I feel like if I work on the physical, it will translate to the mental, which will spill over into the money. I don't want to rely solely on working out.but I feel that will get the ball rolling. I don't feel like I'll pull as much as I could by being overweight. But that's me. I could run into something, but again. That's just me.
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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nomoreneveragain
Superstar
Finances first.
You're going to find a girl that you really like and likes you back but she makes 40K more than you
Then What?
Youseenmywork
KING
Dealing with women starts mentally before it you try to fix everything else. I say that cause being rejected is apart of being a man and women don't feel that rejected on the FRONT END women deals with rejection on the back end.
Dealing with women starts mentally first.
Dealing with women starts mentally first.
A buddy just brought something up to me:
THey had drinks and an appetizer on Saturday for a first date. It lasted 3 hrs. They met again on Tuesday mid day for some coffe and talked for about 90 min. They are going out again on Friday. He was wondering should he ask to pick her up seeing as though they went in seperate cars the first 2 times
They have been texting everyday
THey had drinks and an appetizer on Saturday for a first date. It lasted 3 hrs. They met again on Tuesday mid day for some coffe and talked for about 90 min. They are going out again on Friday. He was wondering should he ask to pick her up seeing as though they went in seperate cars the first 2 times
They have been texting everyday
havoc
Superstar
Im not close to 500lbs but I've been changing my lifestyle lol.@ 500 lbs. You better go to the gym and change your diet.
Youseenmywork
KING
Elaborate
Well read some of things that is said on the in this thread. You can tell that some of the guys dont have fathers they was rasied by women . Some of these guys you can tell had some major heartbreak that has changed most of them...forever. Im an example of heartbreak i had one early june of this year. All the men in this thread have gone threw SOMETHING that brings them here to say there peace if you will. What other place you know were men can talk that shyt all the while being helped with whatever issue that thfeminism with a women.
The number thing i learned from my relationship this past june was im never not going to be number one in my life. My happines is going to be paroumount going forward dealing with any women. Your mind has to be the first place to start. This is a game you cant take it personally and you cant let it shake your essence as a man. Spirtuality, financial, health , cooking , goals etc should be the main focus . Im working on my mindset and everything else i mentioned. I posted the other day that the only thing keeping women at YOUR level mentally is that she has a vagina. Really besides feminism thats all men really need to conquer . This thread to me represnts men trying to conquer vagina and do it with their personality. You have to develop you as a man to take on ANYTHING in this world.
Ive been reading malcom x and the best part about the book is when he goes to jail and develops what would later be a froce to be reckon with. You have to develop from the mind and then touch other areas of your life that need a touch up or just weakness period. Learn to say fukk woman for a bit if you need to .
Youseenmywork
KING
Dont let him say that to you ...big bytches give the best hugs. Become a good hug connoisseur ..lol
RichieRich
Beg my pardon to Martin...
@Youseenmywork, did your mindset come before or after June?
If before, where did you go wrong?
If after, Have you been successful with this way of thinking?
If before, where did you go wrong?
If after, Have you been successful with this way of thinking?
yo yall ...all of yall listen to this audio from tariq...he dropped so much game....basically he dropped game as to why all of you in this thread she be trying to bag more DIMES instead of going at average chicks all the time...says dimes are easy to talk to
what he says is average chicks get the most attention because every guy comes to them because every guy is scared to step to dimes...
so therefore the average chicks often will try to get more things out of guys since they get all this attention...If you go to a club the chicks who are basic or average are getting the most thirst and the dimes are usually alone. Guys offering to do whatever for the average chicks so those chicks take the deal.
whether weed liquor...rent/phone billfavors etc.
The average chick or extra basic chick will be more likely to flake on dudes. The dime is mainly looking for great conversation if you have a good mouthpiece.
The dime is used to getting sex so she isn't gonna use that as a bargaining chip. She wants something different.
This is why so many times we have all said "____chick was mad stuck up...she wasn't even all that she was average!". bECAUSE we all keep going after them
It makes me think about guys like Camron...i mean he already smooth and got game...
But now that i think about it, it was probably extra easy for him to bag his girl Juju(the Black Cuban chick) when they first met.
What tariq says sounds crazy at first but if you think about it its true. So often when we hear females especially coli females saying guys are afraid to step to them...its true
But now that i think about it, it was probably extra easy for him to bag his girl Juju(the Black Cuban chick) when they first met.
What tariq says sounds crazy at first but if you think about it its true. So often when we hear females especially coli females saying guys are afraid to step to them...its true
Youseenmywork
KING
After... as far as putting it in to practice.Ive always know you should put yourself first but how do you do that and still get women was in the back of my mind. A lot of guys want a nice mouth piece a lot guys wanna deal with some beautiful women. What is bothering men is how do you blend all this knowledge into your personality so that you stand out from the next guy.
I just feel me need to attack their own weakness and demons and turn them into strengths. Make sure not to neglect your strengths...and work on them as well
I can say breh I've seen the difference in how discipline I am compared to years past. I'm my 20s I want disciplined which why I wasted a ton of time I didn't value time like I should have. Now how this translates to women I'm have to see but I can say I will be going with my gut a lot. Right now I've gotten a few more things accomplished since the break cause I'm ALL action now I want to achieve things and I enjoy doing that even thoe there is no women in my life that I'm pursuing. It's been a lot more action in my 30s so far I wanna keep it going. Sometimes you have to say fucck women for moment.
Women can't elevate you to your HIFHEST level as man anyway only you can do that. A women is just APART of your happiness. I'm better than most women. It took me to stop dealing with them for right now to see that thoe...as I strictly focus on myself.
basically he dropped game as to why all of you in this thread she be trying to bag more DIMES instead of going at average chicks all the time...says dimes are easy to talk to
what he says is average chicks get the most attention because every guy comes to them because every guy is scared to step to dimes...
so therefore the average chicks often will try to get more things out of guys since they get all this attention...If you go to a club the chicks who are basic or average are getting the most thirst and the dimes are usually alone. Guys offering to do whatever for the average chicks so those chicks take the deal.
whether weed liquor...rent/phone billfavors etc.
The average chick or extra basic chick will be more likely to flake on dudes. The dime is mainly looking for great conversation if you have a good mouthpiece.
The dime is used to getting sex so she isn't gonna use that as a bargaining chip. She wants something different.
This is why so many times we have all said "____chick was mad stuck up...she wasn't even all that she was average!". bECAUSE we all keep going after them
What gets guys sidetracked is that they mistaken dimes for average looking on a wider scale. Average could be considered in the eyes of dudes as a dime.
You go to certain places and Lisa rate looking chicks get treated like goddesses in small states but in LA Shed be treated average