's a task in itself to even stay motivated. I try to keep negative thoughts out of my head, but when damn near all you know is negative it makes for a pretty big window for the negativity to seep in at any given time.
Sorry sometimes I make these long drawn out "woe is me" posts at times on here, but this seems to be the only place I can actually discuss this kind of thing without being judged/ talked about behind my back. I think this shyt is literally destroying my being from the inside, and I don't know if there really is anything I can do about it. There have been points where I would of welcomed Death like a favorite cousin I hadn't seen in years ...In hindsight.....I should of joined the military when I had the chance(s)....
Maybe I should just shut myself out completely and just do other things (I know I should always be concentrating on bettering myself which I do, but it's hard when you have this great desire like me, but your constantly being denied food for practically NOTHING.) Not too sound like a bytch, but this shyt HURTS.......VERY BAD.....It's almost like an aggressive yet slow-moving cancer is running through your body, but you can't get a cure....
Better yet, I think I'd better go to that Mental Help thread.....
InDePickWest
Im Not American
We will never hook up but when we progress our platonic love and wish to enter into a best friend agreement I'll let you know.
root_eruditorium_org
All Star
Bro you want to know what it's like? It's not as awesome as you might think. I've had gfs here and there, but with most of them it was too much work on my end keeping the relationship afloat, I never really felt what it was like to have somebody be totally into me that I can just be myself and I'm not always plotting and scheming. Bro look how big this thread is - almost every guy has had chick problems. Your case is a bit extreme but there's lots of guys in your boat too. You gotta keep things in perspective dude. Get some hobbies or something or travel - it is not that serious - believe me when I say this. You might try not logging into the coli so much because you will start unfairly comparing yourself to guys whose circumstances are a lot different than yours and you will feel depressed. it's a marathon, not a race, keep ya head up homie.
reserved_one
#Ambivertgang
Passed up a good thing because I didnt think I'd be a good person for her to be with. Plus I think she only liked because I was the next best thing.
That could be true....She probably settled for you because other guys wasn't checking for her like that due to her being overweight. At the same time, good women are hard to find. You'll probably be kicking yourself for letting her go but you'll bounce back eventually.
nomoreneveragain
Superstar
Man having feelings for this girl makes me so vulnerable.
This is why I was chasing birds all this time.
This is why I was chasing birds all this time.
TheArchitect
All Star
5'8-5'9, one of the two...
Straw Hat Luffy
Veteran
Fam it urks my soul that I could be the funniest dude in my town that gets me a couple of messages from some girls but I know she only using me when she need more attention because the other 30 dudes and girls not enough.
You can tell convos don't be real or have any meaning the way someone puts an effort into it.
The most boring girl ever who's kinda big can have 50 new messages in one day from guys and girls because she got titties and a vag.
It seems like the most valuable conversations I ever have with a girl is when I'm dating her or she's an older lady whos value is gone so she looks forward to convos because no one wanna talk to her.
Its true like troy ave says she belongs to the game
And the shyt be annoying when u actually just wanna have a Convo with her. But she not gonna put any interest or energy in the convos if you're not popping or popular in the public or about drama.
What can you do tho right just part of the game.
Just had to vent lol.
You can tell convos don't be real or have any meaning the way someone puts an effort into it.
The most boring girl ever who's kinda big can have 50 new messages in one day from guys and girls because she got titties and a vag.
It seems like the most valuable conversations I ever have with a girl is when I'm dating her or she's an older lady whos value is gone so she looks forward to convos because no one wanna talk to her.
Its true like troy ave says she belongs to the game
And the shyt be annoying when u actually just wanna have a Convo with her. But she not gonna put any interest or energy in the convos if you're not popping or popular in the public or about drama.
What can you do tho right just part of the game.
Just had to vent lol.
guys, being resentful or feeling the need to vent does no good.
i've said it many times before, the world is changing and things are the way they are. women dont owe u sh1t. and u cant change the spoiled nature of the modern day woman.
what u can do is put urself in a position to use them for ur benefits. which means working on urself...and no, i'm not talking about the gym. there are many fit guys out there who live in the gym. if u spend all ur time "looking good", u'll damn near wanna kill urself if the woman u really want skips over u for someone who u perceive to be less "fit" than u.
working on urself, as i've said before is focusing on ur money. good looking fit people come a dime a dozen. people with an abundance of tangible resources (money), do not! this is a fact. i dont give a damn what anyone says. finding a dude who's 6'3 and dashingly gorgeous is not hard. go to the closest supermarket or mall and u'll find them. but finding a dude with money, yeah, that is an exotic status. so, which would u rather be? if ur short or ugly or whatever, obviously, the physical is out the window for you. but lucky for u, there's a variety of different ways to get a woman attracted to you.
when u do get ur money, if u are able to, this thread should be ur bible as to how to weed out women who may seek to use u for ur "resources".
i read the posts in here about guys who are hurt because they just aren't getting any positive attention from the women they want. and honestly, i feel really bad. like, really, i do. i cant imagine what it must feel like to not have had a girl u really like, like u back. that's a terrible way to live. but, like i've said, if u cant get women through ur looks, u have to put urself in a position that allows u to use them for ur benefits. women are attracted to the physical, as well as power, status, money. put urself in a position to acquire these "other" statuses, and u'll have a lot more options at ur disposal.
when ur money is right, then u can go live in the gym. sure, u can hit the gym and still work on ur money. but can u really? i know people that spend hours in the gym. and these people have 9 to 5 jobs. when u get done with ur 9 to 5, and u spend 2 hours at the gym, what time do u have left to devote to spending on really working on urself???
put urself in a position of power and u can use people however u want.
i've said it many times before, the world is changing and things are the way they are. women dont owe u sh1t. and u cant change the spoiled nature of the modern day woman.
what u can do is put urself in a position to use them for ur benefits. which means working on urself...and no, i'm not talking about the gym. there are many fit guys out there who live in the gym. if u spend all ur time "looking good", u'll damn near wanna kill urself if the woman u really want skips over u for someone who u perceive to be less "fit" than u.
working on urself, as i've said before is focusing on ur money. good looking fit people come a dime a dozen. people with an abundance of tangible resources (money), do not! this is a fact. i dont give a damn what anyone says. finding a dude who's 6'3 and dashingly gorgeous is not hard. go to the closest supermarket or mall and u'll find them. but finding a dude with money, yeah, that is an exotic status. so, which would u rather be? if ur short or ugly or whatever, obviously, the physical is out the window for you. but lucky for u, there's a variety of different ways to get a woman attracted to you.
when u do get ur money, if u are able to, this thread should be ur bible as to how to weed out women who may seek to use u for ur "resources".
i read the posts in here about guys who are hurt because they just aren't getting any positive attention from the women they want. and honestly, i feel really bad. like, really, i do. i cant imagine what it must feel like to not have had a girl u really like, like u back. that's a terrible way to live. but, like i've said, if u cant get women through ur looks, u have to put urself in a position that allows u to use them for ur benefits. women are attracted to the physical, as well as power, status, money. put urself in a position to acquire these "other" statuses, and u'll have a lot more options at ur disposal.
when ur money is right, then u can go live in the gym. sure, u can hit the gym and still work on ur money. but can u really? i know people that spend hours in the gym. and these people have 9 to 5 jobs. when u get done with ur 9 to 5, and u spend 2 hours at the gym, what time do u have left to devote to spending on really working on urself???
put urself in a position of power and u can use people however u want.