Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

This right here is GOLD! I've seen that happen a lot in relationships and its one of the reasons of failed relationships. Some dudes would just stop courting their women after they get into a relationship.

no matter is she's your wife or girlfriend, you must always court her. The courtship never ends.

every thursday I take my girl out whetehr its just for ice cream, or just to walk around the mall.

 

[MikelArteta]

This right here is GOLD! I've seen that happen a lot in relationships and its one of the reasons of failed relationships. Some dudes would just stop courting their women after they get into a relationship.

no matter is she's your wife or girlfriend, you must always court her. The courtship never ends.

every thursday I take my girl out whetehr its just for ice cream, or just to walk around the mall.

 

[MikelArteta]

This right here is GOLD! I've seen that happen a lot in relationships and its one of the reasons of failed relationships. Some dudes would just stop courting their women after they get into a relationship.

no matter is she's your wife or girlfriend, you must always court her. The courtship never ends.

every thursday I take my girl out whetehr its just for ice cream, or just to walk around the mall.

 

[Deafheaven]

Quad post rofl this sitr

 

[Kal El]

nah a man should never be the one bringing that sh1t up. let the woman choose. it shows how much she wants u. a chick who wants to be urs wont wait for u to say sh1t.
its a position of weakness when men bring it up before the woman. shows ur more into her than she's into u.

in every relationship, there's always one person who is more emotionally invested than the other. if you're a man, make sure that's not you! bringing this sh1t up, or feeeling the need to bring it up shows THAT IS YOU.

THIS. ALL OF THIS

You lose the upper hand if you bring up the exclusive talk first.

 

[Mr210]

Going out again Thursday morning for breakfast before she has her first appointment with a client

 

[Kal El]

Like I get where you coming from, believe me I do. I read that book you gave me like five times. So I get it. But I'm at the point where I'm just about over living my life having to be like "hmm I hope I don't say the wrong thing here, or fukk I just missed a escalation window, oh man I asked her out on 4 days after our last date I fukked uppp" Like my nikka I don't feel like thats how shyt should be. I'm focusing on being the greatest version of me I can be. If a woman doesn't want that then thats her problem not mine. I want shyt to be organic. Not me have to constantly cite info from others (albeit mostly good info). Some women stay with beta ass nikkas they whole life, some stay with abusers, and some up and leave confident alpha nikkas just because they can. Its like no matter what you do you can't read minds so its way to much stress on yourself to try to be ubermensch of seduction. Just do your thing, don't be overly needy or insecure and I don't see how shyt won't fall into place. while I don't dispute the gems dropped in here at the end of the day we all our own men. and if someone personally believes that telling a women he wants to be a couple will lead to fruitful relationship then I say do it. The whole "asking first shows weakness" seems to be operating out of fear of how you will be perceived and if you trill you honestly shouldn't give two fukks and just do what you feel like.

I get where you're coming from breh.

I learned the hard way from making most of these mistakes, so now following the "blueprint" so to speak just comes naturally.

The problem with the "Just be yourself, let things flow naturally" approach is that guys who are good catches have a few beta tendencies that will make girls dry up real quick. Just gotta know which cardinal sins NOT to make.......there shouldn't be that much thinking involved.

 

[Deafheaven]

I get where you're coming from breh.

I learned the hard way from making most of these mistakes, so now following the "blueprint" so to speak just comes naturally.

The problem with the "Just be yourself, let things flow naturally" approach is that guys who are good catches have a few beta tendencies that will make girls dry up real quick. Just gotta know which cardinal sins NOT to make.......there shouldn't be that much thinking involved.

Yea I agree. Im pretty good looking, good job, can cook, confident, in shape. Im short but Im a pretty good catch. My cardinal sin is that Im way too affectionate and caring as cray that sounds. I didnt get any from my folks so I treat women like queens. Not on some imma buy you bullshyt, but just real considerate and thoughtful. That shyt is coo but my prob is giving it to chicks who deserve it. On and Im neurotic and emotional like a bytch to be honest. Its a strug to keep it in check sometimes but over the years Ive been able to curtial that from really appearing to only several times a year

 

[CASHAPP]

boy i dont know how women are gonna choose between men 15 years from now. gonna be a tough choice

 

[TRUEST]

I get where you're coming from breh.

I learned the hard way from making most of these mistakes, so now following the "blueprint" so to speak just comes naturally.

The problem with the "Just be yourself, let things flow naturally" approach is that guys who are good catches have a few beta tendencies that will make girls dry up real quick. Just gotta know which cardinal sins NOT to make.......there shouldn't be that much thinking involved.

i understand the reluctance of those who dont wanna follow the rules. but i cringe when i hear them say "ooo i dont want to do xyz because it just doesn't feel natural or i dont want to have to do xyz because of whatever".

as u mentioned, there are things that dry up women very quickly. it will behoove these dudes to understand what those things are and avoid them, that's if of course they want to do well with the opposite sex.

i say this from past experience way back in my younger days. i am what many would consider a very good looking guy and i'm not saying that to brag. but when a girl sees u and is instantly attracted, but from talking with u, u see her interest dwindle, eventually, u learn what not to say and what not to do.

if being urself means u end up with a dry d1ck, then, what benefit is that for you? if u want to have a wet d1ck, u better reinvent urself or learn the rules of the game, or both. crying woe is me is not gonna get u anywhere.

 

[Mr210]

We are actually meeting for breakfast today and tomorrow

 

[LoMax30]

Anyone in here had any experiences in dating where you/she was a drinker or weed smoker and the other person wasn't? How did it pan out?

 

[TRUEST]

Anyone in here had any experiences in dating where you/she was a drinker or weed smoker and the other person wasn't? How did it pan out?

if you're the weed smoker/drinker, and she isnt, if she really likes u, she'll most likely want to participate in those activities with u and u have the potential to turn her out, if ur into that kinda thing.

if she's the smoker/drinker and you're not, there are many problems for you in the future. these types of women cant be trusted. their emotions are like a wild (not normal) rollercoaster.

 

[John Reena]

Bruhhhhh


I had a dime hit me up on FB, flirty n shyt. She sent me flicks, I set up a date....stood me up.

U gotta love it lol!

 

[Mr210]

Great breakfast date