Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[chipmarket]

Personally I make them work for it. Usually they start asking for commitment after we have had sex a couple times. They start asking questions like "What are we?"

Gotta be up front before that shyt comes out.. slip in a mention others girls you are talking too.. cancel the booty call one and a while.. and for damn sake dont let em sleep over too often.

 

[chipmarket]

I feel like if I work on the physical, it will translate to the mental, which will spill over into the money. I don't want to rely solely on working out.but I feel that will get the ball rolling. I don't feel like I'll pull as much as I could by being overweight. But that's me. I could run into something, but again. That's just me.

A sword will help you in battle but you can use your fists if you train. Ive seen 5'4" poor balding dudes pull hella hot chicks with their personality.. be confident.. be fun.. be the man..

 

[Kal El]

yo yall ...all of yall listen to this audio from tariq...he dropped so much game....

basically he dropped game as to why all of you in this thread she be trying to bag more DIMES instead of going at average chicks all the time...says dimes are easy to talk to

what he says is average chicks get the most attention because every guy comes to them because every guy is scared to step to dimes...

so therefore the average chicks often will try to get more things out of guys since they get all this attention...If you go to a club the chicks who are basic or average are getting the most thirst and the dimes are usually alone. Guys offering to do whatever for the average chicks so those chicks take the deal.

whether weed liquor...rent/phone billfavors etc.

The average chick or extra basic chick will be more likely to flake on dudes. The dime is mainly looking for great conversation if you have a good mouthpiece.

The dime is used to getting sex so she isn't gonna use that as a bargaining chip. She wants something different.

This is why so many times we have all said "____chick was mad stuck up...she wasn't even all that she was average!". bECAUSE we all keep going after them

I get this theory...... but from experience I just don't see it.

When I go out bar hopping the best looking girls in the building get swarmed... Hell I try to put in a bid too.

Same with social media... the dimes got hundreds if not thousands of followers thirsting over them.

 

[Lo-Co]

A sword will help you in battle but you can use your fists if you train. Ive seen 5'4" poor balding dudes pull hella hot chicks with their personality.. be confident.. be fun.. be the man..

Thats what I need to do. my nervousness is like someone constantly looking for a parking spot. I just want to get in where I fit in

 

[Lo-Co]

I feel like I built p*ssy up like it was a mythical dragon. The moment I hit college that was all on my mind. I've been spending the last couple of years undoing the mental knots I've tied in my head. I need to just go out and get rejected on purpose.

 

[Lo-Co]

Well read some of things that is said on the in this thread. You can tell that some of the guys dont have fathers they was rasied by women . Some of these guys you can tell had some major heartbreak that has changed most of them...forever. Im an example of heartbreak i had one early june of this year. All the men in this thread have gone threw SOMETHING that brings them here to say there peace if you will. What other place you know were men can talk that shyt all the while being helped with whatever issue that thfeminism with a women.

The number thing i learned from my relationship this past june was im never not going to be number one in my life. My happines is going to be paroumount going forward dealing with any women. Your mind has to be the first place to start. This is a game you cant take it personally and you cant let it shake your essence as a man. Spirtuality, financial, health , cooking , goals etc should be the main focus . Im working on my mindset and everything else i mentioned. I posted the other day that the only thing keeping women at YOUR level mentally is that she has a vagina. Really besides feminism thats all men really need to conquer . This thread to me represnts men trying to conquer vagina and do it with their personality. You have to develop you as a man to take on ANYTHING in this world.

Ive been reading malcom x and the best part about the book is when he goes to jail and develops what would later be a froce to be reckon with. You have to develop from the mind and then touch other areas of your life that need a touch up or just weakness period. Learn to say fukk woman for a bit if you need to .

I tried the fukk women shyt. Its hard to be cold. I honestly wish I was a colder person. I would have done more for myself than let everyone skip in line ahead of me. I've been on my own with this women shyt. I have brother, but he was off in his own world so I had to learn to swim by myself. Ive talked about being on the spectrum but I don't like using it as an excuse to not try. I at least fukked 2 women on my own so that's something. I've been like a bubble boy mentally. And I KNOW. I KNOW women out here would want a nikka like me. I'm not one of these"I'm not worthy" dudes anymore. That died when I graduated high school. I just need to dive into the deep end of rejection and swim

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

Done pulled around 10 numbers this week of women im interested in and none of em responding.

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

Quick random thoughts from someone who has learned a couple things the hard way and seen more than a few homies crash and burn:

-Don't go do OD googling/research into a girl you met. You may find out some things you didn't didn't need to know or weren't for you to knowThen you'll end up talking yourself out of a situation that could've been good.

-If a girl is kicking it with you and showing obvious interest she's doing it for a reason. Don't over analyze it, just go with it. Don't go asking her (or even yourself) why she's dealing with you. Your insecurities show and they are NOT attractive

-Others spoke to this but even after you meet a chick and you're dealing with her, DO NOT let that hamper you from improving yourself. Hit the gym, pursue school/education, get to the shmoney, keep at your hobbies/interests. Women LOVE men who stay true to their positive goals

-If you're getting to know someone there's nothing wrong with showing/communicating you're interested. DO NOT put her on a pedestal though. That's an easy way to get your emotions and mental health effed up. Trust me, women come and go. Even if you are in the ill drought of meeting women, as long as you stay focused on doing you (see previous point) and keeping positive the good ones will eventually find you

problem is that alota dudes dont know these obvious interests besides common sense like rubbing on you.

 

[Bless't]

A buddy just brought something up to me:

THey had drinks and an appetizer on Saturday for a first date. It lasted 3 hrs. They met again on Tuesday mid day for some coffe and talked for about 90 min. They are going out again on Friday. He was wondering should he ask to pick her up seeing as though they went in seperate cars the first 2 times
They have been texting everyday

I think its an appropriate move.

 

[Bless't]

Done pulled around 10 numbers this week of women im interested in and none of em responding.

Numbers really dont mean shyt nowadays.

We gather the bravado to approach, we chop it up and make them laugh for a brief moment then we shoot our shot for the number to see if its mutual...

Only to have our resulting excitement quickly brushed aside.

 

[Lo-Co]

fukk it. I'm going to all the events on campus. I'm not taking this shyt anymore.

 

[havoc]

There is a big girl at work making it obvious that she wants to smash. She has a cute face, and big boobs. My mind is like "hell nah, she is big" but my sexual urges is driving me crazy. I'm trying hard not to be desperate.. I dunno want to do something and regret it later.

 

[Mr210]

I have another date tonight, things are going really well. She just text me good morning, and went on to say she cant wait to see me tonight. I like the fact that she has been giving me compliments this tends to not happen with me until later down the road

 

[Bless't]

I have another date tonight, things are going really well. She just text me good morning, and went on to say she cant wait to see me tonight. I like the fact that she has been giving me compliments this tends to not happen with me until later down the road

Good luck breh.

 

[Mr210]

Good luck breh.

Thanks man, I'm really feeling this woman, this will be our 4th date tonight. She offered to bring me some food the other night that she cooked