Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Lo-Co]

I aint got a lot of experience. Rumors and shyt is all I've had to pull from to tell unless it's dead obvious

i feel like i just need to interact more for the moment. thats all i can do along with self improvement to build confidence.

 

[Youseenmywork]

How Is Approaching Women Related to Weightlifting

 

[havoc]

I said that I have, I have never. I made up some lie about some chick at a party when I was 15 and said it was a horrible experience. Then I said I felt violated, she then gave me this 15 minute long story about her being violated by this older dude who was a pimp.

Mood kill

I just ain't got no game when it comes to girls.

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This whole experience has made me think I don't got game at all. For nikkas all you gotta do is show up. I'm realizing I'm actually a lot lamer than I thought

Spoiler

A bytch actually did a happy dance when I seen that she called

Stop the facade and let her know what you want from her.

 

[DeuceZ]

Stopped reading at there's no such thing as a hoe

 

[Deafheaven]

Question when seriously dating a woman do you wait for her to bring up becoming exclusive or how do you handle it

Classically all the choosing should be done by the woman, but on the flipside Ive had girls go super cold because they never asked and I never brought it up so they just kind of drifted away. Its a lot of nikkas that act like there is a one tool fix for all woman woes and its honestlu imo a case by case basis. I dont think Im alone in that its getting to the point im 26. Ive been running game in some form or fashion for almost half my life. Im at the point where Im just focusing on being the best me. I present that and if the chick not digging it Im not bout to do some hot n cold wait a week and see how see feels quasi manipulation joint to get her interested. If you really like that chick and you think ahe good people bring it up. Or dont. Its no definite answer in any of this shyt ive found and some times ahit that classicly is looked down upon will get you laid while playing by the book you get ahot down. Stop operating out of hazy fear is the only thing I think can aplly to everyone.

 

[TRUEST]

Classically all the choosing should be done by the woman, but on the flipside Ive had girls go super cold because they never asked and I never brought it up so they just kind of drifted away. Its a lot of nikkas that act like there is a one tool fix for all woman woes and its honestlu imo a case by case basis. I dont think Im alone in that its getting to the point im 26. Ive been running game in some form or fashion for almost half my life. Im at the point where Im just focusing on being the best me. I present that and if the chick not digging it Im not bout to do some hot n cold wait a week and see how see feels quasi manipulation joint to get her interested. If you really like that chick and you think ahe good people bring it up. Or dont. Its no definite answer in any of this shyt ive found and some times ahit that classicly is looked down upon will get you laid while playing by the book you get ahot down. Stop operating out of hazy fear is the only thing I think can aplly to everyone.

nah a man should never be the one bringing that sh1t up. let the woman choose. it shows how much she wants u. a chick who wants to be urs wont wait for u to say sh1t.
its a position of weakness when men bring it up before the woman. shows ur more into her than she's into u.

in every relationship, there's always one person who is more emotionally invested than the other. if you're a man, make sure that's not you! bringing this sh1t up, or feeeling the need to bring it up shows THAT IS YOU.

 

[Deafheaven]

nah a man should never be the one bringing that sh1t up. let the woman choose. it shows how much she wants u. a chick who wants to be urs wont wait for u to say sh1t.
its a position of weakness when men bring it up before the woman. shows ur more into her than she's into u.

in every relationship, there's always one person who is more emotionally invested than the other. if you're a man, make sure that's not you! bringing this sh1t up, or feeeling the need to bring it up shows THAT IS YOU.

Like I get where you coming from, believe me I do. I read that book you gave me like five times. So I get it. But I'm at the point where I'm just about over living my life having to be like "hmm I hope I don't say the wrong thing here, or fukk I just missed a escalation window, oh man I asked her out on 4 days after our last date I fukked uppp" Like my nikka I don't feel like thats how shyt should be. I'm focusing on being the greatest version of me I can be. If a woman doesn't want that then thats her problem not mine. I want shyt to be organic. Not me have to constantly cite info from others (albeit mostly good info). Some women stay with beta ass nikkas they whole life, some stay with abusers, and some up and leave confident alpha nikkas just because they can. Its like no matter what you do you can't read minds so its way to much stress on yourself to try to be ubermensch of seduction. Just do your thing, don't be overly needy or insecure and I don't see how shyt won't fall into place. while I don't dispute the gems dropped in here at the end of the day we all our own men. and if someone personally believes that telling a women he wants to be a couple will lead to fruitful relationship then I say do it. The whole "asking first shows weakness" seems to be operating out of fear of how you will be perceived and if you trill you honestly shouldn't give two fukks and just do what you feel like.

 

[Brandsdale]

Yeah breh I don't want to play games neither, I'd love to be genuine and full of morals. It's only gassed up hos out here breh

it sucks
its annoying
its mind boggling
you might overthink shyt
you might get your self-esteem hurt
you might get annoyed

but.....what are you gonna do to get p*ssy?

just gotta man up and play along with the games and play these hoes back.

 

[Rozay Oro]

it sucks
its annoying
its mind boggling
you might overthink shyt
you might get your self-esteem hurt
you might get annoyed

but.....what are you gonna do to get p*ssy?

just gotta man up and play along with the games and play these hoes back.

Well said. It's how the game goes. Be got or get her first.

 

[TRUEST]

Like I get where you coming from, believe me I do. I read that book you gave me like five times. So I get it. But I'm at the point where I'm just about over living my life having to be like "hmm I hope I don't say the wrong thing here, or fukk I just missed a escalation window, oh man I asked her out on 4 days after our last date I fukked uppp" Like my nikka I don't feel like thats how shyt should be. I'm focusing on being the greatest version of me I can be. If a woman doesn't want that then thats her problem not mine. I want shyt to be organic. Not me have to constantly cite info from others (albeit mostly good info). Some women stay with beta ass nikkas they whole life, some stay with abusers, and some up and leave confident alpha nikkas just because they can. Its like no matter what you do you can't read minds so its way to much stress on yourself to try to be ubermensch of seduction. Just do your thing, don't be overly needy or insecure and I don't see how shyt won't fall into place. while I don't dispute the gems dropped in here at the end of the day we all our own men. and if someone personally believes that telling a women he wants to be a couple will lead to fruitful relationship then I say do it. The whole "asking first shows weakness" seems to be operating out of fear of how you will be perceived and if you trill you honestly shouldn't give two fukks and just do what you feel like.

i get what ur saying, but u goto understand, everything around u operates on rules. i say this to say that, when in a relationship, there's one thing u dont have control of, and thats how the person u really like makes u feel. granted, u do have control over this at the beginning stages of relatiionship, before u've invested emotions. but once ur emotions have been deeply rooted in a relationship, if u dont follow certain rules and regulations, u can be sure heartbreak isn't too far behind.

these rules aren't that many. it just appears that way because this page is long. but what it really comes down to is:

1. Be a man in ur relationship. Lead
2. Respect yourself - Do not let anyone disrespect u
3. Do not neglect dating ur woman just because u've got her. That doesn't mean wasting money on an ungrateful woman. Dont be ur girl's girlfriend. Be her man!!!
4. Be able to walk away from any one or situation if the situation warrants it
5. Be the best you can be - Meaning; Have a purpose in life, make money, set urself apart from the everyday man. Work out

 

[Brandsdale]

Well said. It's how the game goes. Be got or get her first.

dawg trust me, I actually sat down the other day and analyzed this shyt and even hit up my best friend for advice cause I was fed up with being ignored, being burned, having bytches answer text messages I forgot I sent 5 hours ago alot of dumb shyt. You really gotta say MUTHAfukk being conservative and be daring, aggressive or go for yours. If that means sending risky text messages and shyt well then so be it. Sometimes even give something thats inviting and gives a chic a reason to come thru and what not.

 

[Rich Spirit]

these rules aren't that many. it just appears that way because this page is long. but what it really comes down to is:

1. Be a man in ur relationship. Lead
2. Respect yourself - Do not let anyone disrespect u
3. Do not neglect dating ur woman just because u've got her. That doesn't mean wasting money on an ungrateful woman. Dont be ur girl's girlfriend. Be her man!!!
4. Be able to walk away from any one or situation if the situation warrants it
5. Be the best you can be - Meaning; Have a purpose in life, make money, set urself apart from the everyday man. Work out

This right here is GOLD! I've seen that happen a lot in relationships and its one of the reasons of failed relationships. Some dudes would just stop courting their women after they get into a relationship.

no matter is she's your wife or girlfriend, you must always court her. The courtship never ends.

 

[root_eruditorium_org]

Like I get where you coming from, believe me I do. I read that book you gave me like five times. So I get it. But I'm at the point where I'm just about over living my life having to be like "hmm I hope I don't say the wrong thing here, or fukk I just missed a escalation window, oh man I asked her out on 4 days after our last date I fukked uppp" Like my nikka I don't feel like thats how shyt should be. I'm focusing on being the greatest version of me I can be. If a woman doesn't want that then thats her problem not mine. I want shyt to be organic. Not me have to constantly cite info from others (albeit mostly good info). Some women stay with beta ass nikkas they whole life, some stay with abusers, and some up and leave confident alpha nikkas just because they can. Its like no matter what you do you can't read minds so its way to much stress on yourself to try to be ubermensch of seduction. Just do your thing, don't be overly needy or insecure and I don't see how shyt won't fall into place. while I don't dispute the gems dropped in here at the end of the day we all our own men. and if someone personally believes that telling a women he wants to be a couple will lead to fruitful relationship then I say do it. The whole "asking first shows weakness" seems to be operating out of fear of how you will be perceived and if you trill you honestly shouldn't give two fukks and just do what you feel like.

I agree with you but it's just not a very popular opinion in this thread.

Some guys hit this stage late ... or never.

 

[Deafheaven]

I agree with you but it's just not a very popular opinion in this thread.

Some guys hit this stage late ... or never.

Yeah I feel we towing the line between pua shyt and real world application here. If you want text a chick more than 2/3 as much as she does you go the fukk ahead. But its nikka who will call you aoft and fukking up. If you happy and getting laid fukk it. Its 50/50 this chick can walj away from you at any time whether you been together a few weeks or decades. So in that period if you worrying about whether you running game the whole time the stress is gonna insane unless that shyt is so ingrained in you it literally is your true self.

 

[MikelArteta]

This right here is GOLD! I've seen that happen a lot in relationships and its one of the reasons of failed relationships. Some dudes would just stop courting their women after they get into a relationship.

no matter is she's your wife or girlfriend, you must always court her. The courtship never ends.

every thursday I take my girl out whetehr its just for ice cream, or just to walk around the mall.